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@acesexeducation.bsky.social
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AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator Greyromantic Asexual 💜🖤✡ Focus on Ace/Aro Education (Bri/she) AceSexEducation.com

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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
Covid sucks. My throat is scratchy, eyes wattery, nose runny. No fun.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
This was a fun conversation! 😊
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
Had a Consult today that ended up being a sales pitch. First time this has happened, so I guess it was due. But, I was really hoping for at least a small commission today. So I'll use this to remind you that my consults are 50% off through the end of the year! 💜 calendly.com/aubrilancast...
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 16/12/2025
Last Call for my workshop (Created with Ace & Aro folx in mind) Open to everyone! Redefining Intimacy: How Do We Connect Outside the Script? Tuesday Dec 16th 4-6pm PT (7-9pm ET) ㅤ redefiningintimacydec2025.eventbrite.com
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Redefining Intimacy: How Do We Connect Outside the Script?
This workshop invites you to rediscover how you connect with others and with yourself!
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Art by Emily K @museum.of.emilyk.art · 28/10/2025
"Call Jane" This work is an homage to the Jane Collective, which consisted mostly of Jewish women. The "Janes" provided safe, discreet abortion access to low income women in the early 1970s Chicago when abortion was mostly illegal in the USA. More in the alt.
A stark, black and white illustration of a payphone is at the center. There's a sign on the side of it that says "Pregnant? Don't want to be? Call Jane at 643-3844." It is one of the ads they placed in a paper. The background of the illustration is stylized to look like a page from an old "Yellow Pages" phone book. There are old photos of the Janes and their workplace interspersed between lists of Jewish verses, designed to look like phone number entries. These are citations of Jewish texts addressing social justice, civil disobedience, abortion, and medicine. The AT&T logo on the payphone is stylized to be a hamsa, with RM"K (my Hebrew name initials). The background overall is designed to have a 1970s printed page style. Closeup of the illustration showing details of the yellow pages entries, which are citations of Jewish texts.Closeup of the bottom right of the illustration, showing details of the yellow pages entries, which are citations of Jewish texts.
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The Nexus Project @nexusproject.bsky.social · 01/07/2025
We're not here to endorse or not endorse a candidate. But as an organization committed to ending antisemitism and protecting democracy in the U.S., we are deeply concerned by the recent conversation around Zohran Mamdani. Here is our statement:
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Overheated and Sensationalized Attacks on Zohran Mamdani Damage Political Discourse, Harm Jewish Community
“The attacks on Zohran Mamdani in New York City’s mayoral race have crossed the line from principled critique and disagreement into something
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AVEN @avenofficial.bsky.social · 05/06/2025
Happy Aromantic Visibility Day!
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 02/06/2025
My next workshop is coming up in a few weeks and all are welcome! Pay what you can! RedefiningIntimacyjun2025.eventbrite.com
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Redefining Intimacy
This workshop invites you to rediscover how you connect with others and with yourself!
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 01/06/2025
Orientation influences behavior, but behavior does not define Orientation. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🩶🖤
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United Farm Workers @ufw.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
Gabriel harvests oranges in Selma CA: I earn $24 per 900lb bin. The pay hasn't changed in 4-5 years. It doesn’t justify the hard, heavy work we do. We run back and forth and go up and down a 16-foot ladder quickly picking oranges in a bag that weighs 60lb when full. #WeFeedYou
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
What can it look like to make more space for uncertainty, fluidity, and forms of intimacy (closeness and connection) and pleasure (enjoyment and satisfaction) that lean into more of a "settling in" than a "revving up" energy?
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
I don't fancy a shag. I fancy being seen without being sexualized.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
I'm so grateful that my wizard journey was in the world of author Diane Duane. With complexity and queer characters. An author who wrote an autistic character that the autistic community took her to task over & she REWROTE her book in response.
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George Takei @georgetakei.bsky.social · 07/04/2025
A reminder that if the government can send migrants to a prison camp without any due process, it can send U.S. citizens there, too. I know because this happened to me and my family in 1942.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
I don't fancy a shag, I fancy complex conversations about intimacy.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
I don't fancy a shag, I fancy respect.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 17/02/2025
Can't wait!!!
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Virtual Queer Library @vqlibrary.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
Next week is Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week! We’re so excited to celebrate alongside Aubri Lancaster (Bri/she) of @acesexeducation.bsky.social ! On Monday, February 17th, at 7pm EST, we will be joining Aubri on Instagram Live to talk about two books featuring Aromantic representation.
Background: A gradient representation of the colors of the Aromantic flag: dark green, light green, white, grey, and black. 

