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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 28/03/2026

I can't wait until I can do something like this with my little guy!

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

Alright kiddo, you be a good boy and play on your swing while Daddy works in the garden. No waddling off, Daddy had to be able to see you at all times.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 18/03/2026

You have amazing photography skills and consider doing kink shoots more often

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 17/03/2026

Good morning my little leprechaun! I see we have a pot of gold that needs changed. Come on, let's get that taken care of. And no tricks!

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

And who can blame him? All comfy and cozy with his warm soggy britches, jammies, under the covers... It's no wonder why it's a fight in the mornings to get him going.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

He's the things about Captain S.B, everyone knows one. A boy who doesn't want to get up and get going for the day.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

Come on Captain soggy britches, I know the storms were scary last night but we have to get you up and ready for daycare!

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

Bigs this question is for you! How do you help your Littles to be little, even when it's not possible? Are there certain actions, activities, etc. that you find to be helpful to getting your Little feeling their best without full-on little time?

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

This question might be hard for some to answer or be something that we don't want to consider. When is it all too much? The outfits, the behaviors, expectations, etc.? What makes you decide you need to pull back instead of going headlong into the fray?

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Bigs/Littles, how do you go about picking your aesthetic? The clothing, textures, patterns, etc.? What makes you think, "yep, this is what I want to reach that headspace that I'm looking for."

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

So now I ask again, what do you consider the Pros and Cons of conventions?

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

You also have to deal with occasionally coming across that random person that just leaves a sour taste in your mouth (not that kind!). The ones that make you wonder if going on this trip was worth it if you had to put up with people like them.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

You also sometimes get unrealistic ideas of what you can do in your everyday life. It's not that it's not possible, just very difficult for everyone in all situations to be able to do everything that you can see people doing there.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

As with most great things, there are a few cons to it. Con Drop can be super real and extremely difficult to get through. I remember having to pull over on my way home from my first CAP having a panic attack thinking that I would never get to experience something like that again.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

I also have learned so much from people. From classes to people from other parts of the world, I have discovered so much about not just this community but also about myself.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

Honestly for me, I've found some of my closest friends and supporters in this life from interactions at CAPCon. I'm in communication with people that I met back in 2016 at my very first CAP. That means they've been part of my life for nearly 1/3 of my life!

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

Now that we've had a few days to step away, let's talk about conventions. What are the Pros and Cons of Cons?

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 11/03/2026

Since I asked yesterday, let's flip the script! Bigs, what are the things you look for from all Littles? (Persona; again this isn't a particular person that you have in mind but when you're thinking about a little, what qualities do they personify?

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Littles, what are the things you look for from all Bigs? (Persona; this is something I got from Fiona at CAP). I'm not asking about a particular person in mind, I'm asking when you think of a CG, what are the qualities that they personify?

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

I'd really love to win the lottery and just spend my days taking care of my sweet little boy.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Here's the thing kiddo. Everytime I let you try to be a big boy when we visit friends, I end up having to clean up a mess. I don't want to pay for another couch to be cleaned so let's just put the diaper on. Besides, you're cute in the jersey with no pants ;)

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Everyone knows the real reason daddies exercise is so they they can carry their kiddos around

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

I'm enjoying my resolution. The view of your padded bottom wandering the house is wonderful. Of course, I can make my resolution "remove pants from boy when in house at all times". I resolve to make that happen therefore, it's my resolution.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Of course this is your entire outfit kiddo, why do you ask? Well yeah you have no pants, everyone wants to see baby new year. *Ding dong* Now go answer the door while Daddy finishes up sweetie.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

*smiles watching his kiddo play with all of the things Santa brought him* yep, good year.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Kiddo, Daddy would love it if you could just cuddle up next to me and we had a movie night. Sound good?

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

*drives around observing all of the Christmas lights. Looks in the rearview mirror and smiles* *Kiddo is sitting staring blankly at the Christmas lights. Content to be in his footed pajamas, cuddling his teddy bear* Best plan ever...

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Smiles watching kiddo lay on the floor giggling at the Christmas tree lights. "Well that ought to keep him occupied for a while. Maybe I should get him a mobile..."

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

*sighs* just because you put a bow on it does not make it a gift stinkbutt. Go to the nursery so we can clean you up before I have to have the house fumigated

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

It's cute how you think you get to tell Daddy you're going to wear big boy undies to bed. I JUST washed these sheets! I will not have you ruining them. Now hop up on that changing table mister.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

No sweetie, you're not turning into Santa. Why is your onesie so tight? Might I suggest eating a few dozen cookies in the last day might have something to do with it? It's alright sweetie. Daddy thinks his tubby tot is adorable. We'll diet after Christmas.

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

*pulls a gift out from under the tree and puts it in the back of the closet* He's not ready for big boy undies this year. Maybe I'll be able to give him those next year...

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Yes you have to stand in the corner! Because there were a dozen cookies left to cool. I take a quick phone call and come back to 1! *Kiddo tried to argue it wasn't him with chocolate all over his mouth* Uh huh, I'm sure Teddy was the one who did it. Now march mister!

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andsmithlilred.bsky.social @andsmithlilred.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

You thought it would be fun when they asked you to help with the work Christmas party. Being a photo op, you figured it would be Santa. But when Daddy heard... You were the star of the party. Daddy was so handsome as Santa and you, well... Everyone loved seeing the baby elf.

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