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Itzel Hayward

@attunedliving.bsky.social
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Musings on nonjudgmental awareness as a path to clarity, connection, and meaningful change—results may vary. Find me on Insight Timer to meditate together: insighttimer.com/attunedliving On Lisjan Ohlone land.

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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 19/06/2025
I had so much fun doing this interview with Heather Anderson, founder and CEO of @themamahood.bsky.social — I hope you enjoy it!
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Returning to Remember: A Journey of Wholeness with Itzel Hayward — The Mamahood
Interview by Heather Anderson
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
All aspects of life flow in a continuous cycle of creation, preservation, and transformation—a reminder that even this moment is a chance to renew and reimagine our world.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
Pause. Sit. Open the heart. Quiet the mind. #Meditation #OMCruBlue
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
There is a loving force in the universe. Let it lead you.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 01/04/2025
Our ability to remain calm in the face of uncertainty and chaos can uplift those around us. Each act of centered awareness we take can become the beacon of hope that guides us all toward safety and strength.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
Due to a late cancellation, we now have a room available for one or two people (your choice) at the upcoming 4-day Yoga retreat that I’m co-leading at the Commonweal Retreat center in Bolinas, California this weekend. Visit link for details and to register: integralyogasf.org/retreats/
The backs of me wearing all white and Swami Ramananda wearing all orange as we sit side-by-side on a grassy bluff overlooking the ocean in Bolinas, California. We are gazing out at the ocean while being bathed in the warm glow of the sunset.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 29/03/2025
Quiet moments are an opportunity to attune to the subtle, sacred rhythm—the ceaseless pulsation of life—that connects all beings. Even when the path seems lonely, you are never truly alone.
A single tall white calla lily with broad green leaves grows in a small flowerbed. The flower stands against a white stucco wall, and a small cluster of succulents is arranged around its base. A red brick border edges the planting area.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
Brittney helped me to transition to BlueSky when I was just getting started. Happy to support her and Donk’s return to this platform.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
Take steps toward change — no matter how small, no matter the setbacks. Our actions matter. And every effort, every struggle, is a testament to that fact.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 25/03/2025
Take a moment to breathe, center, and show up for your community. Your presence is powerful and every compassionate act you take helps to nurture the possibility of our collective liberation.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 23/03/2025
Our collective future depends on how we nurture our hearts, minds, and spirits. Staying grounded in compassion can help us rise above the noise and reshape our world.
A 7-story building with ornate window frames and a fire escape. On the side of the building is a large mural painted in shades of gold depicting two human brains on slender stems. Each brain-plant has leaves and long roots extending downward, creating a surreal botanical image against the backdrop of the building’s white exterior and the clear blue sky in the background.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 22/03/2025
Even when rage or despair seem overwhelming, your commitment to and belief in a world where all beings are free are the seeds of change. Tend them well.
A basket filled with large, green avocados, many still attached to short stems. A small branch from the avocado tree with glossy leaves still attached rests on top of the avocados.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 21/03/2025
Your anger and sorrow are proof that the possibility of our collective liberation is alive in you. Let your feelings guide you toward action rather than isolation.
A plant made up of multiple tall spires covered with small purple-blue flowers rise above a dense cluster of narrow, silvery-green leaves. The sky in the background is soft and partially cloudy.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 20/03/2025
Click link below to join me in honoring the Spring Equniox, a time of balance and renewal when day and night stand in harmony. Together, we’ll embrace the abundance of life, and welcome the energy of the changing seasons. Thursday, 9AM PT. insig.ht/e/ZjsGyO9ASRb #SpringEquinox #Meditation #Free
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 20/03/2025
Every act of community building undermines those who benefit from our separation. When we stand together, we move closer to creating a foundation capable of upholding a just future.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
Fear is one of the most powerful weapons of the forces of division. Connection is an act rebellion. Let our shared humanity be the ground on which we stand united. Let it guide us to our liberation.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
Find the beauty. Find the joy. Even in the midst of chaos, it is there.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
There’s only one spot left, my friends. I’d love to sit with you and to touch into joy with you!
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
#meditation
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
None of us can survive alone — we need each other. Celebrate Panamanian culture and support my dad’s search for a blood stem cell donor at ¡Panamá Presente! — a free event. Let’s stand together to nurture our communities and build futures where every life can flourish: linktr.ee/lou4life
A cream-colored flyer with a red and blue airmail-style border. At the top, bold text reads “¡Panamá Presente!” beneath the tagline “Come for la cultura, stay for the cause,” alongside a small postage stamp graphic. 

