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fiona apple no hope for women etc

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i say this all as an aroace lesbian who is extremely introverted and loves being single like none of this applies to me at all (except maybe the being hot part 😘) but women directing this judgment towards other women... GET UP!!! your insecurity is showing!!!!!! 😭😭😭

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hot outgoing women who still struggle with finding a lifelong partner (and want one) get behind me 😤😤

dating is hard! especially for women! regardless of what gender the women dates bc a lot of men suck and wlw have their own dating scene problems (i would know) 😭 to characterize someone with a lot of exes as immediately "the problem" is so insanely myopic and out of touch

and oftentimes unluckier but like. man. there are SO many factors as to why someone might have a lot of exes and not have it be their fault. i heard someone who married the only person they ever dated say this! like! you think THAT'S normal??

as an introvert and a recluse it really really pisses me off when people say that someone (usually a woman) with a lot of exes Must be the problem because they have a lot of exes. have you ever considered that maybe they are just more attractive and outgoing and confident than you

i just have a big heart and like giving people chances but i will continue to do so, but i think with more protection over my emotional health

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a toxic friendship is the same as any other toxic relationship—extraordinarily difficult to get out of once you're in it, even though you can feel its poison inside. to be in a space in my life where i don't feel this has been depressingly rare, but not currently being in it has me feeling grateful

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self-love is knowing that i would rather have 0 friends than a lot of bad friends but i have simultaneously made choices and been blessed with many friends who care about me as a friend as much as i do them these days

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 5h

feels so good to be back in a space where i can confidently say that all my friends are good friends 😌

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me for the past week: i could be listening to pink clouding by taylor swift right now

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 5h

i love having normie credibility while still being terminally online ya girl can do it all

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that is how the industry works and that is also why they at the end of the day, her haters are as much her fans as her supposed "in a cult" swifties are. that's an artist, and that's art. and she literally knows this bc she's said as much in explicit terms

taylor swift isn't just a good artist by the quality of her work (a judgment that will forever be subjective), she's a good artist because what she creates reaches an enormous amount of people across all sorts of demographics and continues to do so every time she releases something new

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the opposite of love isn't hate it's apathy and hating art is in conversation with it as much as it is loving it. good art gives you an experience, a feeling. bad art gives you nothing

truly insane how ppl think that good art makes you say "oh I like that" and then move on with your life. nope. good art makes you talk. it makes you analyze. it makes you tear it apart! even if you don't like it! it makes you dissect what you don't like about it!

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 15h

I have a friend who worked with her personally and told me she was just deeply unpleasant to interact with in a creative writing setting lmfao

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hating on that taylor swift ex forever for a lot of reasons but one i had since day 1 and will never let go of is how much he used her private jet to the point of distressing level of carbon emissions and still to this day people make it a problem because of her and not HIS useless musty ass

arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 15h

i'm not in a position to say such a thing but. i get it. yep.

arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 15h

thinking about the tiktok with the girl who said "i got too much melanin to hate wood" like exactly

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s @digitalism.bsky.social · 16h

reworking my portfolios and want to add this: bellkiosk.website/blog/reasons... to remind people to just do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bellkiosk.website

95 reasons for having your own website

A running list of reasons to have your own website in 2026.

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 17h

let it be known I have been a jameela jamil defender since 2019 and I still am to this day. interviews and social media arent enough I'll give her a g*n

arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 17h

fiona apple was right there is no hope for women

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 17h

it angers me that women defending themselves from misogyny that they directly face—ESPECIALLY when it's "supposed to be a joke"—is seen as cringey and embarrassing and usually results in her getting more misogyny directed towards her

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 30/09/2026

I HOPE YOU REALIZED MY KIND OF TROUBLE WASN'T WORTH IT AND THE WAY I TREATED YOU YOU NEVER DESERVED IT AND I SWEAR TO GOD TO THIS DAY I WAKE UP SCARED THAT I LEFT SCARS ON A GOOD PERSON AND I GAVE YOU ZERO REASON TO BELIEVE IT SO BE IT BUT IT DIDNT MEAN NOTHING JUST CAUSE I COULD LEAVE IT

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 30/09/2026

sorry it is that serious

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 30/09/2026

pink clouding clears every song on 1989

shout out to being gay

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thinking of labyrinth in a totally different way now j*e alw*n when i get your ass

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80s dance pop taylor swift we are SO back

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what crack did she put in pink clouding

I know pop is my favorite music genre bc I understood showgirl INSTANTLY

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which the deluxe adds onto btw. also the production is perfectly fine i'm convinced that a lot of ppl just heard one dumb hater (cough cough payola) say the production is bad and thinks it makes them sound smart lol

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i hate the criticism that showgirl is not cohesive bc that's not the point of the album, it's about pop versatility. it's about the showgirliness through different eras of pop music and genres. it's about the range! and it's about happiness!

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 28/09/2026

a music video isn't enough I need a g*n

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you know what's funny is that any reasonable person would be sympathetic to someone actually in a cult instead of lobbing it like a condescending insult but....

arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 28/09/2026

the taylor swift shaped hole in people's morals etc.

arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 28/09/2026

crazy how most people can agree that opinions are subjective until it comes to taylor swift's music, then suddenly everyone is an expert on music production, poetry, and songwriting and what they say is bad is objective and more correct than someone who likes her music

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 27/09/2026

like you can't convince me this wasn't on purpose and that is just so insanely clever and good marketing in the age of the internet on top of that

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 27/09/2026

i still can't get over how clever that part in the ophelia music video was (with the dance break) because you can upload high quality gifs or clips of it without running into file size issues because it's only two high contrast colors that take up the least amount of bytes

arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 26/09/2026

OMG... I LOVE THIS SO MUCH

サミファー⚜️Samifer @lysandre.me · 26/09/2026

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It was just this morning... #frlgips #art

Digital FRLG.ips fanart depicting Leaf hugging her Squirtle close to her chest while seemingly sinking under water. The Squirtle is covered in artifacts as if glitching and a giant MISSINGNO. is looming behind them.

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arrow ):) @aroceu.cloud · 26/09/2026

also releasing a song apologizing to tom hiddleston for how she was in that relationship on the day of the avengers movie release is genuinely so funny. taycomedian