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Amy N-K

@aankphd.bsky.social
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She/they. Nonprofit grant writer/consultant. PhD, research and evaluation nerd. Mom of 4 wonderful young adults. Queer, polyfi, disabled, Quaker, PNW. Grateful for love, art, music, birds, gardening, and my service dog. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🤎🖤♿️

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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 5h
Today’s walk… 🌊🌾💕🐕‍🦺
Natural grass on bluffs over the Salish Sea near American Camp on San Juan IslandA black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting on the grassy bluff overlooking the Salish Sea near American Camp on San Juan Island.  A gravelly beach with lots of driftwood, grassy bluffs, and a gray ocean. A black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sits on the trail leading back towards the historical buildings at American Camp Historical Park on San Juan Island. He is surrounded by grassy fields, white buildings are in the distance. A little bit of the ocean can be seen on the left.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Today’s walk… 💕🐕‍🦺🌲
A trail winding through the treesA black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting on a wood bench on a trail. Behind him are a few tall evergreen trees, overlooking a valley with a marsh and bog.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
No cheating. Share the last photo of the sky from your camera roll.
Lime Kiln State Park (and lighthouse). The sky is blue and yellow at sunset. The sea is a blue gray. The lighthouse is white and sits on a rock that extends into the water.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
For dogs in training, please note that “side” is exactly three bouncy hops from the “front” position… 😂 Sprocket loves his practice sessions. And is a goofball. 💕🐕‍🦺
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
He of course got plenty of treats and praise and was very proud of himself. 😄 While I could have carried that package easily myself, his ability to pick up and carry items is so useful to me at other times that it’s worth practicing even when I don’t need it in that moment. 💕 And he enjoys it! 😊
Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog smiling as he lays on a rug on a tile floor.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Sprocket’s most helpful service dog tasks are medical alert and retrieval - letting me know when my body isn’t right, and getting meds, water, phone, or other people when needed. He also loves working - and carried a package home for a quarter mile yesterday just because. Here’s the doorbell cam. 💕🐕‍🦺
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
We had a nice walk through the sculpture garden today. Baby bears are cute, but a (huge!) mama bear is always nearby…😂🐻 And if the service dog thing doesn’t work out, maybe Sprocket can live in a hobbit house and tend sheep instead. (Don’t worry Sprocket, the service dog thing is working out.) 💕🐕‍🦺
Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting next to a bronze sculpture of a bear cubA black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting in front of a gigantic bronze sculpture of a bear. The bear’s name is Large Marge - after the Pee Wee Herman movie character!A black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting in front of a fenced off model of a hobbit house in a sculpture garden. The hobbit house is built into the roots of a tree and is very cute with moss and flowers. A black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting among a flock of sheep sculpted from wood and fishing nets.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
We all had our ways of getting through the isolation of the early pandemic. And chronic illness can be isolating, pandemic or no. Me: I made fancy terrariums for pet jumping spiders with miniature gardens and tea parties. Like one does. The spiders lived over three years - quite old for spiders! 😊
A glass terrarium with a tiny garden made out of sculpey clay. There are miniature cabbages and lettuce, carrots, garden signs, stepping stones, and potted plants on a potting bench with a miniature trowel. The bottom of the terrarium has spider safe coco bark and moss.There is a trellis with tiny yellow roses, and various places for spiders to rest or hide or eat, including a small mossy ledge with a framed picture of their spider friend and a hollowed out walnut to hide in. A glass terrarium with a miniature garden tea party made out of sculpey clay! There is a tiny tea set made to look like flower petals and leaves, and miniature cakes and sweets on a tea stand. The table and chair are made to look like they are made out of little logs. There is a little pillow on the chair, and tiny books on a mossy ledge. There is also a cup for food and another mossy ledge with a framed picture of a spider friend. The bottom of the terrarium has spider safe coco bark and moss, along with a miniature pot of flowers and some greenery.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Just my happy boy being happy. 💕🐕‍🦺
Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog on a wood bench, smiling at the camera.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