Event details appear in red and blue text: “Food by Chiricana Cocina Panameña + handcrafted drinks in collaboration with Open Test Kitchen,” “Sun 3.09.25, 11am–2pm,” and “Open Test Kitchen, 528 8th Street, Oakland,” plus social media handles @chiri_cana and @teamlou411life. 

The flyer describes a “vibrant showcase of food and culture benefiting Lou Berrio, a Panamanian elder searching for a blood stem cell donor.” A photo of a smiling older man and a child is featured in the bottom-right. A red button labeled “Register Here” with a QR code appears at the bottom.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
Presence. Acceptance. Awareness. These aren’t calls to passivity or resignation—they’re invitations to face the bare truth of this moment. With this clarity, we can access wisdom and courage. With wisdom and courage, we can forge a future rooted in liberation and empowerment for all.
Close-up of pink cherry blossoms in bloom on a slender branch, set against a bright blue sky. A lush green hillside and the Oakland, California skyline are visible in the distance, softly blurred in the background.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 02/03/2025
A tree with shallow roots cannot stand. A regime built on oppressing the masses and serving only a few is destined to fall.
A tall, slender tree rises above dense, vibrant green foliage in the Ghanaian rainforest of Kakum National Park. The sky is partly cloudy, and a faint horizon is visible in the distance.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
They want us scattered, exhausted, doubting our own power. Because they know that together, we are stronger than they will ever be. So we move in solidarity, with the fierce refusal to leave anyone behind. We know our power. And we know collective action is the path to collective liberation.
A large, dark rock formation with a rough, weathered surface rises against a bright blue sky. Smaller rocks surround its base, with dry, pale shrubs in the foreground. In the distant background, the San Francisco Bay stretches toward the horizon, with the iconic cranes of the Port of Oakland visible along the shoreline.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
Let beauty inspire you.
Low-angle photo looking up between two tall buildings framing the hazy Oakland sky. The bright sun is partially behind one of the buildings, creating a large, faint halo arching across the image.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 21/02/2025
Fighting injustice isn’t just about what we resist but what we grow. We work to uproot harm, yes, but we also plant justice. We cultivate solidarity. We build new ways of being together. Keep going. What we nurture now will shape what’s possible.
A low wall made of irregularly shaped rocks and broken concrete pieces, some stacked haphazardly. Ivy spills over the wall from the hill above, mingling with dense green shrubs and vines.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 21/02/2025
I’m co-hosting a 4-day silent yoga retreat April 3–6 in Bolinas, CA. Join me to experience the transformative power of joy, resilience, and stillness. Co-hosted by Swami Ramananda + kirtan by Astrud Castillo. Use code RETREAT by 3/3 for $125 off. Register: momence.com/Swami%E2%80%...
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4 Day Yoga Retreat: Cultivating Joy and Resilience in Uncertain Times
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
Each moment is an opportunity to co-create our world with mindfulness and intention. Thank you, @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social, for this reminder.
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“Every minute of every hour of every day you are making the world, just as you are making yourself, and you might as well do it with generosity and kindness and style.

Rebecca Solnit” 

