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3 Wishes Program

@3wishesprogram.bsky.social
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End-of-life program in which HCWs elicit and implement small final wishes for dying patients and their families. Originated in Canada, now at UCLA, Beth Israel, Niagara Health, UW, University of Utah, and many others. #Humanism #Compassion #Kindness

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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
A direct quote from one of the nurses regarding @3wishesprogram.bsky.social
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
A painting for a #PedsICU @3wishesprogram.bsky.social. Yes, whole hand and footprints were used because the child was so small. May the parents enjoy the safari depiction that used to entertain their child....
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
A heartwarming message from a family who received a plush with their loved one’s heartbeat…
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 06/03/2026
@3wishesprogram.bsky.social is about honoring the patient as a PERSON rather than their illness in their death.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 08/12/2025
Some beautiful keepsakes nurses made for a dying patient's family at Harbor-UCLA.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 16/10/2025
A young daughter lost her father & co-wrote this beautiful song that integrated her father’s heartbeat in the background. May the beauty of this song in her favorite creature, a dragon, help her navigate the future.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
Our @3wishesprogram.bsky.social music therapist worked with a family who lost a little boy named Sol. Changing the lyrics slightly, she and the family co-wrote a song to the rhythm of "You are My Sunshine". We will be mailing the parents his heartbeat recording & personalized song in this plush.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
A volunteer artist created this painting for a family of a @3wishesprogram.bsky.social patient. The patient was a musician and physician, and the painting is perfect.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 02/09/2025
Nearly 7500 wishes fulfilled for 2320 patients over the years!
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
Look at this beautiful fingerprint painting that was done for a @3wishesprogram.bsky.social patient at LA General Medical Center! The patient loved Betty Boop and the color red.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 18/06/2025
The family requested that this image of a strong black woman be used to reflect their lost loved one. Our volunteer artist did a wonderful job incorporating her fingerprints into each step of the staircase.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 17/06/2025
A young mother dies and leaves behind 6 children. The children all wanted the fingerprint keychains and locks of hair. This story is so heartbreaking.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 16/06/2025
So much beauty, time, and attention to detail goes in creating these hand molds. This one is for a husband and wife holding hands for final time. #Kindness #EOLcare
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 04/06/2025
So incredibly proud of medstudent Ami Tamhaney and music therapist Jenna Markovitz for presenting our work on heartbeat songs at the CSU Palliative Care Symposium! Not surprisingly, there was a lot of interest as well as a lot of tears!
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 27/05/2025
A daughter shared with us how our teddy bear that contains her father's heartbeat sits atop her bedroom dresser--along with loving pictures and other mementos our @3wishesprogram.bsky.social provided. May these memories be a blessing. #EOLcare
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
It's wonderful to find out that #Montefiore in NY has started the @3wishesprogram.bsky.social! #Kindness is spreading!
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
It was great to celebrate one year of @3wishesprogram.bsky.social at Olive View Medical Center yesterday!!! 75 patients received 3wp, at only $24 per patient
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 07/04/2025
The patient loved everything that had to do with space and now his fingerprints are immortalize in the cosmos in this beautiful fingerprint painting for his family. A thousand thanks to our talented volunteer artists.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
We just received this beautiful fingerprint painting back. This one is particularly heartwarming as it pictures, per family's request, the Santa Monica Pier.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
The patient's family teared up when the nurse presented them with this keepsake. Love goes on. @3wishesprogram.bsky.social
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 14/02/2025
One of the hospitals that has recently started @3wishesprogram.bsky.social has a large Catholic patient population. The nurses went above and beyond to give the family keepsakes that reflected their religion.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 11/02/2025
A beautiful and heart wrenching story from 2019.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
The dying patient's husband told their young daughter that we'd give her a teddy bear with the sound of her mom's heartbeat in it. The little girl asked if she can have it in PINK teddy bear because that was her mom's favorite color. So glad we found this one:
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 07/02/2025
Dying in the hospital doesn't have to be cold and sterile. Sometimes a few decorations, twinkles lights, soft LED candles can help bring everyone a little peace and comfort.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
The patient had wanted to go to #Hawaii before they became too ill. Our wonderful #ICU nurses decorated her room this way to bring the patient and her family some comfort during her final days.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 13/01/2025
Family describe her as devoted her daughter and husband. She was a neuroscientist who worked w/ children w/ learning disabilities & wanted to leave the world a little better than she found it. Our volunteer artist captured the request perfectly in this fingerprint painting.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 06/01/2025
We never thought that our program would need a presence on the Labor & Delivery Ward. But the reality is that intrauterine demises (stillbirths) can be absolutely devastating to expecting patient. Being able to take away a memory box and/or footprint can bring them a small comfort.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 25/12/2024
HCWs: Holidays are never fun to be working in the hospital. But let's be thankful that we are not the ones in the hospital bed nor the grief-stricken family by the bedside. Here is a Christmas blanket for a dying @3wishesprogram.bsky.social patient. Final peaceful memories are important.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
