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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 26/10/2026

So it did not arrive when it was due but it did arrive today! It is beautiful! @emilyhare.com #TTRPG #DND #Bookstodon

A hardback book called surviving Strangehollow with a beautiful art piece of a cute fluffy black monster at the roots of a tree with a sword in the ground beside it

A small fluffy white dog with brown ears licking at a a hardback book called surviving Strangehollow with a beautiful art piece of a cute fluffy black monster at the roots of a tree with a sword in the ground beside it

The inside cover of a hardback book with a stunning piece of art of a huge dragon type monster coming out of the dark towards a person in a dark cape holding a staff with bright light coming from it.

A book page with surviving Strangehollow at the top and and adorable baby dinosaur with a little hat made of part of the egg shell on its head.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 23/10/2026

After a lot of back and forth and not being sure if it would happen, I have finally been vaccinated against covid and flu. £98 lighter, thanks to a 10% off discount for having 2 vaccines at once. #covid #flu

A woman with light skin tone and bright pink hair wearing a white and pink striped knitted jumper with a small round blue sticker which says "I've had my flu jab"

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 22/10/2026

South Wales LGBTQ+ men, someone super awesome who I am honoured to call a friend is part of the team putting on a regular meetup/mental health space for gay, bi and Queer men to chat and get things off their chest in Cardiff. It's called Help U and it runs at […] [Original post on toot.wales]

A black and white image of a window at the entrance to Chapter Arts with the words Croeso Welcome above it and overlaid text reading talk connect share listen every other Monday. Help U, gay, bi, Queer men's spaces.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 22/10/2026

Treated myself to #Riverford this week. So I need to do some cooking too... but it will all be delicious! Am planning some soups, a squash, leek, and bean gratin, and some lentil stuffed squash. That is assuming I can manage to do the cooking... #Cooking #Disabled

The squash box with three leeks, a green cabbage and some purple sprouting broccoli on it

Six different types of squash in a large cardboard Riverford box; three smaller yellowish ones, an enormous green one, and two medium orange ones

A large Riverford cardboard box with bananas visible, a smaller cardboard box and a brown paper bag on top

The smaller cardboard box opened to reveal a selection of delicious looking mushrooms

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 21/10/2026

I have done stuff today & I feel ok because it all went smoothly. The bus arrived & driver was happy to do the ramp. Posted Vinted parcel easily. Specsavers were really kind at my eye test. Charity shop staff were super kind & helpful when I went clothes shopping […] [Original post on toot.wales]

A bed piled with mostly pink jumpers and coats but also so gold fabric shoes and other bits. It's a pretty large pile.

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and bright pink hair. She is standing wearing an very short gold and black dress with a semi floral pattern on it, a pinstriped black blazer with gold sparkle detailing in the stripes and a large goldish brown floral design on the upper right, and golden yellow fabric low heeled shoes.

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and bright pink hair. She is standing wearing an very short black skirt and a gold sequined top, a pinstriped black blazer with gold sparkle detailing in the stripes and a large goldish brown floral design on the upper right, and golden yellow fabric low heeled shoes.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 14/10/2026

Hi South Wales witchy folks, Lost and Found (in Barry) are hosting a new event that some of you might be interested in. Lost & Found's website: www.lostandfoundsociety.wales . Info in the picture (and alt text). I am not involved, just sharing cos the […] [Original post on toot.wales]

The Cauldron Club. Third Sunday of the month. 6pm until 9pm. At Lost and Found Society. A gathering place for those interested in witchy things to come together, share knowledge, experiences and expertise. £5 entry includes free cup of tea or coffee. This group is run by enthusiasts looking to build a community, this group is not run by witches or experts.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 08/10/2026

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 01/10/2026

I have no idea what any of this means but am helping @IvysRequiem sort her Magic cards so am putting them in piles. The main piles are much larger! #MagicTheGathering #MTG

A pair of legs in trousers laying on a sofa with four piles of Magic cards on each leg and six piles along the sofa alongside the legs

