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@approachcautiously.bsky.social
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He/they/she Nonbinary asexual. 28 other site account is under the same name with just Acautiously as my tag. so check that too? PFP is of my IRL dog and not a fursona

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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 43m
Got a few more things done today And I think I ate closer to a normal amount of food? I fell asleep less often when working too. Still not okay but it is some physical improvement. Started working on the working space closet and got 65% or more done cleaning it out
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 3h
Anyone know how to get views on tiktok? I think the videos I took in the past of Cinabun and the training videos could get some attention if done right. I can't give money but if things go well I could give stuff off my sales lists or the epoxy stuff I make as payment.
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
The last thing I want to do is ask for money, but I honestly do not think I will be able to get another service dog in the next year or more if I don't. Please consider sharing my gofundme gofund.me/d5114bec2 Sharing the link on other sites or places helps a ton too! IDC that you now know my name
gofund.me
Donate to A New Service Dog After Losing Cinabun, organized by Brittany Smith
I am raising money to buy a new dog to start training as my next service dog a… Brittany Smith needs your support for A New Service Dog After Losing Cinabun
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Current options for adding a new shelf/ shrine/ memorial self into my bedroom for Cinabun. I want it in the bedroom because I have space I can put it AND I will be in here no matter what every day. tell me which one you like more (specs and prices in the alt text)
This one is $99.99 and 74" tall and 23.6" wide which will fit where I want itThis one is only 33.65
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I am checking my UNI's site to get into contact to my professors and found this little bit for one of them. If that is not the best description of her in general, then I don't know what else would be 😂 she already was semi retired back in 2020 btw
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Please click on the link to view the page even if you can't donate! it helps my fundraiser pop up on the site. Also I have no idea where the 2 donations came from, but if it was from people on here, thank you so much! I used the page to manually send thanks but IDK if they went through or not
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I missed a 12 pm email 💀 Just replied now but the artist who made the 3d print files for my custom tiny Cinabuns replied back and is up for making some clear hollow versions that I can put her fur in and make into pendants And for a cheap price since she has been wanting to try and make some anyway
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
The last thing I want to do is ask for money, but I honestly do not think I will be able to get another service dog in the next year or more if I don't. Please consider sharing my gofundme gofund.me/d5114bec2 Sharing the link on other sites or places helps a ton too! IDC that you now know my name
gofund.me
Donate to A New Service Dog After Losing Cinabun, organized by Brittany Smith
I am raising money to buy a new dog to start training as my next service dog a… Brittany Smith needs your support for A New Service Dog After Losing Cinabun
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Things I did today: get out of bed at 430pm, ate more food then yesterday, sent thank you replies as needed to people, and sent a new one out to see if an artist could do something for me (with pay ofc). I also worked almost 12 hours but that is normal. and I got a free nap for an hour
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Still not doing great at all, but I am able to keep up my "looks fine" facade for longer today. Which is mostly to look fine to other people and only a little bit of me tricking myself. I was able to do it yesterday too but only because I would regret it if I wasn't the one to hand her over
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
The vet that did Cinabun's dental surgery last year forgave the remaining $55 I owed them. That vet office/ chain exists to help make regular vet care affordable which is why I asked about it. I'm not sure if I should try getting the Friday bill forgiven or not bc I don't think they will :/
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Biscuit was being a dick this morning and didn't want to cuddle with me. Tried to bring him to bed an hour or two later and he's been with me since then. I was worried he would reject the bed after what happened with Cinabun. I'm glad that isnt the case bc I dont want to wash it
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I want my puppy
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
If I made a funraiser to help pay off what is left of Cinabun's vet bills and the costs post death would that be okay? I owe $600 from friday (used a 3rd party thing that paid the vet in full) I owe around $55 from dental surgery last year, and then $165+ for post death stuff to my mother
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
My heated blanket just broke for no reason. so now I guess I'm not allowed to get any sleep at all bc I guess shit wasn't bad enough as is. The world had to take away the one thing I could use to try and mimic sleeping with Cinabun.
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I'm so glad I didn't wash my bedding yesterday because washing it = it doesn't smell like puppy anymore (my dog will always be my puppy) I think I will be buying new sheets in the future because I don't want to wash mine. The blanket I made for her will not be washed EVER either
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
CW pet death I got two sets of paw prints, one bad/shallow set in air dry clay, and on in silicone putty. The silicone sets in 10-15 minutes so I told my mother that and said I'd be ready after I know they held the shape. Two look perfect and two aren't perfect but that is okay.
