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Alyssa 🍁

@alyssagambone.northsky.social
1.9K followers 810 following 8.7K posts

trans woman, she/her, board games, lesbian, Philadelphia Union/Eagles/Phils Ottawa Charge/Rapid/Sens, actuary

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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 39m
New hair colour!
Alyssa in a rainbow sweater and pale blue and purple hair.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 04/10/2026
They really just don't get it.
Reddit comments on a Democrats Aboard post reminding Americans outside the country to register to vote:

Me: I already have my electronic ballot from Massachusetts. Spending the next 4 weeks watching how your party treats transgender Americans before I decide if I'm going to actually cast my ballot.

DA: Later this month, there's going to be an online panel discussion about such issues. If you want, you can join in and check it out.

Me: It's not an issue. Basic human rights aren't something to have a panel discussion or debate over. Grow a damn spine and stand for something.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 29/09/2026
Tonight’s concert lineup: Balfour, Mozart, Sunbacka, Coulthard, Haydn, Cohen, and Prokofiev)
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 28/09/2026
a summary chart of their 12 axes.  Unitary (51%), Democracy (92%), Liberty (76%), Multiculturism (88%), Pacifist (62%), Noninterventionist (52%), Public (96%), Planning (74%), Globalism (74%), Irreligious (96%), Progressive (97%), Biology (58% -- counterpoint to technology, not sure I trust this axes)
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 28/09/2026
Disappointed at only 93% progressivism. 😆
Closest public figures to my stances are Guilherme Boulos, Albert Einstein, Friedrich Engels, and Zohran Mamdani.93% match for left progressivism
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 28/09/2026
Ready for the green shade of pain before shifting back to whatever nonsense the Phils have in store for this week. Go Birds!
Alyssa (looking exhausted) in a green a white Eagles top.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 26/09/2026
Beautiful fall day, might as well have the Redblacks ruin it.
Calgary kicks off after a quick TD to start the game
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 24/09/2026
One of the biggest drawbacks of working from home is that is so easy to fall into a jean and sweatshirt rut, especially when my mental health is in the tank, but when I force myself to pick out some of the nicer clothes in the closet it is such an instant pick-me-up.
Alyssa in a maroon sweater with white details and a black and white corduroy skirt and burgundy tights.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 19/09/2026
Said what I'm feeling better on LinkedIn thanks to more words.
I've struggling about how to continue with this account. For years, I've talked about the hopes I had about being a publicly out transgender woman in insurance. 

But the thing is, most of those hopes are dead at this point. I barely participate in the industry anymore, as I'm unable to go to most CE conferences. I can get the CE online, but that doesn't replace the connections you get from in person meetings. I can't travel to either of the home offices of my company because (a) travel is close to impossible until I have a Canadian passport and (b) those countries governments have extreme anti-transgender policies to make it unsafe for me to work there. I feel kind of lost, caught between a professional world based in countries hell bent on driving trans people to extinction, and personal life in a country where I'm accepted, but the actuarial profession is somewhat closed to me unless I'm willing to try to pass more exams at 50 years of age, if I'm even still capable of that level of studying and memorization.

I don't really want to be the social media account that keeps talking about how horrible everything is. That's not healthy for me, and it's not great for others either.

