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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Sometimes my cat will lay on my phone/remote and I'll be moving everything around her to look for it before disturbing her (just in case she isn't on it). And the moment I feel it poking out from under her belly and take it, she'll act all disturbed and move. Like, girl, you stole *my* shit

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

Lol, "point me to one instance of her saying this" *Points directly to a quote where she says it*

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 01/07/2026

People who think it's deception and in line with SA to not disclose being trans before going on a DATE with someone genuinely need to have their heads checked for brain worms

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

Lmao - when he turns around looking for affirmation and like 2 guys clap and you hear one of them satiate him

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🦇 Katra Scariello, Spooky Apple Audio 🦇🏳️‍⚧️ @katrafiy.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

At some point you have to break out of your comfort zone and affirmatively argue *for* trans women's rights and inclusion, because otherwise all you are actually doing is arguing for discrimination with a lower false positive rate

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

"I understand why it feels that way. But non-black people don't all get access to the same spaces. White women are excluded from black women spaces on the same basis. The code applies consistently based on race, not as a way of singling black people out" Just some food for thought for you

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

I understand the point you're trying to make - but providing us with alternatives and forcing us into those alternatives while barring us from the spaces every non-trans person gets to use is still dehumanizing. It's othering. It's segregation just with a bunch of legal fluff to make it sound okay

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

And bathroom bills *specifically* designed to target trans people and force us into spaces we are less safe in and/or don't fit in with is not dehumanizing?

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 15/05/2026

It's kinda wild - like, who is going to be willingly using these services? I'm sure it's not 0, but, yanno.. *points at regret rate stats*

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

I'm tired of placating to ignorant people's transphobic feelings - they refuse to engage in empathy/logical reasoning We don't owe shit to cis people - we deserve to live in this society as freely as everyone else. Our beautiful existence is not contingent on their feelings - they can shove it 🪿🏳️‍⚧️

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jenny tightpants @jtp.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

if you could detect transness in the womb couldn't you simply assign the baby the correct gender once it's born

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The Newromancer @tehsamantha.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

The only thing that makes a trans person's life uniquely difficult is transphobia The only thing that uniquely ruins our mental health is transphobia The idea our struggles are innate to being trans and not because society blocks us from and punishes us for being ourselves is nonsense

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

I'm trying to educate people so they stop harming my community. I'm not an activist, just a trans person who wants what is best for us and for folks to stop attacking our rights. Sorry for not catching cues or whatever.. I hope you have the day you deserve

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

An opinion article and a few leaked emails related to one org doesn't discredit an entire body of medical evidence. A single Google search for "GAC regret rate" will show you a mountain of evidence, numerous peer reviewed studies and reviews time and time again showing ridiculously low regret rates

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

willing to do that. I've pointed out the flaws in your logic pertaining to our healthcare - but you don't want to engage with it. So like, what am I supposed to believe here? I'm not calling you a Nazi - but you *are* deliberately avoiding challenging your own beliefs in light of the evidence

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

shown me that you are, reciting super common lies and misconceptions over and over about us and our healthcare. You can fix ignorance with knowledge, but bigotry requires you to really dig deeper into your reasonings for believing the things you believe and re-evaluating them, and you don't seem

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

you seen to want to ignore.. this wasn't a term made up by activists, and I am only an "activist" by necessity - I'd much rather just have access to the healthcare I need, be left alone, and able to live my life like everyone else And I'm not saying you're ignorant to be rude, Dave - you have

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

The first 2 minutes of reading the Wikipedia page for "transgender health care" will fill you in on the fact that gender affirming care has its roots going back 100 years ago, in Germany, before the Nazis cracked down and burned all the research. I'm just trying to inform you on information that

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

It's like people have these moderate (but still wrong) view on trans issues, so they support whatever person is touting that position at the time, but then don't care to do 3 minutes of research into the person they're supporting's end goal of eradicating trans people from society. Very cooooooool

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

latching onto rhetoric born from fear mongering and misunderstanding. There is no hidden agenda or nefarious shadow groups trying to turn kids trans - all of us figure ourselves out at different times in our lives, and we just want to be free to live them authentically

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

when Hitler was in power - eerily similar to the digital purging of information the current US admin did last year. If you have real genuine concerns and also want the best outcomes for trans youth, I'm here to answer any questions you have, I just want people to understand us better and to stop..

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

evidence to suggest those who receive it have good outcomes. I understand why folks who aren't super educated on the topic might be led to believe our healthcare is new or experimental, but it isn't - modern GAC has its roots going back a hundred years ago, with early research burned by the Nazis..

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Ashe @ashegard.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Just wanted to check in and see if you've had a chance to read my response and think on it at all. My position on healthcare for minors really just boils down to: the government shouldn't be involved in restricting healthcare of any kind without ample evidence it causes harm. We have plenty of..

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Shellraiser B Woke - Living Saint of Purity🏳️‍⚧️🖤💜🤍 💛 @shelleybwoke.bsky.social · 14/04/2026

While everyone is glazing the pope, perspective is crucial. And a reminder: if you've got some extra coin to spare, toss some in the plate of trans journalists telling trans stories from trans perspectives, because the transphobic corporate media damn sure ain't going to do it.