The image is a screenshot from the Insight Timer app.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
As we stand against systemic injustice and state-sanctioned violence, let’s also take time to gather with friends and loved ones. Strengthen the bonds that hold you. The road ahead is long—let connection be your shelter and community its foundation.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
The colder it gets, the more vibrant these become. Let’s also use the challenges we’re facing today to deepen into something beautiful: justice rooted in love, solidarity that holds, and a world where all beings can thrive.
A close-up of a planter box with three rows of three ornamental cabbages and kales in shades of purple and white. They are arranged in a structured pattern, with white plants forming a cross shape at the center and purple plants filling the corners. Their ruffled, layered leaves are surrounded by mulch and other greenery.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 16/02/2025
Spring reminds us that change is inevitable. Even after the harshest season, life pushes through— tender, persistent, defiant. May our work for justice be the same— rooted in care, reaching toward a beautiful vision of what’s possible.
A bright pink hyacinth in full bloom. Broad green leaves surround the base, with mulch and low-growing green plants in the background.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 15/02/2025
Liberation is the shape love takes when we build together. Hold each other close. Keep going.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 14/02/2025
May your love today be wide enough to hold the whole world. Love for your people. Love for the stranger. Love that feeds the hungry and stands with those under attack. Love that organizes, resists, and dreams. Love that reminds you: You belong. We belong. We belong to each other.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
Break bread together, engage in collective action, be present for one another. Only through community can we meet this moment with wisdom and resilience.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
Even in the face of injustice, resisting hatred with hatred is a trap that keeps us bound to the very systems we seek to transform. Act from clarity, from wisdom, from the unwavering ground of love.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
When systems fail to care for all or—by design—harm the most vulnerable, rage is a natural response. But when we make it a point to ground our actions in deep compassion and presence, we can create conditions that help strengthen and sustain our collective liberation.
A vibrant three-story mural on the side of a beige building, painted in a surreal, expressive style. It depicts a figure with flowing orange hair cradling a small baby. They are surrounded by lotus flowers, swirling shapes, and distant figures. The mural is signed “@harumosato 2021” in red underneath the image.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
This cat moved in next door and loves to lounge on our porch and even wander into our home! (I guess it's all his now?) 😸 Not necessarily what I mean when I suggest we make space for what shows up uninvited... but life often teaches us through unexpected delights!
An orange-and-white cat sits calmly on the edge of a porch railing, its tail draped down and its gaze turned back toward the camera. Bare branches and fallen leaves can be seen in the background.An orange-and-white cat stands indoors on a hardwood floor. Its shadow stretches across the floor as it looks slightly downward. The wooden legs of a piano bench and table are visible in the background.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 08/02/2025
Our power lies in solidarity, not domination. Our strength comes from compassion, not cruelty. Resistance must be rooted not in hate, but in humanity and the truth of our interdependence.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 07/02/2025
To fight hatred with hatred, to resist oppression with cruelty, is to be consumed by what we seek to dismantle. Even in struggle, there’s a way to stay whole. Fierceness and humanity aren’t opposites. Stay rooted in both.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 07/02/2025
Fruitful action does not arise from exhaustion or overwhelm but from deep listening—to the body, to the earth, to the ancient wisdom that emerges when we make space for rest and connection. Tend to the root, and the tree of your work will bear good fruit.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
Take time to pause. Be silent. Allow the mind to settle and the body to rest. In the stillness, life’s truths quietly emerge and the next step reveals itself.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 05/02/2025
In uncertain times, being fully here—present, alive, open, and curious—is both a gift to yourself and a quiet revolution.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 04/02/2025
The rain slows us down, inviting us to notice small things—reflections, ripples, quiet moments. In the slowing down, we’re reminded that even on the grayest days, beauty can be found.
A close-up view of two black shoes on a wet, textured concrete surface. A puddle faintly reflects the shape and color of a pink umbrella above, with ripples from raindrops falling into the puddle spreading across the water.
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 04/02/2025
Thank you to the Thrive Network for sharing these words from @malkiadevichcyril.bsky.social
Black background with white text framed by yellow quotation marks at the top and a yellow horizontal line beneath the quote. The quote reads: “How can we see this moment differently? Maybe we can use the darkness right now to steady our hands, to soften our spirit, to level our gaze, to ground our inside. We might be afraid, but there is wisdom for us right now.” Below the yellow line is the attribution: “- Malkia Devich-Cyril.”
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 03/02/2025
Resilience is nurtured through the art of bending, breathing, and finding strength in the softness of surrender—not as defeat, but as clarity of vision for what is, creating space for courage, connection, and purposeful action. #Breathe #Soften #CultivateResilience
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
There is wisdom in the unseen. What appears separate is deeply connected. What seems small is part of something vast. #LessonsFromNature #FungiFriends #Fungi #Nature #Mushrooms #Mycelium #HiddenWisdom #Interconnection
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
Welcome all of your emotions, including grief, rage, vigilance. But we can’t live in those states alone. We are here to love, to breathe, to hold our communities close. Joy, hope, presence, and love aren’t betrayals of the struggle—they are its fuel. #WeBelongToEachOther
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
We don’t need permission to feel joy. We don’t have to earn it or wait for life to be different before experiencing it. Joy is our birthright—already here, already ours. And when we nurture it, share it, and uplift each other in it, joy becomes a force for collective healing. #CultivateJoy
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
Books don’t just inform; they awaken. They remind us of who we are, connect us to something greater, and invite us to dream new worlds into being. Can’t wait to join Adéniké at @oaklibrary.bsky.social in celebrating that quiet, unstoppable power. Thanks for sharing, @ceemahu.bsky.social!
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 31/01/2025
Thank you, @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social. #HopeIsRadical #CultivateHope #CultivateJoy
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Itzel Hayward @attunedliving.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
‘Forever’ Teaser: Netflix Reimagines Judy Blume Novel About Losing Virginity With Black Cast (Full article at: variety.com/2025/tv/news...) Gotta admit, I can’t wait. But please read it too, ok? #ReadBannedBooks #JudyBlume #Forever… www.youtube.com/watch?v=I9rn...
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FOREVER | Official Teaser | Netflix
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