So I'm just not sure what is next.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 13/09/2026
Go Birds.
Alyssa in a kelly green Barkley SB LIX jersey
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 01/09/2026
What do you mean, Excel says the last digit of pi is a 9.
a screen shot of an Excel formula that shows that the formula =right(pi()) is evaluated as 9.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 31/08/2026
September tomorrow so it is green season. #gobirds
Alyssa’s left hand with sparkly jade green nails.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 31/08/2026
Still looking for win #1, not great when the season starts in June.
Redblacks Lions game at TD Place
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 18/08/2026
Refreshed the hair colour one more time for summer. 2 months before the colour change appointment, have to decide of I go a light blue or back to dark red with purple tips like a few years ago
Alyssa with refreshed bright red hair and a two toned blue tank top.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 14/08/2026
Alyssa in her dark orange with pink, black, and tangerine geometric shapes, a gold heart pendant, orange flowers earrings ready for her dinner out.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 10/08/2026
I broke out this blouse for the first time in a while and I’m just not sure I feel it anymore.
Alyssa in a bright red blouse with various blue and white flowers/leaves
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 07/08/2026
I’m Alyssa, I turn 50 in a couple of months, and started estrogen at 44. There’s still time.
Alyssa at her game table in a brown sundress with cream flowers, and a gold maple leaf necklace.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 05/08/2026
6 years of transition!
Alyssa wearing a pink floral halter top.  Her hair has faded to pink after 2 weeks of swimming in a lake.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 22/07/2026
A score results from Smush (hankgreen.com/smush) showing Alyssa scored 278 points and found the pangram from the letters R N A O S L D T U
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 18/07/2026
The good: at the cottage for a couple of weeks. The bad: Lost my wallet at the grocery store. Fingers crossed it turns up.
View for the next two weeks - trees in foreground partially conceal Lac Memphremagog in Cantons de l’Est in Quebec.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 10/07/2026
I will take no questions.
A menu listing for a hot dog called the rizzy glizzy with bacon, maple bbq, maple dijon, and fried onions on a beavertail.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 20/06/2026
Let’s go Redblacks! #CFL
Redblacks coming out to the field
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 20/06/2026
A pretty fun Connections replacement for those of us that don't support fascists.
Image of the result of 4x3, an online word game in the format of the NYT Connections.  The game is at hankgreen.com/fourbythree
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 18/06/2026
Allez les rouges!
Alyssa in her red Canadian soccer jersey and trans pride necklace.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 15/06/2026
5 years and I still feel stress about going to the informal networking stuff for the actuarial meetings.
Alyssa wearing a orange, yellow, and pink patterned dress with a gold heart necklace, gold chain belt, and orange flower earrings.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 15/06/2026
No mountains in my hotel view but better than many of the hotel views I have had over the years.
View of downtown Calgary from my hotel.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 05/06/2026
Allez les rouges!
Alyssa in her red Canada world cup jersey for the Ireland friendly today.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 04/06/2026
Picture of a woman who got through her twice annual big meeting for reserve changes without any issues or problems, and is bow decompressing. It’s sad that most of the time I know I’m a damn good actuary but these meetings come along and I stress for a week that it’s going to be a disaster.
Alyssa in a black dress with large pink polka dots .
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 01/06/2026
Baked some bread to try to cheer me up.
A loaf of unsliced italian herb white bread on a cooling rack.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 29/05/2026
Lazy Friday with no effort at all but at least my lip is mostly healed at this point.
Alyssa with no makeup looking exhausted wearing a black T with the Death Star and a cursive phrase of Ceci n’est pas une lune.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 23/05/2026
More soccer today. Ottawa allez allez!
A Rapid forward challenges a Roses defender on the ball
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 15/05/2026
The world is on fire but we have tulips!
A white tulip with a red maple leaf on it.A field on pink tulips with a few deep violet and red/yellow.A field of red, yellow, and light pink/white tulips.A close up of the white, deep violet and red/yellow tulips.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 09/05/2026
Not sure what vibe this outfit gives off, but I kind of dig it.
Alyssa in a white turtleneck, navy vest with large gold buttons, and navy and cream crosshatched pencil skirt
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 09/05/2026
What American president would ever screw things up so badly to allow this to happen?
A card from Mr. President (a board game) that shows an event where if you don’t deal with it, Iran mines the Strait of Hormuz.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 05/05/2026
So injections really do work better, huh. (newest level is 739 pmol/L -- first reading was not trough).
Alyssa's two year blood work history.  At August 2024 it was 850 pmol/L, dropping to 375 pmol/L earlier in 2026 (after I started Zepbound), and now back up to 739 pmol/L.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 03/05/2026
New necklace and new top!
Alyssa with a necklace with a owl with a large polished red, black, and purple and a low cut purple faux corset top.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 02/05/2026
Season 2 underway! Allez les bleus!
Rapid and Wild kickoff at Lansdowne !
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 01/05/2026
Happy Friday from the exhausted woman who has had weird dreams and struggles sleeping the last two nights. Seriously, last night I dreamt I woke up at 8:30 and the alarm hadn’t gone off for either my wife or I so everyone was late, only to wake up again and see it was 5:15.
Alyssa in her violet floral blouse and rose gold cat necklace.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 01/05/2026
April plays
BG Stats Apr 2026