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 24/09/2026

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 10/09/2026

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 08/09/2026

People of the internet, lend me your sense of choice to share something I am very, very excited about! I made this! From an old scarf! It's a wheatie (microwaveable heat pad) that I can put all along my spine and tie it, or around my stomach and tie it. And I […] [Original post on toot.wales]

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and pink hair wearing a light pink t-shirt and bright pink trousers with a black and white skull decorated scarf thing wrapped around her back tied at her side

A view down the back of Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and pink hair tied in a ponytail and shaved around the sides wearing a light pink t-shirt and bright pink trousers with a black and white skull decorated scarf thing all down her back clearly stuffed with something

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 27/08/2026

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 24/08/2026

OK I have purchased this pattern so just need to wait for it to be delivered and then figure out how to make it! And also get some material... and way more sewing skills than I currently have. It's all gonna be fine. I have until the start of December. It's gonna be fine! #Sewing #LARP

A McCalls Costume sewing pattern showing a very fancy gown, a regal ballroom style with sleeves slit just below the elbow, a detachable bustle and train

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 13/08/2026

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 13/08/2026

Finally home from supporting a friend as they tested some wheelchairs & put in an order. Had a cool shower, now cuddling an ice pack & slurping Holy. My Holy order arrived, so grateful because I've been struggling to drink since I ran out. Squash & water are not […] [Original post on toot.wales]

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and bright pink hair wearing a strappy white speckled top that says you are a reason to be and seemingly no bottoms, with a blue cool mat on her lap with an ice block on it. She is drinking from a bottle which fades pink to white and has drink soft go hard written on it.

A bottle that fades from pink to white with drink soft go hard written on it

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 06/08/2026

[Drug mention, hypnokink] Want to play with hypno "drugs" but don’t know how to get started? We’ll look at every angle of "drug" creation we can think of and talk about how to use hypnosis to make things happen! Tickets […] [Original post on toot.wales]

A delicious looking cupcake with swirling pink frosting, a raspberry on top and a tag reading eat me attached to it sits beside text reading hypnokinky drugs. Intoxication through suggestion.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 05/08/2026

Pandastory #Beguiled Specials! Video classes on hypnokink, bootblacking, D/s, service, & more. New to hypnokink? — www.pandastory.love/beguiledspecials Ready to go deeper or explore something new? — www.pandastory.love/beguiled Bootblacking & […] [Original post on toot.wales]

A purple backkground with rainbow spiral in the corner. Text reads Pandastory Beguiled Specials. Video classes bundles, bonuses and offers. Hypnostory and panda's classes on hypnokink, bootblacking, D/s, service, and more.
Three sections show the options covered in the main post.
Ends August 7 at 11:59 PM US Eastern Time.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 03/08/2026

Ready to explore hypnokink? Video classes with HypnoStory and panda to build a solid foundation. Hypnokink 101. The Hypnokinkster's Guide to Inductions. Going Deeper. Bundles and more! Through Fri, Aug 7. www.pandastory.love/beguiledspecials #HypnoKink #EroticHypno #Hypno

Purple background with a rainbow spiral in the corner. Text reads Beguiled specials. Pandastory video classes. Ready to explore hypnokink?

Video classes with HypnoStory and panda to build a solid foundation.

Hypnokink 101.
The Hypnokinkster's Guide to Inductions.
Going Deeper.
Bundles and more!

Through Fri, Aug 7.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 02/08/2026

Ready to go deeper in hypnokink? Blankness. Pleasure. Memory play. Hypno & BDSM. And so much more. Through Fri, Aug 7. www.pandastory.love/beguiled #HypnoKink #Hypnosis #Hypno

A deep purple background with a rainbow spiral in the corner. Text reads Beguiled specials. Pandastory video classes. Ready to go deeper in hypnokink?

Blankness.
Pleasure.
Memory play.
Hypno & BDSM.
And so much more.