A praying mantis fren came to visit us… 😊
A green praying mantis on a door frameA green praying mantis on a door frame
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
(They will of course be pardoned, because awwww! Baby raccoon playing!) 🥹💕🦝
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
I would like to report to president Trump that I also have vandals destroying my water feature! A well known, rather cute crime family came to my house last night and disassembled my fountain. (Again. 😂) No word yet on whether they are Antifa and/or former Olympians. 💕⛲️🦝🦝
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
I’m fine; just a bruised shoulder and a bit embarrassed. But I’m so proud that my good dog went to get help when I couldn’t tell him what I needed. I can’t even tell you how grateful I am to have him. 💕🐕‍🦺 #ServiceDog
Sprocket the service dog wearing his vest (embroidered with “SERVICE DOG, DO NOT PET” and “JLAD SERVICE DOG, ACCREDITED”). He is a black and white poodle mix (he was a donated puppy to the accredited program that helped me train him). In this photo he is laying on the floor of the ferry that goes to San Juan Island.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 02/08/2026
Hit and run on our parked car a few years ago. Portland police were useless, despite having witnesses and leads. This is just one example. They did nothing about smashed windows, stolen catalytic converters, vandalism, open air drug markets, and explosions/possible gunshots. Stopped calling them.
Red Chevrolet Bolt with side swipe and major front end damage.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
Going through old files and keepsakes. 😊 Are Christmas coupon books from little kids good for 18 years? My daughter is 23 now and has her own apartment. I don’t see an expiration date on this. 😂
Green paper Christmas coupon book that has repeated “Merry Christmas!” and candy canes at the top and bottom of the page. In little kid handwriting, it says “I will scrub the toylit” with a crayon picture of a girl scrubbing the toilet. There is gold tinsel tying the coupon book together in the upper left corner.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
It’s my birthday. 🎂 Sprocket brought me his stinky fish toy as a gift. 🐟🐕‍🦺 I will try to be properly appreciative. 😂
Black and white poodle mix dog holding a green, somewhat gross plush fish toy. 😂
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
We decided to go back… 🌊💕🫍
Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting on a bench with a hillside and the Salish Sea behind him.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
In my garden now.🪴 💐
Pink and white echinacea (coneflowers) and white panicle hydrangeaBlue-purple Rose of SharonYellow and orange dahliasPeachy pink dianthus
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
We got back less than two weeks ago and I miss it already. 🌊🫍
Coastline of San Juan Island and the Salish Sea
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 11/07/2026
Folks may wonder why my service dog is so often unvested - the answer is that in places where pet dogs are allowed, we prefer to go incognito. Less pressure, fewer questions, fewer interruptions to our day. Weirdly, when vested with “DO NOT PET,” we are approached more often with petting requests. 🫥
Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting on a wooden bench with garden foliage behind him.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
Early July garden… 💐
Pink asiatic lily bloomYellow asiatic lily bloom Blue hydrangea bloom Pink and white coneflowers (echinacea) with a hydrangea starting to bud behind them.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
He caught a fish right after I took this picture. 😊
Blue heron standing in a green pond.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Portland police are incapable of enforcing laws even when there are huge flashes of light and giant booms alerting them exactly where the problem is. Throwing more funding at a police force that says, “we have noted the illegal explosives going off every night and will do nothing,” does not appeal.
An autoresponder email to the reporting submission form for illegal fireworks in Portland: During high volume times of the year law enforcement does not have resources to respond to all non-emergency calls. While resources are not available to respond to most complaints about fireworks, we are gathering information for ongoing efforts to achieve compliance with the Fireworks Ban. You should NOT expect a call back regarding this report.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
Sprocket wants to announce that he has checked all of San Juan Island for squirrels, and found none! (Seriously - no squirrels live there.) He thought he would find at least one in the tiny house in the sculpture garden, but no luck. (Sprocket, Mark, Dave and I are home now - it was a lovely trip!)🫍
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
LOL!! 😂 I love that his chocolate chip cookie dough softness means no shedding, hate that it means the general public takes the “do not pet” vest as a challenge rather than a rule. Too cute for my desired level of inconspicuousness, anyway! He is the best boy. Here’s another one at home (unvested).
Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting in front of garden foliage and blooms.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
Here is Sprocket during a practice day at PDX airport with some of his lab/golden training program classmates in the background. He is definitely the class clown, but his skills are amazing. Retrieval of meds, phone, water, etc. and dropped items from the floor, opening doors, finding human help. ❤️🐕‍🦺
Black and white vested poodle mix service dog at PDX airport security. He is sitting on the iconic airport carpet (green with red yellow and blue patterns), and two other vested service dogs (labs/goldens) are in the background with their handlers.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 19/06/2026
Our son grew up to be a wonderful young man (and a bit of a romantic!), who found a wonderful young woman, and she said yes and we are so happy for them and to be gaining another daughter. (Pics posted with permission of said wonderful grown kids…) 💕🎉
Young man kneeling to propose to a young woman at Council Crest - there are candles and flowers on the ground and a glimpse of Mount Hood in the background. Happy couple after proposal - a big, joyous hug.Happy couple showing off her ring after his proposal.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
But I WILL alt-text the screenshot for people who actually do have a disability. 😅
Reddit post screenshot
r/legaladvice
u/Carma_626 • 38d
Went to a concert venue and they forced me to remove my prescription glasses.
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Yes, they're Meta glasses but with clear prescription lenses. So I understand why they forced me to remove them, but is it legal.
Went to a concert venue where they have a strict no recording policy. Can't bring recording devices into venue. Ok cool, I totally get that.
My Meta glasses are my every day prescription glasses.
It didn't even dawn on me not to wear them.
Removing them made it difficult to navigate the venue, and climbing steps. I absolutely could not see the performer even though our seats were fantastic.
Does this violate ADA laws?
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
Sprocket and I got a lovely morning walk in before the heat returns this afternoon in Portland… 🐕‍🦺💕🌸 Gorgeous, but already in the mid-80s before noon (which is about my limit for temperatures when it comes to outdoor activities - higher temps don’t agree with me). 🥵
Pond at Crystal Springs Rhododendron Garden. Cattails and foliage in the foreground, trees and sky and their reflections in the background. Sprocket, a black and white unvested poodle mix service dog, sitting on a park bench in a garden. He is smiling. Pink azalea bloomsDaisies
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Sprocket was also very good about leaving the smelly washed up sea life alone and did a lot of joyous frolicking. Good boy. 😊💕
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
We decided to have a beach day on the Oregon coast today. The weather was gorgeous, the guys were lovely company as always, and our walk was quite glorious. Sprocket was a very happy dog and got thoroughly wet and sandy. 😅💕🌊🐕‍🦺
A picture of me and my service dog, Sprocket, on Rockaway beach in Oregon. I have silver hair and I am wearing sunglasses, a purple jacket, black pants, and carrying a gray waist pack. Sprocket is a black and white poodle mix service dog without his vest on, looking up at me from a seated position in front of me. There are two large rock formations in the ocean behind us and it’s a beautiful sunny day. Both of us have big smiles. Sprocket (a black and white poodle mix service dog looking rather wet and sandy but very happy), Mark (a bearded man with a hat and sunglasses), and Dave (tall, with curly hair) standing on the beach in front of Twin Rocks. (Rockaway Beach, Oregon coast.)