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
CW: pet death Cinabun was limp around 6am but still breathing and half awake. I gave her gabapetin for pain at 4 or 5am so after panicking I thought it was the cause. I was wrong and missed my chance to rush to the ER vet. She started to have a few labored breaths and stopped between 2 but cpr
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Photo of how expensive she is. The top of the page has my personal information and address.
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Just got back from getting some liquid based dog food, and a syringe with a bigger end point from the store. my mother had some gabapentin leftover from her dog so We don't have to wait until Monday for pain medication. I have to try and measure half out for her bc 90mg is what she needs
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I'm so glad Cinabun is so chill. I have to use a syringe to get her to drink, and have to force feed her. she hates the force feeding the most and to get her to swallow I keep getting bitten* but at least she isn't mad.
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Photo of how expensive she is. The top of the page has my personal information and address.
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Got back from the vet and Cinabun basically has a really upset stomach from eating cat vomit and bile. A ~$600 one. ($800+ in two weeks after getting labs again) 🙃 I am glad it isn't something worse and that she likely doesn't have a blockage from a tiny piece of pre-eaten foam
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Cinabun still isn't back to 100% yet 😭 she is better than she was yesterday and no vomit in 13+ hours (i was asleep the last time it happened). Ive got her on a forced watering schedule and added electrolytes to the water bowl. Please hope that she recovers from eating cat vomit tomorrow 🤞
My dog sleeping in bed like a person, under the blankets, but with chicken on her head. Something she would never allow when not sick
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I can no longer pull all- nighters but I have to pull one tonight. it isn't even 1 am and I'm already felling the impact The reason I have to stay up is bc I didn't notice Mochi threw up (permanent kitten) and when I noticed it Cinabun already ate some amount of it. She has had an upset stomach
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Enjoy my pussies and box 🤣
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Turns out that their system for billing you and charging your card has the most convoluted setup possible. They have fixed everything finally so I deleted my other replies but want to leave the OG one up. I prefer admitting when I was wrong still a shitty system set-up
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Psa: DO NOT ORDER ONLINE FROM PETSMART. They will charge you more than what you agreed to pay AND will put through unauthorized charges past that. Check your bank or card history and compare them with your petsmart order history ASAP. They are comitting wire fraud. Taking $3-4 is still fruad btw!🤬
Order placed on 9/14 from petsmart for $51.34Bank information showing they charged my card for $54.52 on 9/16An unauthorized charge on 9/17 for $0.51. I don't even know why this was done. Previously, they promised to refund me a little over $10 for missing items. Which they did but they also immediately charged me that amount the same day. 

Both have been removed from my bank account so I have no screen shots :/
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Psa: DO NOT ORDER ONLINE FROM PETSMART. They will charge you more than what you agreed to pay AND will put through unauthorized charges past that. Check your bank or card history and compare them with your petsmart order history ASAP. They are comitting wire fraud. Taking $3-4 is still fruad btw!🤬
Order placed on 9/14 from petsmart for $51.34Bank information showing they charged my card for $54.52 on 9/16An unauthorized charge on 9/17 for $0.51. I don't even know why this was done. Previously, they promised to refund me a little over $10 for missing items. Which they did but they also immediately charged me that amount the same day. 

Both have been removed from my bank account so I have no screen shots :/
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I have the worst luck ever this week. 3 out of 3 orders to buy stuff I needed (and one with cat stuff thet they didn't technically need) and all 3 had an issue. First, 16 missing cans of cat food from pet smart (still getting CS help), a cut in the cat grass seed package, 3x leaking mio bottles 🙃
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
I didn't realize that my PCP ordered an iron test yesterday, but the results are the same as in 2021. I was curious why he tested it. Turns out that like I expected he IS just doing his due diligence before giving me a new medication Fatigue, weakness, hair loss, and pos headaches match my issues
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Going from spending damn near nothing (aside from rent and bills) for almost 2 months to suddenly spending around $450 feels so wrong. Everything spent was on food, cat food, bills/ debts, and medical stuff. I still owe a good bit of money but I've got payment plans in place for them all
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
I can no longer see people's replies to post on my following tab on this site. it is almost like this site wants to make people NEVER use it again. 😒
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
My drs appointment is tomorrow and I'm so nervous for once. he replied to me about one blood test bc my liver values were high (this was expected to happen) but he didn't mention the one for my thyroid. I'm guessing he didn't look at it since it is technically not high range wise 🤞
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
I love that no one pointed out the corner of the acrylic riser being messed up 🤣 I stepped on it and broke it but fixed it with uv resin but didn't bother to make it look smooth bc why waste time on it? 🤔🤣
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Clayton is now down to $59 + shipping. I believe that is 50% off or close to that much off the OG price from BD Please share these amazing deals so I can start to pay back some debts ASAP! All orders from me get some cute little epoxy bois that I have made myself added in too! (they are fully free)
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Close up picks of Porthole (I think that is the name) from the closed shop Arkham Harbour! Price is still at $60 OBO since I really do not want to part with the only dong I bought from AH If you are mildly interested in anything in my post but want more pics ask for them and I will take them!
