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Nonprofit grants manager in financial policy/advocacy. Recovering educator & librarian. Former host & producer of I Don't Know Her Podcast & 2018 Lambda Literary Fellow. Opinions are my own. 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈

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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 7h
I mean, I think she’s a complete grifter, so this is a lose-lose situation for Montana/Montanans, tbh. You’re right that Bodnar should have just run as a fucking Dem. But this sucks all around.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
wait, tell me more—i only know about two places. wait—i know about three places (that’s probably plenty lol, but still curious!)
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Congratulations on being a National Book Award finalist! I gasped and clapped when I saw the news.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Omg!! I read a one-sentence summary of this in the morning briefing that described it as “sexually suggestive.” That tepid description did not prepare me for just how skeezy that was!
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
My Republican Rep (Baumgartner) occasionally sends out one-question “polls” to his selected people on his email list (I am not selected lol). Last week the question was about Gaza. I guarantee he wasn’t expecting nearly 36% of respondents to declare Israel is committing genocide.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Montana State losing to Idaho by one point & plummeting them in the rankings is ruining my weekend.
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Congresswoman Pramila Jayapal @jayapal.house.gov · 01/10/2026
ICE has notified me that another person has died in their custody. This is the 58th death under ICE’s watch since Trump returned to office. That’s 58 too many. We need to dismantle ICE, eliminate private, for-profit detention centers, and reform our broken immigration system.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I recently discovered Buck Mason & now I have to try to forget it bc the alternative is being eyeballs deep in debt while looking amazing.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I built my wife’s business website on Wix. It was mostly pain-free & had editing/design tools. Less than Wordpress, though.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
We have to start building the no bailout framework TODAY bc these fuckers are going to pull the same “too big to fail” bullshit that the banks did in 2008 when this all inevitably crashes. I read the other day that the AI bubble is 4x the size of the subprime bubble & 17x(!!!) the dot com one.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Literally, I had never heard OF this song or this singer until Friday, when NPR said it was the longest running song on the Billboard charts or something. I have truly never heard this song—even now. I even made a comment to my wife about how this exemplifies the loss of monoculture.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
It actually started with a TikTok from a woman who does like job advice or whatever & what she actually said was completely anodyne. She said that bringing an iced coffee to an interview was casual, which may not always be appropriate & she would advise against it. That’s it. 🫠
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
So much of what they offer is shit no one asked for. The one that infuriates me the most is the star at the bottom of a Google Doc that makes scrolling impossible & its whole job is editing a doc you’re presumably already editing…
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
If I didn’t know that we live in separate places, I would have thought you were talking about a specific org in my city 🫢
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I’ve also witness it take down whole-ass nonprofits.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I was a teacher in public schools for 17 years. Over the course of those years, I taught across K-12 in four different school districts & in 6 different schools & in two different states. All of them moved in the direction of abandoning whole texts.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I mean, most schools don’t have students read whole books anymore, so this isn’t that unique. That’s the curriculum that’s been pushed on public schools for the last 10 years & most have adopted it. My last admin actively discouraged teaching whole books in English class. It’s bleak out here!
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
She was just a finalist for a Lambda Literary Award for The New Lesbian Pulp.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
That’s such a bummer, but also, I do have a real and legitimate friend who might be interested. Here’s her artist insta: www.instagram.com/shrimpwonder/
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I know I should be above this, but seeing this headline in the morning briefing this morning immediately filled me with rage.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Washington state folks—have kids who would want to talk to a journalist about these initiatives?
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Echoing Evan here. This essay is so, so good & is a damning indictment of our education system, especially in NYC. As a former educator, I saw glimpses of my own experiences trying to push against a system designed to fail.
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Max Kennerly @maxkennerly.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
If you're a Dem who thinks you'll gain something by going anti-trans, look at Gallup's "most important problem" and Fox News' "most important issue" polling and see where trans issues rank. Whoever told you going anti-trans is a savvy or necessary move spends too much time on X and should be fired.
Gallup polling. "LGBTQ rights" moves between 0 and 1%.Fox news polling. Wokeness/transgender issues at 0%.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
*Clarifying—his words about PFT, not mine
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Peter @notalawyer.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
a lot of people act like there's a trade being offered where we give up trans athletes in sports and in exchange fascism is defeated forever
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
I’m so disappointed in so many people right now. In that thread, a cis gay fashion blogger I’ve loved & followed for more than a decade compared PFT to a ratfucking republican for posting this. When I (lightly) pushed back, he blocked me. What do you need enemies for with allies like that?