Through Fri, Aug 7.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 01/08/2026

Bootblacking 101. Join panda for an introduction to leathercare & the tradition of bootblacking. 5 hrs · 15 lessons + 3 bonus videos. From your first kit to working stands. Order during the presale for a special live Q+A with panda […] [Original post on toot.wales]

A purple background with a photo at the bottom showing a shiny black leather shoe, a leathercare brush resting on it, and a selection of other bootblacking items beside it. Text above reads Special video class presale. Bootblacking 101. Join panda for an introduction to leathercare & the tradition of bootblacking.

5 hrs · 15 lessons + 3 bonus videos.
From your first kit to working stands.
Order during the presale for a special live Q+A with panda.

Presale through Aug 7.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 22/07/2026

I am so thrilled to be speaking at @kbtl.bsky.social this year, I felt so cheeky asking if I could even though I was going to be at another con the same weekend! So I'm pre-recording my classes & they'll be available only through their Extended Access option. I […] [Original post on toot.wales]

a black background with an outline of a fist in blue and blue text beside it reading KBtL VII EA Only presenter. Above text reads 6 - 8 November. Below it reads kinkbetweenthelines dot com.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 19/07/2026

it's somewhat reassuring to see that Google actually doesn't know some really basic shit about me.

Ad settings info from a Google account showing gender female, age 34 - 44, language English, Relationships married, education bachelor's degree, industry not enough info, employer large employer, home renter.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 15/07/2026

My metamour (my partner's partner) crocheted me a TiLi (who was recently put to sleep) and I cried, and Morrie appreciated it too 💕 And my beautiful partner got me a stunning copy of The Last Unicorn which is a film I adore and I've been meaning to read the book […] [Original post on toot.wales]

A small white fluffy crotched dog with floppy ears and one eye being held next to a beautiful boxed copy of The Last Unicorn book.

A small white fluffy crotched dog with floppy ears and one eye being sniffed by a small terrier with white face and brown ears.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 30/06/2026

So assuming I do have ankylosing spondylitis (which it seems like it is) then movement is super important. So if the issue with movement is my heart, then maybe slow movement, keeping my heart rate low, might be doable. So today I walked to the shop with the […] [Original post on toot.wales]

Two small fluffy dogs walking along a path with tall grass and trees on each side. Overlaid is text reading Vale of Glamorgan walking, Garmin, distance 0.95 miles, total time 43:45, average pace 46:05, and a line map of direction.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 25/06/2026

Hottest day of the heatwave here on 4 hours of shitty sleep... Let's do this #UKHeatwave #Wales #Finch

Finch task screenshot showing 25 goals left for today and the goal of the day as literally survive the day

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 22/06/2026

I'm sure this is totally fine and will have no consequences especially the week before a massive heatwave. Especially given it took me about 2 weeks to recover from the last heatwave... #ChronicIllness #Disabled #UKHeatwave

Visible screenshot showing a week of pace points, limit being 10, going 14.2 on Monday, 10.9 on Tuesday, 21 on Wednesday, 23.1 on Thursday, 32.6 on Friday, 32.3 on Saturday, and 14.8 on Sunday.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 18/06/2026

Legally Blonde was awesome. Could have done without the ever increasing pain while I was watching (and then continuing to worsen when we went out to eat after). Home and throwing food in the oven (I couldn't eat anything the restaurant did) so I can collapse. #LegallyBlonde #Theatre

A large theatre completely full with people. On the stage is an enormous lit up sign which reads "Legally Blonde"

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 16/06/2026

Happy cry! I am playing Legend in the Mist because @IvysRequiem is both naughty and amazing 💕 I am a clumsy beekeeper who has just noticed that some ants have been poisoned and has now discovered she herself is also poisoned from tracking the ants and is […] [Original post on toot.wales]

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 14/06/2026

In great LGBTQ+ events news, someone super awesome who I am honoured to call a friend is part of the team putting on a regular meetup/mental health space for gay, bi and Queer men to chat and get things off their chest in Cardiff. It's called Help U and it runs […] [Original post on toot.wales]

