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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

@dgcomedy.bsky.social hi DG, big fan of your comedy and the Beans. I think you're a great communicator, and I figured it couldn't hurt to ask if you might peruse my Substack and give me feedback on sharpening my communication. I use my experience to show my 🏳️‍⚧️ sisters and brothers why it'll all be ok

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Hey @thedemocrats , why is it ex-republicans like @therickwilson and other never-trumpers are better defenders of the 🏳️‍⚧️ community than the few of y'all that pretend to try? If you can't do better than the offensive mess your people offer up, just shut up and don't say anything. You'll do less damage

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Wrote this for those who have people in their life who ask some version of the question, but can't answer cause they care so much their tongue won't cooperate 🏳️‍⚧️ ashleyrobyn831.substack.com/p/why-we-can...

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Why We Can't Just “Play The Hand We Were Dealt”

Identity doesn't work that way, unfortunately

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

All the Hasan hysteria lately has only solidified one thing for me: I'd so let him. And I was talking to my wife about all the nonsense lately and mentioned that my guy could hit it, and she said she'd be down too except that then Fox would start thirsting for us every night too..😅

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Damn y'all, the Reverend @reesewaters.bsky.social went and got me fired up today. My guy always brings the heat, but he and the Rev Dr Staceypants got me all riled up with nowhere to go. My people need to demand better of our own, it's not enough to simply not participate in the offenses

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

Please forward this free piece to any elected or aspiring Democratic politicians you may be in contact with.. substack.com/@ashleyrobyn...

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Dear Democratic Party: Please Stop Defending Us

You're doing the trans community more harm than good

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

To the cis women: you all know the structural disadvantages that come with womanhood. We should be your greatest friends, precisely because we fight tooth and nail to walk beside you in those disadvantages in full knowledge that we'll be making a target of ourselves in the process.

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

One of the greatest days of my life when this finally happened, after an eternity of nothing working. To all my sisters that are feeling discouraged, it took a year of the Dr trying everything under the sun, and when this happened she hadn't changed any med or dosing in 6mo. Keep your head up 🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

Next time you encounter some turd insecure enough about themselves that they presume to act like they get a say in your existence, might I suggest the following: 👉🤏🤣🤣🤣 The 1 thing they fear most is being laughed at for their inadequacy 🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

This is your regular reminder that no matter how much the mirror bothers you on any given day, there's a whole bunch of people out there in the world who think you're beautiful. Believe them, cause they see you more clearly than you do. 🏳️‍⚧️🕊️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

If you know one of our trans sisters or brothers who feel like they just can't quite get it right, maybe send them this free bit of rambling🏳️‍⚧️ ashleyrobyn831.substack.com/p/we-cant-fi...

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We Can't Find Meaning By Ourselves

But if we keep reaching for it, someone or something will come along to push us into the light

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

The single biggest thing that made it so transphobe bullshit rolls off my back was the court hearing I had to do to change my name and birth certificate. Something about surviving the interrogation by the judge and hearing her state that my state accepted who I am made the hate feel like weak noise.

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Call me a man, call me a danger, call me a threat, call me a tranny: I'm still happier than you, and always will be. 🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

When idiots ask "What is a woman" I reply thusly: Woman is the most exalted state a human can aspire to. Say I'll never be a "real" woman all you want; in the same way "real" Christians will never be Christ, I'm ok with never being a "real" woman, but I'll come a lot closer than they will to Christ😉

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

No joke, I spent my childhood wanting to grow up to be Dolly Parton. I saw 9 to 5 in elementary school and was absolutely mesmerized by her. When I later found out she was an amazing singer and possibly the kindest person alive, I made up my mind I'd try to be like her. RIP to the true Great One 🕊️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Is there someone in your life who just doesn't get it, but you have trouble explaining the "why" of transition because your emotional connection causes you to fumble with the words? I wrote a free piece to try to help. 🏳️‍⚧️ ashleyrobyn831.substack.com/p/failed-men...

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“Failed Men and Dudes Afraid To Be Gay”

Why these too-common concepts only work on the most superficial of levels

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

If you want proof that womanhood is the highest state a human can aspire to, just take a look at how terrified the big bad alpha male tough guys are of it. There is no higher compliment than being told you do something "like a girl".

