Aella @aella.bsky.social · 28/09/2026This wasn't a kink. This was a nonsexual torture party where the goal was to have unique unpleasant experiences. Include the full context. I encourage you to link to the post. 350
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Damn. I have heard people talk about blue sky like it's a toxic cesspit but I sort of was assuming it was overblown 26131
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 17/09/2026I'll have to reread, iirc there were multiple like either probably or equivalent words. 250
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Guys, this does not mean that other things are necessarily correct. Some of it is, but misleading. I'm about to do an egg retrieval but can respond in more depth later if there's enough good faith curiosity. 13810
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Some of it, yes! Though generally presented in misleading contexts. If enough interest I can do a thread later breaking it down, I'm just about to do an egg retrieval so might be out of commission for a bit 3170
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 17/09/2026So much in this is factually incorrect. Basically every time they say "probably" it's an incorrect assumption with no evidence. 43896
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 16/09/2026They blocked me so I can't see lol. But ppl regularly make stuff up about me based on rumors they heard. It's annoying 020
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 16/09/2026The roofie roulette thing never happened. And our cnc parties aren't public, you can read the rules at redmeansno.com I did get held down at my gangbang but I explicitly asked for this in front of everyone and never said no or stop (except possibly with people who id played CNC with before?redmeansno.comRed Means NoA bay area CNC private sex party. 150
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 16/09/2026What? No I didn't. Can you link to where I supposedly admitted this? 000
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Full write-up of the event is here aella.substack.com/p/my-birthda...aella.substack.comMy Birthday Gangbanga slutistical breakdown 1353
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Hey! It's me! The full write-up of the gangbang is here if anybody wants more details aella.substack.com/p/my-birthda... 181
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 14/05/2026Vibecamp was great when I went. If you think it's cool, then you'll meet the other kinds of people who think it's cool. 180
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 11/02/2026yes there's absolutely a connection, but it's not deep or subconscious. I have bad poops, i have bad/embarrassing associations with my butthole, people putting things in my butt feels associated with my bad poops. i think if i didnt have ibs i'd prob like anal sex. 110
Reposted by AellaHelena @cockamamied.bsky.social · 10/02/2026"They really focused on the part where I was saying that Black men catcall more and not the part where I was like, 'Hey, maybe we should question our conceptions of catcalling itself.' And maybe there is a racist component to that. How much of this is just people being afraid of Black men?"chattingwithcandice.com#37 Aella- Monogamy, Polyamory, and Sex WorkAella is one of OnlyFans' most successful creators. Aella was homeschooled in a fundamentalist Christian household. After leaving home and finding herself unable to… 2101
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 11/02/2026Nature being shitty is not force. You dying from hunger unless someone else labors to feed you is not exploitation. You are not entitled to someone else's labor. That's slavery. 190
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 11/02/2026And like, other people owe you nothing. You are not entitled to their labor or property. The default state of humanity is without food or medicine, these things do not spawn for you with zero effort. So you can engage in consensual trade with people, with consensual defined as nobody is forcing you 290
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 11/02/2026Exploitation is not a super precise word. I view bad things as when 'force is used to prevent people from taking actions (excluding force against others) to better themselves', with force being like, variants on literal violence or threats backed up by it. 160
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 09/02/2026"spending christmas day" u know it takes like 30 seconds to tweet a poll right 010
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 09/02/2026i already make a bunch of money from my research, what would a phd get me? 110
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 09/02/2026i... don't know? my best guess is some v old tweet that's getting misinterpreted but i have nothing specific that comes to mind 150
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 09/02/20261. yeah i mean i have a lot of editors banging down my door wanting me to write something so maybe? but prob my first book will be bout something else. 2. absolutely! i keep meaning to sign up for e.g. alcor 070
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 09/02/2026I spoke at hereticon, which was a conference thiel funded, so probably that? i've never met him. But the conference did pay for my hotel room? 0160
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 09/02/2026This is me! AMA about the details of any of these things (some of which are misleading) 18391
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/02/2026and now we live in incredible houses with transparent squares that let in light, and energy that pours out of the walls and water that washes away your shit. This luxury is not a static resource, it was something that emerged, over time, from trade with each other. Prosperity isn't zero sum! 4251
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/02/2026I think wealth is good. Industry and trade has lifted so much of the globe out of poverty, and will continue to do so if it's not stifled. Sustainable luxury is created, not stolen! Thousands of years ago we lived in mud huts! 1191
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/02/2026I'm glad, as a kid, I was exposed to education about economics and an understanding of what living standards were in centuries past. If I'd instead been comparing my life to people with more money than us, I would have maybe been angry, or viewed prosperity as something stolen instead of shared. 1181
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/02/2026You would not think my childhood home was prosperous by today's standards. My family sometimes were stuck between paying for food or gas; I remember one Christmas my mom put lights on a potted plant because we couldn't afford a tree (~$30 at the time). 1140
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/02/2026 I'd learned about basic economics - supply and demand, and surplus value, and gains from trade, and it was exceedingly obvious that these things were what allowed me to enjoy such prosperity. 1140
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/02/2026As a kid, I read history stories of people who survived famines, or died from yellow fever, or celebrated being able to eat something with sugar at Christmas. I felt so grateful for the prosperity I had - a warm bed at night, sweets, medicine. 1/ 1422
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 07/02/2026New post - Women Are Low Status open.substack.com/pub/aella/p/...open.substack.comPt5: Women Are Low Statusanna delvey, narcissism, and the queen from bridgerton 1302
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 22/04/2025new post out, throwing my hat into the ring of dating discourse aella.substack.com/p/the-diffic... 9411
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/03/2025e.g. the bdsm vs vanilla divide is big and bimodal and very very strong, particularly among women. I also suspect there's a similar thing around mate guarding spectrum in males - is it hot or not hot when a woman fucks anything that moves? 4530
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 08/03/2025im increasingly coming to believe that there's different spectrums in sexual desire that are just as defining, deep, and unmalleable as being gay or straight 4721
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 23/02/2025why for the love of god is there no simple, easy service to just crosspost anything i post on twitter to bksy 12982
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Aella @aella.bsky.social · 16/01/2025this is why i don't include consent forms. If I actually need someone to consent to something real then I'll just include a single line - "Is it ok if I do x with the data?" yes/no 2351
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 30/11/2024male (not cis) means anybody who's amab, but doesn't identify as a man. This generally includes transwomen and amab enbies 140
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 28/11/2024I am the source. it's from the Big Kink Survey, which i write about a lot on my blog. 150
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 28/11/2024interestingly, a woman's economic views predicts how many people she's had sex with more than her social views do 14953
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 27/11/2024How many people have rape fetishes? This is the % of people who were into rape (and other types of dominance/submission) in my survey. 640,000 people, demographics are young and western 4524
Aella @aella.bsky.social · 26/11/2024ok i surveyed a bunch of drug users to find out what drug is the best. here's the results for the best ratings aella.substack.com/p/the-best-p... 2606
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