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
A story in three screenshots.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Absolutely fucking hilarious to me that I just got blocked for literally the mildest of criticism of tomandlorenzo—a blog I have followed since nearly its inception. What a perfect distillation of how fragile cis people are when confronted with their own shitty views.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Paul doesn’t allow quote replying, so a screenshot will have to do. He is not talking about the party, he is talking about voters (apparently like you?) who are saying vote blue no matter who at the expense of trans people.
Screenshot of Paul’s 5th reply in the thread saying, “I am not saying this guy represents the entire Democratic Party. I am pointing out that what he is saying is what I see a lot of Dem voters saying. I then go on to say that Dems are not perfect on trans rights. Current election talking points bear this out."
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
…that’s not at all what’s happening here and frankly, this take from you, of all people, is beyond disappointing.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Louder for the idiots in the back.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Just watched the trailer—it looks beautifully shot.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
I would be very tempted to do low-level vandalism to these cars. 😅 Like that guy on Instagram who puts “you park like a dick” stickers on cars that are in handicap cross hatches or straddling two spots, etc.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
What unflinching support exactly? If we had unflinching support from the so-called opposition party, we wouldn’t be watching our civil rights being rolled back on a weekly (sometimes daily) basis. We had more rights in more states 5 years ago than we do today. That doesn’t happen with Rs alone.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Yes—which is also why trans people’s insistence that Ds stop backpedaling & throwing us to the wolves for mythical unicorn centrist votes is not just bad for us, IT DOESN’T WORK. No one wants to vote for the “I have no spine & will never stand up for you” party. Get your shit together, Dems.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
I don’t know why my instagram algorithm inundated me with the videos of this yesterday, but I saw more of that than I ever needed in my life.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
I watched I Love Boosters last weekend & Maddie’s Secret (again) this weekend. Those two also complement each other quite well too!
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Case in point: when the WA progressive voters’ guide endorsed a centrist over a legitimate progressive bc they thought he had a better chance of winning in the general, THEY WERE FUCKING WRONG. He lost BY SO MUCH in the primary. This is not a winning strategy!
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
I don’t live in a swing state, so my vote doesn’t really matter in the long run, but I would rather walk over a bed of broken glass than vote for anyone who is willing to throw me to the wolves for a centrist mythical unicorn vote.
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Erin Reed @erininthemorning.com · 11/09/2026
I just want to say, the fact that so many Dems are coming out and saying shitty things about trans people in the last two weeks is a case in point of what I have been working so hard to sound the alarm on. I've been so hard on each individual dem who breaks for years now. I feared this.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
This scared me for a minute, but we do still have Seth Meyers as well, who I like much, much more than Fallon.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Agreed. Also, more Merritt Wever on my screen, please!
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
She is usually savvier than this. What a disappointment.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Unbelievable was so good, but even more bleak than the others imo because it was a true story. I think I heard the story initially via an episode of This American Life?
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
I didn’t hear about it until opening up Bluesky and seeing your posts today. I get “breaking news” alerts from the NYT still (despite not being a subscriber anymore). What happened to Acton didn’t make the cut. But this did on Saturday.
screenshot of breaking news alert that says “Trump administration plan would pay at-home parents"
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
I read this earlier in the week & boy, I thought I knew what was coming, but it was certainly worse. The levels of deception were unreal. And the German legal system, in this regard especially, is fucked.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Watch out for this patent misinformation here & elsewhere. The WA state bill literally says girls have to do a chromosome test (which insurance won’t cover/would be costly & not-at-all timely) OR—the more likely & accessible option—a fucking GENITAL INSPECTION.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
It’s not just taxes on the wealthy, but closing many, many tax loopholes that serve the wealthy & corporations (like the carried interest loophole). Plus, as others have said, reducing spending on defense (& ICE!) would certainly help.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
I love that show. The creator also did Dying for Sex & The Dropout (Elizabeth Holmes story). I will watch anything she touches. Alden (Steve Way) is my favorite character. Episode 6 really cemented that for me. Incredible comic timing & he is a breath of fresh air in an otherwise very intense show.
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AVM @avmead.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
Well, shit. That’s my city & a neighborhood close to mine. Very well could have been me, my wife, my home. He had small flags in a clay pot. We have a giant flag hanging on our porch, as do our neighbors (an elderly couple with an adult trans son). New fear unlocked.
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