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
I’ll be playing my mountain dulcimers (aka hog fiddles 😂🐷🎻) all weekend for a festival! I’m always so amazed by the work of my friend, Janita Baker, of Blue Lion Instruments - she did all of the custom inlay work on these (including my favorite water lilies and a triquetra as a nod to our triad). 💕🎵
Chromatic mountain dulcimer with mother of pearl inlay of water lilies and dragonflies on the fretboard. It is rosewood construction with cedar soundboard and heart shaped sound holes.Mother of pearl inlay of a triquetra symbol on the scroll peg head of a mountain dulcimer. The triquetra is to honor my longstanding relationship with David and Mark. ❤️❤️❤️Rosewood and cedar mountain dulcimer with 1+ and 6+ frets, brass rose sound holes, and a mother of pearl inlay rose on the fretboard.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
The guys (human and canine) went with me to see The Mandalorian and Grogu at the Bagdad Theater. It was fun! 🚀 Sprocket was extremely good, especially given that most of the movie was growling, engines, gunfire, and other thunder-like sounds. (He is a well-trained service dog, but still!) ❤️🐕‍🦺
Vested black and white poodle mix service dog in the Bagdad theater with a movie screen behind him. The screen is a preview ad that says “UFO Fest.”
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
The bestest boy enjoying the garden. 💐🐕‍🦺
Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting on a mulched path in front of a garden bed. Black and white unvested poodle mix service dog sitting on a mulched path in front of a garden bed. He looks extra smiley in this one.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
This azalea is called ‘Garden Rainbow,’ and it’s currently blooming in my front yard. Yellow blooms fade to orange and then pink. Love it. 🌼🌸🌈
Azalea blooms in shades of yellow, peachy orange and pink, with green foliage.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
Here is Sprocket with a sunbeam on his nose in the waiting room. He was positioned under my legs and was alerting/nudging me due to my heart rate (he’s better than my Apple Watch).❤️ The health care office staff loved him, and nobody tried to distract or pet him which I was also super grateful for.
Sprocket (a black and white poodle mix service dog) peeking up at me from his position on a gray and white rug.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
They could totally pull it off… 😘
Mark and David sitting on a log in the middle of a stream on one of our hikes in Oregon. They’re both wearing shorts. And are smiling.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
If David and Mark and I ever get to have a wedding… I have some thoughts. 😂😍
Sam Heughan and Graham McTavish (actors from the Outlander series) wearing green plaid kilts and tuxedo jackets, sitting on a bench.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
Just watched Wuthering Heights. The only one of us to have read the book went to bed early. 😂 The other two hate-watched until the end. WTH, they are all horrible. 🫪 I have been known to watch period pieces for the clothes alone, but… good grief. 🫥
Comic by Kate Beaton-

Title: I NEEDED TO POSSESS YOU
First panel (Hindley): WHY DO YOU LIKE HEATHCLIFF SO MUCH, CATHY? EVEN FATHER PREFERS HIM TO ME
Second panel (Catherine): I DON'T "LIKE" HIM, HINDLEY, YOU SILLY GOOSE, WE ARE JUST OBSESSED WITH ONE ANOTHER
Third panel (Hindley): WELL... AS LONG AS YOU DON'T LIKE HIM (Catherine and Heathcliff are touching each others’ faces with both hands.)