Text: The Aromantic Bookshelf- A conversation on aromantic representation in both fiction and nonficton books. 
Monday, February 17th, 7pm EST
Featuring Aubri Lancaster (Bri/ she) of AceSexEducation and the team of the Virtual Queer Library. 

Design: In the bottom corners are two circular graphics. One is a photo of Aubri, a light-skinned Jewish Demi-Femme person wearing a teal headscarf with a tail to the side, a necklace, and a blue collared shirt. The other is the VQ Library logo, which shows an open book with rainbow pages and a pink heart floating above it. Background: A gradient representation of the colors of the Aromantic flag: dark green, light green, white, grey, and black. 

Text: “The Bruising of Qilwa”; Naseem Jamnia

Design: The cover of “The Bruising of Qilwa”. A background of red and purple swirling designs frame a drawing of a red and tan city within yellow walls. A hand hovers over the scene. Background: A gradient representation of the colors of the Aromantic flag: dark green, light green, white, grey, and black. 

Text: “The Other Significant Others”; Rhaina Cohen

Design: The cover of “The Other Significant Others” which features a light blue gradient background and a stack of brightly colored teacups and saucers.
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TASHRA- The Alternative Sexuality Health Research Alliance @kinkhealth.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
📢 TASHRA On Demand is live! We’re excited to launch our new platform offering asynchronous workshops for: ✨ Professionals: Deepen your knowledge of kink/BDSM and earn AASECT & APA CE credits. ✨ Community: Learn about consent, empowerment, and kink's role in well-being. tashraondemand.vhx.tv/products
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EducateUS @educateusaction.bsky.social · 10/02/2025
#GoodNewsOfTheWeek 🥳15 Democrat Attorneys General issued a statement reaffirming their commitment to protecting gender-affirming – assuring federal funding should still be available too. We celebrate every advocate making sure rights are protected for ALL! Read more shorturl.at/epg3t #EducateUS
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15 Democratic state AGs stand by gender-affirming care
"Federal funding to institutions that provide gender-affirming care continues to be available, irrespective of President Trump’s recent Executive Order," the attorneys general say.
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United Farm Workers @ufw.bsky.social · 10/02/2025
Alejandra shows us an orange she just harvested in Kern County. She tells us: we are paid by what we pick . The below box we fill weighs around 1,000 lbs. We are paid $26 per box. #WeFeedYou
A farm worker holding up a orange she just picked in a glove hand hovering over a thousand pound bin she must fill
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 08/02/2025
www.npr.org/programs/ted...
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Who counts as a significant other?
Finding "the one" can seem like life’s ultimate goal—but should it be? This hour, TED speakers expand the definition of life partnership, whether it’s with a friend, a spouse, a pet, or no one at all.
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elle is not ok [📌’d 👀] @scretladyspider.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
being ableist and sanist towards your enemies is still being ableist and sanist. you can call something cruel or racist or horrible and not use ableist and sanist language. It’s not great when everyone’s immediate reaction to everything awful is ableism.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
Pssst.... test your links on your websites and newsletters! Including (or especially) your Social icon links! I cannot tell you how often I find broken links or links that were never customized!
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
What's my point? Make space for people to just not want sex. Make space for people to center non-sexual pleasure and non-sexual intimacy in their lives and relationships. Don't assume "low desire" is a problem that must be fixed. Give them a chance to get out of the car.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
If at any point along the way, someone had just said, it's ok to not like driving. Some people just don't enjoy driving. You don't have to keep trying to enjoy it..... what a massive difference that could make....
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
Well maybe you need a different driving companion. So you bring along friends, family, maybe even drive for Uber. But for some reason you still don't enjoy it....
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
Well maybe you just need to change the context! So try driving freeways, mountain roads, ocean views. But for some reason, you still don't like driving.....
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
Well maybe you just don't really know how to drive. So you take lessons and you learn all the ins and outs of driving. But for some reason, you still don't enjoy driving....
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
If you don't enjoy driving, some people may suggest there's something wrong with your car. So you go to the mechanic and make sure everything is working and well lubricated.... but for some reason, you still don't enjoy driving...
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
So often treatment for "low desire" misses a crucial consideration. First let's talk about driving a car. 🧵
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Darby Saxbe @darbysaxbe.bsky.social · 04/02/2025
🚨BREAKING. From a program officer at the National Science Foundation, a list of keywords that can cause a grant to be pulled. I will be sharing screenshots of these keywords along with a decision tree. Please share widely. This is a crisis for academic freedom & science.
list of banned keywords
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Mia Mingus @miamingus.bsky.social · 03/02/2025
Folks have PM'd me, so here is a very simple, (yet incredibly effective) how-to for a body-based practice of this. There are a ton of free guided meditations out there too that you can use (for all different time-lengths). There are also apps you can download like Headspace that make it easy too
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Alt National Park Service @altnps.bsky.social · 26/01/2025