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 08/06/2026

I've mostly been lying around feeling sorry for myself and knocking back painkillers today thanks to chronic illness and PEM so I made my #Finch #Pride themed! My code is FJ7NRG23Z3 if you want to be friends there 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Screenshot of a Finch room with starry wallpaper, pink floor, pink bed with heart pillows, neon pink and purple blinds, a multicoloured desk with coffee machine, plant with fairy lights round it, pink door with hearts dangling from it and a rainbow doormat

Screenshot of a Finch bird wearing a lesbian Pride rainbow on its head, asexual rainbow glasses, wings, and dungarees with rainbow legs and hearts on the chest. She is holding a rainbow slushie. A purple Cheshire cat next sat next to her.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 07/06/2026

I'm sure this will have no consequences at all and I will be completely fine next week. Zero issues with spending 80% of my days pace points on one task and being over pace points before 10:30am. I mowed the lawn... It's been on the list for a month, and you can […] [Original post on toot.wales]

A Visible a screenshot showing pace points of 11.1 and a heart rate graph where a section of it goes into the red up to 160 for half an hour. Underneath the graph it shows 7 hours 12 minutes sleep, 0.7 pace points spent on picking up poo, and 8.3 spent on housework.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 01/06/2026

I'll start with this super cute pic of my girlfriend, @IvysRequiem , and I at Lost and Found in Barry, which is a super inclusive and really wonderful non profit gaming and community space. #Pride #Wales #LGBTQ

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and pink hair wearing a pale pink jumper with small Beauty and the Beast decoration on it under pink and white dungarees. She is smiling broadly while being hugged by Ivy, a woman with light skin tone and curly brown hair, wearing a loose black top. who is also smiling. They look very cute and gay.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 15/05/2026

I love this t-shirt but the design is peeling off so I figured I'd stitch it on instead. Great plan Lex. This project will take me the rest of my life! Curse chronic illness, I could just set up my sewing machine if I could physically sit up for meaningful amounts of time. #Sewing #Mending

A pale pink t-shirt with black decor glued to it that is falling off and leaving a trail of glue behind. The outside circle of the design has completely come off and there is a row of hand cross stitched black thread replacing a small section of it.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 21/10/2025

Had such a lovely time at the cinema tonight watching #GoodFortune with the @Weirdos_Queerdos folks, despite being absolutely wiped. Great film too, I really enjoyed it. Resist 💪🏻

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and pink hair swept to one side revealing an undercut. She is wearing an I bat for the bonelord long sleeved white and black top, an orange and black check scarf, and green dungarees with an owl necklace with real feathers and big white eyes.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 21/10/2025

Who will I be seeing at Birmingham Fetish Weekend? I'm teaching consent and negotiation at their community day this November and am super excited! Learn more about BFW & grab your tickets here: www.birminghamfetishweekend.com #KinkEducation #kinky

Alexis, a woman with bright pink hair swept to one side revealing an undercut, and a fringe on her face. She is wearing pink rimmed glasses, pastel pink dungarees, and a pink and black bra. Beside her text reads "I'm teaching at BFW consent and negotiation workshop."

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 08/10/2025

Dog owners of the Fediverse; any recommendations for a small, ethical business in the UK to buy a snuffle mat and snuggle blanket from? These are from Ruffle Snuffle and the dogs love them but they've pivoted to very English flag style marketing and products […] [Original post on toot.wales]

Two small dogs snuffling for food in a snuffle mat; a rectangular object made of bits of different coloured material that food has been hidden in.

A pillow case style blanket with a sleeping fox design in the outside and grey soft fluffy fleece inside.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 07/10/2025

Breakfast of champions before I take on the day! Homemade pancakes.

