figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 10/03/2025The new guy on my team is about to learn why we all hate the boss. 000
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 10/03/2025Yseult’s version of my way is such a good song to weep to. 110
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 02/02/2025received flowers at the end of our date. thoughtful gifts and actions are always appreciated over here 💕 180
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 14/01/2025Here’s what the wealthiest Californians donated toward the wildfires and here’s who has donated. ChatGPT is bad for the environment, but in this case it made sense for the analysis I wanted to show. 040
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 10/01/2025I will be genuinely sad if they shut down TikTok. 100
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 02/01/2025Truly one of my favoritesmusic.apple.comI Miss You (feat. Teddy Pendergrass) by Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes on Apple MusicSong · 2007 · Duration 8:31 031
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 29/12/2024Anyway, big reason I no longer host: I don’t want to ruin my sheets for a man who only sees me as a nut. If you’re my man, obviously no problem. If you care about me and we sleep together, no problem. But it’s a bit too much not really caring around the other person in a post-PREP world. 150
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 29/12/2024I’m not sure. And this isn’t a fully formed thought but I feel like painting is mostly a thing with raw. Back in the condom days, I really can’t recall that many instances of it happening. Maybe the type that I sleep with is more of what changed? 010
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 29/12/2024It’s been nice to be in community with black men (gay and straight) who are focused on community and improving their family, friendship, and dating relationships. I’ve had some really wonderful in person conversations this month that affirm the power of community — and continued investment. 020
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 29/12/2024And followwwwwwwww my leaddddddde and youllllllllll beeeeee 010
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 28/12/2024I hate feeling like a fan. When someone has an insane following to follow ratio, my instinct won’t allow me to follow now matter how fine they are. I hate that about me. A bit. 240
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 28/12/2024I feel so meh. Let me take a bath in the hopes my troubles and tensions melt off. 030
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 24/12/20242024 is the year I became a Panda Express person. 030
Reposted by figuring it outmathewnoknowles @mathewnoknowles.bsky.social · 24/12/2024holding space for your meat tonight 1433
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 24/12/2024Cross has had some predictable plot points but it’s still fun to watch 120
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 24/12/2024Every time I see yalls meats, I understand. I have bf peen. Yall are the men they say they going to see a man with a horse about. 230
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 24/12/2024I feel like I see more holes and poles on here than on the other Platform. Not mad, just didn’t expect that 010
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 20/12/2024I couldn’t be a housewife because I hold a grudge too much. No, I can’t move on and make amends in under a week. I gotta take a few weeks 040
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 19/12/2024I don’t have a blusky boyfriend yet. Seeking: black male who provides me with endless praise, a gentle spirit, and a romanticism that one day we’ll meet but probably never will. Must be 25 and up 🥰 240
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 19/12/2024I do expect to spend more time here after Jan 20. I know that other place will be insufferable but it’s hard to fully pull away from where the engagement is. The dopamine hits are what so many of us are chasing. 020
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 19/12/2024My Fitbit might have been the best purchase of 2024. She really keeps me informed. 000
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 19/12/2024The Wicked movie is was long, but I really wanted them to loop back to No One Mourns The Wicked after Defying Gravity. Because you don’t realize how good the first song is until you rewatch / replay the soundtrack. 020
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 19/12/2024“No one mourns the wicked” in 5-15 years is going to become a karaoke standard. The wicked movie made accessible to so many kids who didn’t know they needed that. In a post-glee world, this is the Super Bowl of musical theatre f@ggotry. We up! 010
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 06/12/2024he sucked it for 3 mins and gave up. He ain’t have poppers or lube (I’m here visiting), and then was shocked because he wouldn’t be able to take it. Not sure why the girls are so dumb and don’t think through a plan. I asked and he said: let’s just meet and see. 270
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 05/12/2024When you know you’re the f slur and unashamed 060
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 02/12/2024I should just turn these apps off here. Everyone is too damn skinny. 140
Reposted by figuring it outBl3rditout™️ 🔜 BlerDCon 2027 @bl3rditout.bsky.social · 01/12/2024Hug an overthinker today… we need it. 15320
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 01/12/2024If you were a villain, who would you be?media.tenor.coma woman in a black suit is standing in a field with her arms outstretched .Alt: a MOTHER in a black suit is standing in a field with her arms outstretched SERVING KUNT GODDESS 050
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 01/12/2024It’s interesting to see the different kinds of yt people you see around Asia and the airport. Vietnam, Japan, and Thailand have all had very different flavors of yt travelers. And the black folks in Japan and Thailand make clear which country I prefer to revisit between the two. 🙃 150
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 30/11/2024I’m in Thailand and it’s just a lot of not cute white men messaging me. Girl, I don’t even look your way in America. 060
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 30/11/2024Sniffles is blocked in every WiFi spot I’ve used here in Bangkok. I guess heauxing on that app is to be revisited later. 010
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 28/11/2024Seeing Ho Chi Min City (Saigon) and Tokyo on the same trip is something. They got 4 lines for about 500 people and it’s all lower tech. Curious to see what Thailand’s immigration lines will be like. 030
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 28/11/2024Even the McDonald’s toilet seat was heated in Tokyo. 020
Reposted by figuring it outI Got a Subaruaaaahh @soobydoo.bsky.social · 28/11/2024To the ones who are at work or chosen to alone for Thanksgiving.media.tenor.coma cartoon of two teddy bears standing next to each other with imgplay written below themALT: a cartoon of two teddy bears standing next to each other with imgplay written below them 1174
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 28/11/2024Gotta admit. I’m more than a little nervous about this trip and the next 10 days. 000
Reposted by figuring it outSchooley @schooley.bsky.social · 27/11/2024James Bond movies never show the part where the supervillain collects government subsidies to build his death tech. 699575087969
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 28/11/2024The way I’m hotboxing this air cabin. It’s just pooting back to back for 14 hours. 010
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 27/11/2024I needed a program to watch while I eat this meal and accidentally chose Thor: Love & Thunder. 6 mins in and I was like “wait, where is cunty Cate?” And then realized I needed to be watching Thor: Ragnarok. All better now. 220
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 27/11/2024My Fitbit recording spinning. What yall think I was doing? 100
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 27/11/2024I make a lot of dumb decisions in the pursuit of sex. 050
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 27/11/2024Financial compatibility for me looks like all of your bills are on auto-pay. 190
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 27/11/2024I’m trying to have kids by 40, and the clock is ticking with 3 years left. Mr Baby Daddy needs to show up asap (or I can be a step dad) 030
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 27/11/2024Strong preference for mannish bottoms who like to do the boy and girl stuff. I enjoy princess treatment whenever I can get it 020
figuring it out @alacadabra.bsky.social · 26/11/2024I’m enjoying this Fitbit. Happy I invested in me and my health. 070