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
In the garden today. 💐
White rose (“Cloud 10” climbing rose variety)Coral pink azaleas in full bloom Yellow zinniasPurple allium (“Gladiator” variety)
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
I love my kids. I love that they’re close by, that they enjoy coming over, and that they love each other too. We grilled burgers and hung out around our fire pit last night making s’mores (missed Gen, who had to stay home to care for a sick kitty). It was a sweet Mother’s Day, and I’m a lucky mom. 💕
Two smiling beloved young adults in camp chairs with a garden behind themThree smiling beloved young adults sitting in camp chairs and eating burgers next to the edge of a fire pit, with a tiny home trailer hitch and raised garden beds behind them. A sweet husband with a Keep Calm and Carry On shirt sitting in a camp chair next to a black and white poodle mix service dog laying on a blanket on the ground. There is a fire pit in the foreground and some porch stairs, a fence gate, blooming azaleas and other garden plants in the background.A sweet husband wearing a rainbow Gotham FC shirt and a straw sunhat, drinking lemonade with the garden behind him.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
Made another cake today! Yellow with marionberry filling and vanilla frosting. 🎂 This one is for my future daughter-in-law’s birthday. 💕 (We have six birthdays in our family in a span of eight weeks!) 😅
Frosted cake with berries on top
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
Happy Mothers’ Day to everyone who has loved a mother, missed a mother, wished for a mother, been a mother, wished to be a mother, or acted as a mother, regardless of bio ties. Special love to everyone for whom this is a hard day, whether aching for a child or a parent. Here is my mama who passed. 💐
My mother - long brown hair, grey eyes, and a gentle expression. She is wearing a black choker necklace with a cameo and a yellow blouse. She has foliage next to and behind her, and the photo has a soft focus. This was taken in the late 60s or early 70s; she was in her mid-20s at the time.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 09/05/2026
Our Baba Yaga little library sends greetings to yours!
A Baba Yaga themed Little Free Library with chicken legs.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 09/05/2026
I had a difficult childhood. But there were moments of joy, including summer visits to my grandmother on the southern Oregon coast in a house my step-grandfather built. I helped her water the garden, which was full of strawberries and nasturtiums. Grandma is long passed away, but…
View from a deck overlooking the ocean, with roses and many nasturtiums in bloom.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
As I was looking through photos from the last 25 years, I was struck by how many of my favorite photos of Dave include one of our babies. I picked pics of him and me for the anniversary post, but here is a Darling Feminist Men Caring for Cute Babies Appreciation Post, 2003-2007. (Oh, my ovaries!) 🥹💕
Dave standing in front of a waterfall in Colorado with a baby in a front pack. The baby is wearing a pink hat.Dave with a baby in a backpack carrier at a shuttle stop in Rocky Mountain National Park Dave holding a baby with chubby cheeks and an otter onesie.Dave with a three year old on his shoulders on the Great Wall of China
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
Today is the 25th wedding anniversary for me and David. May you all be loved as well as I have been for over 25 years now. 💕💐 (Mark joined us 17 years ago, and Dave has loved him well, too.❤️) Dave is the most wonderful husband and father I could hope for. 🙏 Here is to many more years of adventures.
Dave and Amy in Rocky Mountain National Park, standing in front of a lake and treesDave and Amy standing on a road in red rock country in southern Utah. Beautiful red rock formations in the background.Dave and Amy standing on the Great Wall of ChinaDave and Amy in a park in Portland Oregon, with trees in the background.
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
These two were recent reads for me that I enjoyed.
THE CURE FOR WOMEN
DR. MARY PUTNAM JACOBI AND THE
CHALLENGE TO VICTORIAN MEDICINE THAT CHANGED WOMEN'S LIVES FOREVER
LYDIA REEDER"A seven-year-old girl on a seventy-foot yacht, for ten years, over fifty thousand miles of sailing. A wonderful, unforgettable book that I urge everyone to read."
-SIMON WINCHESTER, #I New York Times Bestselling Author
WAVEWALKER
A Memoir of Breaking Free
SUZANNE HEYWOOD
THE INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLING AUTHOR
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
In the garden today. 💐
Purple and white irisPeach colored rose (variety is called “At Last”)Pink columbine Blue-eyed grass
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Amy N-K @aankphd.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Do I have my hairdresser call the Guardian to correct the record? 😂 I don’t like being painted as a victim to support his story, but beyond that, it is important to describe the joy, the bravery, and the success of queer and poly families. Otherwise you just look like a weirdo who enjoys harassment.
Screenshot of text message:
Today 8:59 AM
Hi Amy, the article was about how cities are adopting these protections, and I wanted to highlight the experiences that show the impetus for them. I also disagree with your characterization that I fundamentally altered facts. You wrote that you delayed coming out to coworkers.
That was a deliberate choice to not reveal something.
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