Plays: 49 
H-index: 4 
Games: 26 
New: 8 
Players: 28 
Locations: 3 
Hours: 83 
Days: 19 

Voidfall: 6
Perudo: 4
Mr. President: The American Presidency, 2001-2020: 3
Secret Hitler: 9
Under Falling Skies: 5
Weimar: The Fight for Democracy: 2
18Chesapeake: 1
Age Of War: 1
Blueprints: 1

35 designers:
Reiner Knizia: 7%
Richard Garfield: 7%
Régis Bonnessée: 7%
Alan Emrich: 3%
Andreas Seyfarth: 3%.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 26/04/2026
Fast moving water.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 22/04/2026
Follow up appointment for the zepbound today. If he bumps up the dose I’m not looking forward to 2-3 weeks of side effects.
Alyssa in a blue vest with her gold maple leaf necklace and gold hoop earrings on.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 21/04/2026
More backyard friends!
A rabbit sitting on a patch of artificial grass in our backyard.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 20/04/2026
Backyard friends are back for spring
A groundhog in our backyard.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 15/04/2026
The ultimate rally killing grand slam.
A hitter by hitter account of Lehigh's top of the 1st against Coppin St.  They scored 20 runs on just 3 hits, the last being a grand slam with 1 out.  The next two batters made outs to end the inning.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 12/04/2026
Nerding it up with my Sierpinski triangle earrings for game day.
Alyssa with her trans pride circle necklace, a blue floral top and dark blue earrings.Close up of earring showing it is a Sierpinski triangle
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 12/04/2026
One day there is going to be a board game about America from 2001-2024 with a paragraph in the designer notes called ’The catastrophe of 2025’ (labeled graphic due a photo of an evil man with a moustache.)
A paragraph from the designer notes of "Weimar", a board game about the German republic between the 2 world wars.

It reads:

The catastrophe of 1933

The transformation of a democratic revolution into a Nazi tyranny in just 14 years is the topic of this game. The rise of the NSDAP is an ongoing point of contention in historical scholarship. The list of possible reasons is long: the so-called "Shameful peace" of Versailles and the associated question of reparations, the stab-in-the-back lie and related narratives, the world economic crisis of 199 with the associated collapse of American loans and finally a Reich president who came into this office as a candidarwa of the anti-republican "Reichsblock" and convened the president cabinets of Bruning, von Papen, and Schleicher after the economic crisis.  

Two aspects are important to me. On the one hand, none of these reasons alone can adequately explain the rise of the NSDAP. On the other hand, the Nazi seizure of power is not deterministic. Above all, the conservatives' shift to the right and subsequent inclusion of the National Socialists in responsibility are two important prerequisites for the later regime. As it is today, it was thought in 1922 that the NSDAP would unmask itself - and just like today, this is fundamentally wrong."

There is a picture of Adolf Hitler during a speech with the caption 'Blind to the Right Eye".
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 09/04/2026
Going up to 15 today! Free from the pants/sweater tyranny.
Alyssa with a full body photo showing her red short sleeve blouse and navy blue maxi skirt with multicoloured swirls.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 08/04/2026
Girl who is really hoping this might be the last sweater/cardigan day for a few months.
Alyssa in a red top with striped (cream, beige, maroon, sky blue) fuzzy cardigan and lesbian flag coloured beaded necklace.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 06/04/2026
The end of endless winter might be in sight!
10 day Ottawa forecast with the last 7 days (starting Thursday) all with highs above 10 and lows above 0.
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Alyssa 🍁 @alyssagambone.northsky.social · 03/04/2026
Came down to the wire, but we were able to ratify the 19th Amendment!
A finished game of Votes for Women, as Iowa became the 36th state to ratify it, overcoming rejections by New York, New Hampshire, Vermont, Delaware, Maryland, Tennessee, Florida, Arizona, Kansas, and Arkansas.
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