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

Why is it that so many of the colors I instinctively reach for clash with my skin tone? Oh well-literally nothing about me looks "normal" so who cares? 🤩

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

"Get thee from me, ye hypocrites, for the Lord thy God cares not for the content of the pants but only for the content of the heart." 🏳️‍⚧️✨🕊️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

Feeling down on yourself cause your brain keeps telling you that you don't have to look for "authentic"?🏳️‍⚧️ substack.com/@ashleyrobyn...

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You Have To Learn What's Beneath The Mask

And that's how it's supposed to work

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

It just occurred to me that although us trans girls get called dolls, I've never heard an equivalent name for our brothers. Is there one that our trans guys have taken on as their own and I just haven't run across it yet, or do we need to come up with one? Justice for the trans mascs..😋

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

It's a funny thing how often the people making noise about how they learned about "biological truth" in fifth grade all give the distinct impression that's the highest grade they were able to finish. 🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

So tired of "what is a woman" being asked by troglodytes who hold womanhood in the greatest of scorn.. ashleyrobyn831.substack.com/p/what-is-a-...

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What Is A Woman?

More specifically, who gets to decide?

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

One piece of advice for my trans sisters and brothers: do yourself a favor and never assume you know how people will react to who you really are. Just like the transphobes can't actually "always tell", we can't always predict how people around us will act. 🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Life as a trans woman is having an attack of imposter syndrome because you're not crying all the time and beating yourself up for six hours before realizing that of course you're not gonna do much crying when you're constantly in a state of pure joy you'd never understood was even possible. 🏳️‍⚧️✨🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Think about every man you've ever known: what's the one body part they would absolutely never under any circumstances voluntarily have removed? Yet somehow trans women, most of whom loathe that same body part and dearly wish for its removal, are just dudes right? I guess you just can't fix stupid 🤦

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

The only dilemma in the life of a MAGA: To lick the boot or to kiss the diaper. It's so pathetic it's almost hard to be mad.

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

In PT waiting room today, a guy complained to security about having to look at me. He'd spent the previous 30min staring at my boobs no matter where I moved to get out of his view. しょうがないね？🤷

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

I've been thinking-it seems to me the correct reaction when MAGA tries to make us into their biggest fear-response turnout driver leading up to the midterms is to not say a word and just point at them while laughing hysterically at their lack of higher cortical function 🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

Y'all have any idea how much I'd give to have a vulva as nice as the one on SaveALot Stalin's neck? 🤦

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

MAGAs saying things like "men in dresses" is a bright red warning sign about what they actually think of women. People who reduce a concept as enormous as womanhood to reproduction and fashion will never respect anyone they choose to put in that category, no matter who gets kept out of it.

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

Here's a blast from the past for my fellow Gen X girls... Life is estrogen Everything else is just details 🏳️‍⚧️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

I'm so fed up I'm ready to scream at the next person who barely stumbled through the little schooling they got presuming to speak with authority on anything to do with trans women. Go study up on things like epigenetics so you understand the basics; you're all too dumb to know how dumb you are🤬

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

Sisters and brothers 🏳️‍⚧️, when these weirdos try to make us their imaginary demon of the moment just remember: every accusation is a confession and people are starting to realize it. Soon enough the question will become "why are you thinking so much about other people's junk?" Such little 🍆 energy..

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

Damn. My girl @jojofromjerz.bsky.social tore the hide off Karolyin Leavitt for three solid minutes. Bravo, Jo; nobody rips the covers off the clowns quite like you youtu.be/ZiWcyV1Njk8?...

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Karoline Leavitt Is Leaving the White House—But Her Record Remains

YouTube video by JoJoFromJerz

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

@muellershewrote.com that tank top on Beans Talk this morning🙏🙏🙏 I'd be a fan of your content regardless but the way you and Dana speak for us with your whole chest is priceless. The ability to get factual news, commentary, and humor with a side of allyship is truly a gift. 🕊️

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Who wants to be the one to tell these dumbshits out here screaming about needing tradwives that they're looking in the wrong place for them...? 🤣🤦🤔🤦🤣 I'd give a lot to see their faces when they figure it out

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Just Arrogant Enough To Think You'll Care🏳️‍⚧️ @ashleyrobyn831.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

@dgcomedy.bsky.social "We couldn't call Beth Hoover so we called Hoover Beth" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Queen.

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