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Standard Hemlock from BBA with some very realistic colors, is down to $79 + shipping and is open to reasonable offers! I don't know how he hasn't been snatched up yet because the pour is so cool. I'm only selling him since he is soft. You'd have to kill me to get it if it was in medium firmness😂
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Fully updated #dongsales and squish sales post. Once again, everything is OBO and I will ship anywhere I can buy a shipping label for. Smoke free home, but I do have a dog and two cats and I cannot promise no hair will get into packages All sales go to paying bills or for food until the 15th❤️
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Creature Feature Toys @creaturefeature.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
To celebrate 6 years of CFT, we're hosting a Stellar Giveaway with 6 of our most popular toys in one large bundle!🎁 ⭐TO ENTER:⭐ You must follow us! Like, Comment on, AND share this post. Must be 18+ One lucky winner will be drawn on Oct 1st and has 48 hours to claim their prizes!
Giveaway graphic that reads: "6th Anniversary Stellar Giveaway! 1 Winner receives 6 of our most popular toys! Enter on Bluesky." The toys pictured are Artemis, Cyrus, Bastien, Iota, Gray mini-penetrable, Bask packer, and Varya grinder.
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
This koi themed grinder managed to hide from me for an entire year. It was in a box in my closet with powered toys. No idea why I put it there (It is wet bc I washed off closet dust)
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
So my tsh levels are still technically "normal" but clearly something is fucked up. Im honestly so glad my pcp is an Internal Medicine doctor because I know he will conside my symptoms along with the results. There are more tests that can be done as well. I just hope he lets me try medication soon
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Nathan Bulmer @natemorebikes.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
I hate reddit so much. too many people will ghost you after expressing interest. They refuse to just say that they lost interest. today was the worst case. Yesterday I made a legitimate mistake and forgot I accepted a deal. they corrected me and I ADMITTED I FUCKED UP yet now they arent replying
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
If my pets took my last name then they would all be the masters at making the food they're named after. Sadly, none of my pets can make the foods they're based on because 3 of them would eat it too soon and the 4th has no limbs 😭 1 dog, 1 snake, 2 cats
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
If this is the actual issue, which my dr suspected it was 3 months ago, then I'm thinking that it would be cool to document the change over time in my body. I'll make a second private account for it probably My proportions and where the weight is make it clear that it is from thyroid issues btw
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
So, turns out past me is dumb. Dr ordered blood tests due to a loss in body hair and weight gain. I didn't look at what he ordered until today. They are hormone tests and my symptoms match hypothyroidism I've been very careful with how much I eat for months yet keep gaining weight 🙃all for nothing
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Fully updated #dongsales and squish sales post. Once again, everything is OBO and I will ship anywhere I can buy a shipping label for. Smoke free home, but I do have a dog and two cats and I cannot promise no hair will get into packages All sales go to paying bills or for food until the 15th❤️
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Hodge Podge Entourage @hodge-podge.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
✨Discounts, freebies, and more!✨ We're dropping brand new inventory this evening at 7pm EST! Plus, enjoy some early Labor Day discounts - up to 40% off select items! And, to top it all off, follow and repost for a chance to win a $200 HPE gift card! Details below. 💕
a pile of sparkly silicone sex toys
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approachcautiously.bsky.social @approachcautiously.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Updated availability for the dildos! All the specs and prices from this post apply to it. I'll add it on the images later today. Along with updating the squish image by crossing out what has sold. Getting a new image for squish takes too long 😔
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