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Gee Bree (she/her) @geebree09.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
Just looking for a few more #ace Christians to fill out this survey. Working through a book proposal now and excited to have had a call with someone in publishing who is excited about this! #asexual #asexuality #LGBTQ
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Mia Mingus @miamingus.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
For folks who have not been following what's going on with H5N1 bird flu, this is a basic and concise 1 minute video (with closed captions you can turn on).
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Jeremy Faust, MD @jeremyfaust.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
BREAKING NEWS: CDC orders mass retraction and revision of submitted research across all science and medicine journals. Banned terms must be scrubbed. Goes beyond MMWR +other CDC pubs. Applies to research already submitted to top medical journals. Take a look. open.substack.com/pub/insideme...
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BREAKING NEWS: CDC orders mass retraction and revision of submitted research across all science and medicine journals. Banned terms must be scrubbed.
Any unpublished manuscript mentioning certain topics, including gender and "LGBT," must be pulled or revised.
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Devon Blow @devthepineapple.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
We don’t need permission to celebrate Black History Month. We don’t need permission to learn Black History. We don’t need permission to share Black History. We don’t need permission to build Black Futures. Happy Black History Month! 🖤
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Dr. Lucky Tran @luckytran.com · 31/01/2025
Today was a day of mass censorship. Sending love & solidarity to all the amazing career scientists in government. For the rest of us: Now is not the time to self-censor or comply in advance. More than ever we need to stand by the principles of our profession and always keep speaking truth to power.
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Jessica Valenti @jessicavalenti.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
The Trump administration is scrubbing the CDC’s website of documents on reproductive rights issues, sexual health, intimate partner violence, and more. I'm trying to save them. You can find the deleted docs at CDCGuidelines.com - I'll be adding more over the weekend.
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Download CDC Guidelines Removed By The Trump Admin
The Trump administration is scrubbing the CDC’s website of documents on reproductive rights issues, sexual health, intimate partner violence, and more.
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Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez @aoc.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
It’s important to know that a lot of productive activity is happening in person and offline, too. Not all of it can be broadcast online, but we’ve had hundreds of people showing up to our trainings, mobilizations, and more. Keep going. Tyranny is eroded by a sea of small acts. Everything matters.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
Choosing to "Ask forgiveness and not permission" comes with the risk of not being forgiven. Communication and consent matter in all relationships.
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EducateUS @educateusaction.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
It’s time to advocate for better sex ed in your community! And we have just what you need. Download or request our School Board Member’s Guide to Sex Ed (now in Spanish!). Take action today! Share or request: shorturl.at/aPKQN #latinos #latinosintheus #sexed #educateus #activism
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Send a Sex Ed Guide to your school board • EducateUS
One click and we'll do it for you! To find out what's already happening near you, just fill out the form below and we'll send you an email to get you connected.
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The Nexus Project @nexusproject.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
THREAD 🧵 People often talk about antisemitism like it only affects Jews. But here’s the disturbing reality: right now, antisemitic conspiracy theories are being used to justify Trump’s latest brutal immigration crackdown. Let’s break it down.
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United Farm Workers @ufw.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
With the citrus harvest at peak, farm workers are hard at work in the Bakersfield, CA orchards. Claims that farm workers are staying home simply are not true. There is anxiety around chaotic immigration sweeps, but they continue to feed America. #WeFeedYou
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Mia Mingus @miamingus.bsky.social · 26/01/2025
Telling folks to just "plug in to community" rn is well-meaning and if you can do that, wonderful. But most people are not super connected to community for many reasons. So, if you don't have community rn that's ok, consider finding 2-5 ppl you can form a pod with. www.soiltjp.org/our-work/res...
[photo: Six orcas move through calm water. The image is taken just above the surface of the water and the image is slightly overexposed from the sun shining off the water, creating a dreamy glowing effect. Four of the orcas have a small portion of their backs visible above water while the other two only have the fins visible.]
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
Last call to register for my workshop on Demystifying Limerence and Romantic Love! DemystifyingLimerenceJan2025.eventbrite.com
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Demystifying Limerence and Romantic Love
Explore the characteristics, stages, and mechanics of Romantic Love through Limerence Theory and an Aromantic Lens.
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Blair Imani Ali @blairimani.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
Smarter in Seconds is now on Bluesky.
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Aubri Lancaster @acesexeducation.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
Language does not need approval to exist. If Klingon is a language then so is the language of the Gender Spectrum.
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