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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 12h

I was really vulnerable recently (something I struggle with) but like, not in a way that I think was conducive to the situation so now I've been sick to my stomach with embarrassment and shame and no way to resolve it with the other party 😀🫶🏿

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 15h

I wish I could just let go if things and not ruminate for days and days. GOD RELEASE MEEE

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 19h

He really listens to the people 😭🫶🏿

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Iron Spike @ironspike.bsky.social · 19/10/2026

I believe in my heart that, for a non-zero percentage of genAI touts, feeling like they’re punishing creatives for daring to have “fun” jobs when they were forced into jobs they have no personal passion for is part of the draw. “There! Now you have to get a ‘real job,’ just like they made ME do!”

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 20/10/2026

I love opening my window right after I wake up. Lying in bed with the autumn breeze kissing my face is so dreamy

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assemblyman of the people's republic of anhedonia @jaybeekeeper.blacksky.app · 20/10/2026

this is a terrible time to be going through it

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Blaxamillian @blaxamillian.blacksky.app · 19/10/2026

The horrors persist... and out of spite, so do I.

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 19/10/2026

venus retrograde is pulling all kinds of boxing moves on me

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 19/10/2026

In this weird place where I don't want to talk about anything to anyone cause I'm always so excited for other people's good news and it's never the same response for me! Yuck!

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 17/10/2026

If it was a blowout you would know it immediately 😂 so I think you're good too! Yeah just treat them tenderly until the next stretch! Well done and congratulations ✨

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 17/10/2026

from pushing when the skin isn't ready (lubed/softened). Definitely saline tomorrow and every day at least 2x morning and night and don't stretch again until you've fully healed (min. 8weeks)

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 17/10/2026

😭 I should have given you more info before encouraging this I'm so sorry. Next time, DO NOT stretch without sufficient lube. Even take a shower before and warm up the skin and use the gloopiest balm before you stretch. A blowout is literally bleeding and swelling and tearing of the skin

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 17/10/2026

Did you lube enough? The pain should subside as the hours goe by. Make sure you didn't get any blow outs. The cartilage is thick so it'll hurt a little longer than a stretched lobe. If there's no blowout, give it another hour or so, if it hurts at the same intensity as the first hour, take it out!

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Teri B @tallmaschq.bsky.social · 17/10/2026

I wonder how many people have gone home after meeting me and said, "What the hell was that?"

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Liv @itslivagain.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

I feel like we are currently living through all of the horrors of the world at once right now and I….a little bit can’t take it! People in the future will be like “worst time to be alive, probably the 2020s”

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quaithe of the shadow asshai @clarkconquers.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

Idk how we are still going to work, raising kids, taking care of elderly parents, keeping active, while staying informed

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Solomon @solomonrmissouri.com · 13/10/2026

You gone always be too much to the wrong people

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

everyone is strange here if this really happened. the weird power dynamic of over tipping someone with the hopes of interacting with them further when they are just doing their job. The rude text from the gf. all of it is odd.

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

I think it might. I have sensitive and allergy prone ears all over. But stretching my lobes (00) and conch (14 but went professionally for this one) effectively fixed all my flair ups. I feel like the stretching in general makes easily-upset ears more manageable!

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

I think it's doable on your own tbh. I remember I've accidentally sized up my cartilage by just putting in a thicker earring lol. So if that's your goal I'm sure it will be alright? Just slow and steady

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

I really hate men who make me feel like I'm holding them hostage because I know what I want. You don't have to be here and you're pissing me off so let's cut our losses buddy

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

yes but I guess not recommended😭 some friends have done it and said the process has to be much much much slower than you would your lobes! And getting a kit with in-between sizes will limit potential blowouts

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

I was a really weird kid but my parents were really strict so when I got older I wondered how they let me get away with it. Then I realised one day in my 20s that my mom is really fucking weird😭 so I think I was just totally normal to my parents but weird to outside people😭

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

I just be watching John Cena movies for the sake of my love of him as a wrestler when I was a kid lol. But one thing I absolutely love is seeing him AGE. All the lines, the softening around his cheeks and jaws, god I wish actors aged more

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

This is so ugly I actually can't bring my jaw up from off the floor😭

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 13/10/2026

washing my hair and doing my everything shower today, I am born anew

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Unfriendly Black Hottie! 🇧🇧 @nikilatoya.blacksky.app · 10/10/2026

When you reach flow state on the elliptical….

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 09/10/2026

happened to me just the other day. I was so devastated

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 07/10/2026

I have a white friend who always crosses the road with the expectation that a car will stop. Once she asked why I always walk fast even when drivers stopped. I had to tell her that I've always lived with the fear that they'd change their mind. It was the 1st time I verbalised what has been so normal

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 07/10/2026

Venus retrograde torturing me with dreams of every ex I've ever had please RELEASE ME

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 06/10/2026

I live for days I get to read things like this.

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Viktor Winetrout @viktorwinetrout.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

You’re laughing? A coyote runs into a wall painted to look like a tunnel and you’re laughing

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 05/10/2026

Thank you thank you, definitely trial by fire for little me but now I'm a horror obsessed adult so shout to moms!😂

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Cloud Bob @theythemthicc.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

AI is gonna ruin the thirst trap industry. And that makes me furious.

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 05/10/2026

Thirteen Ghosts, The Others, Skeleton Key, The Grudge

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 04/10/2026

😭😭😭😭😭 but this is exactly what I imagined listening to this

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Zanzan @agenderhottie.myatproto.social · 25/09/2026

I feel like I finally moved passed the scary "I:m too shy to speak" barrier to my language learning. Like is my grammar an absolute pile of shit? Yes, but am I still showing up to my lessons and trying? Yes!

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