A small plate with two American pancakes covered in berries and chocolate spread.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 06/10/2025

Why do I feel that my word of the year for 2026 is going to be something along these lines... #LongCovid #ChronicIllness

Text reading "take care of your body, it's the only place you have to live" in a red heart

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 05/10/2025

I'm teaching consent and negotiation at Birmingham Fetish Weekend's community day this November. As ever, it will have an #ActuallyAutistic twist because hi, I'm Autistic! And I have handouts and everything! Learn more about BFW & grab your tickets here […] [Original post on toot.wales]

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 21/09/2025

In good news though, today is a #DnD day for me so I am getting ready to run my Sunday group of newbies who have gone from detectives trying to solve a murder to adventures investigating a possible cult in just 1 short level! Lol! #DnD5e #TTRPG

A desk with pale pink desk mat, pink keyboard, black mouse lit up pink, a wooden dice tray filled with 3 sets of pink and purple dice, a purple backed DM screen, a purple Piglet Disney mug with hot chocolate in it, and above it all a computer screen and laptop.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 18/09/2025

Learn the sexiest skill of all - asking for what you actually want! In this workshop at Birmingham Fetish Weekend's community day, we're going to figure out the absolute best way for you to communicate with your play partners (and potential play partners) so […] [Original post on toot.wales]

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 11/09/2025

Did my civic duty earlier today and hit the polling station to vote Plaid Cymru. #UKPol #ValeOfGlamorgan #LocalElections

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone, wearing a knitted blue headband and a pastel pink waterproof coat and pastel pink shoes standing beside a sign that reads "polling station. Gorsaf bleidleisio"

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 11/09/2025

Gold star to me ⭐ I am now a week ahead for one of my open university modules (and yes, I am basically dead today, hence the very urgh look) #OpenUniversity

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and pink hair scraped back away from her face and tied up. She looks very drained. She is wearing pink cord dungarees and a pink jumper while sitting on a bed with a textbook on her lap, her laptop open showing some notes and Spirit City Low Fi. Two small fluffy dogs are curled up against her.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 11/09/2025

Ready to level up your play? Learn the sexiest skill of all: asking for what you really want. I'm teaching Consent & Negotiations 101 at Pride in Gloucestershire this Saturday 13th Sept. I'll be at the Weredog K&F Stage teaching a 45-minute workshop packed with […] [Original post on toot.wales]

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone and bright pink hair with pink sparkly freckles over her face overlaid onto a pastel rainbow background with a rainbow over her. Under the rainbow reads I'm teaching at Pride on Gloucestershire, consent safety and negotiation workshop in the K&F zone."

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 10/09/2025

Help! My #windows11 laptop updated and is now broken. I got the key from my Microsoft account and put it in, it said it was trying to fix it and then just booted to this same screen again. I'm out getting an ECG at the moment but would really appreciate any help […] [Original post on toot.wales]

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 05/09/2025

I have quite the bag situation on the back plus a suitcase!

A quite large Irregular Choice cat handbag with soft fluffy cat face attached to the back of an electric wheelchair. The other side of it is a reusable bag which is also hooked on.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 03/09/2025

Today was challenging. The GP phoned me (after I have told them repeatedly not to) to discuss long covid stuff. They are gonna run more tests so I had to go pick up the referrals. So I went in Elle (my chair) and wheeled down to the surgery. It was scary because […] [Original post on toot.wales]

Alexis, a woman with light skin tone wearing a bright pink poncho with black polka dots on it while sitting in Elle, her electric wheelchair, riding over a bridge on a sunny day but there has clearly been a lot of rain.

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 03/09/2025

Ready to level up your play? Learn the sexiest skill of all: asking for what you really want. I'm teaching Consent & Negotiations 101 at Pride in Gloucestershire on Sat 13th Sept. I'll be at the Weredog K&F Stage teaching a 45-minute workshop packed with consent […] [Original post on toot.wales]

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Alexis Bushnell @alexisbushnell.toot.wales.ap.brid.gy · 30/08/2025

My books for my #OpenUniversity course have arrived. I really need to arrange my bedroom and desk set up to make it more accessible for me now too.

Four thick university books resting on a leg which is covered in pink soft jogging bottoms. The books are "encountering psychology in context" one and two, and "exploring psychological worlds: thinking, feeling, doing" one and two.

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