The couple were world travelers, particularly loved nature & animals. Their favorite is the panda. We were so glad to provide his grieving wife this plush that contained the recording of her husband's heartbeat that was recorded before he died. She says: "I'll be listening it 'til the day I die"
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 15/12/2024
The dying patient's son was turning 9 in a few days & had expressed that he was hoping to have his mother present at his party. Unfortunately, that wasn't going to happen. Instead, with his parents' permission, we had a small early birthday party for him in her room. Final #memories are precious.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 13/12/2024
Illness doesn't care about our schedules. Here, we made it possible for a patient who was approaching the #EOL be part of his son's wedding. #3WishesProgram
A table is set up in an ICU room with a sign that says "Father of the Groom"
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 10/12/2024
The patient was young and always had his favorite stuff animal, "Marshmallow" with him. After he died, our #3wishesprogram volunteer created this painting for this family (the painting integrated his fingerprints). #hpc #EOLcare
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 10/12/2024
Pre-made templates make it easy for bedside nurses to print and frame EKG keepsakes for families of dying patients. Sometimes, walking away with a heart rhythm after losing a loved one can mean so much. #EOLcare
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
The patient was a volleyball coach when his granddaughter was growing up. Now a volleyball player herself, she wanted a volleyball with her dying grandfather's handprint on it to serve at her next game--it will be also "his" final serve. #legacy #3wishesprogram
volleyball with the handprint of a dying patient, made for the family
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
Knowing that the patient loved the #Lakers, the #nurses wanted to make his room look less sterile and feel more comforting.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
The husband who lost his wife asked for her heartbeat to be integrated into a lullaby for his two young children. We placed the melody into two teddy bears. Warning: you might cry.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
This is one of our earliest fingerprint paintings for bereaved families. The patient loved tulips and the volunteer artist did a wonderful job incorporating the patient's fingerprints into the painting. #hapc
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
He knew his time was near & when told about the #3WishesProgram, he requested what he called a "reverse funeral"--an occasion for his friends & family to gather, for him to hear their speeches about him, & eat his favorite foods. How did the event go? I think his smile says it all (shared w/ perm.)
An end-of-life patient smiling in his hospital bed with a plate of his favorite foods in front of him. He died a few weeks later. Shared with permission.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 01/12/2024
The patient's daughter told the healthcare team that her dying mom loved the beach. Without asking, @thanhneville.bsky.social made these "heartbeats in a bottle" for the patient's husband and daughter, and they loved it so much. Sometimes, small acts of #kindness can go a long way.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 26/11/2024
The dying patient loved #Dodgers, so we decorated the room this way & encouraged the family to put up pictures. So often the critically ill patient we see before us does not tell the story of who they are as a PERSON. Actions like these bring #humanism & #compassion into the #ICU. #hapc #EOLcare
A dying patient's room is decorated with Dodgers decorations and pictures from home. Shared with permission.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 26/11/2024
Not a heart transplant candidate, she was tired of an existence that depended on occasional defibrillation shocks and IV medications that restricted her to the CCU room. She requested that everything be turned off...after a final drink. This prosecco was her toast to life & eternity. #EOLcare
An end-of-life patient is having a sip out of a small bottle of prosecco before she transitions to comfort care. Shared with permission.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 25/11/2024
With the holidays around the corner, one of our @3wishesprogram.bsky.social nurse champions wanted to show how much love the dying patient and her family engendered in our unit. Lights and hearts filled her room during her final days with us.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 24/11/2024
A patient on inpatient hospice lamented that she missed her life of going to plays and musicals. After some phonecalls, the #3WishesProgram was able to arrange for a live musical performance in her room by students at an acting school.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 23/11/2024
The young patient hadn't been outside for 6 months since her hospitalization. As part of her end-of-life care, we made it possible for her family to gather around her outside, in the beautiful sun. #EOLcare #hapc shared with permission.
a family gathers around a dying loved one in a hospital bed, outside, in the sun. shared with permission.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 23/11/2024
Over time, we've realized that having a keepsake from a dying loved one is so precious to many family members. Having glass vials available for placement of a lock of hair or an EKG strip is so easy to do and yet mean so much. #hapc #EOLcare
small glass vials with locks of hair
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
This is a beautiful fingerprint painting that was done by our research coordinator at Olive-View UCLA, for a patient who loved the ocean and pink flowers. #hapc
an acrylic painting of pink flowers held against the ocean that was gifted to a bereaved family. The center of the flowers are the deceased patient's fingerprints.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Dying @3wishesprogram.bsky.social patients are often not lucid enough to express their wishes. This patient was & asked for a final date night with his wife. The #nurses made a table setting as pretty as possible & even logged into their Netflix so the couple can enjoy a last movie together. #hapc
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
Thanksgiving is approaching and we are reminded one of our very first @3wishesprogram.bsky.social patients almost 7 years ago. She was the matriarch of the family & always hosted Thanksgiving. We did our best to bring the holidays to her room.
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
The young #EOL patient loved yoda, wanted to go to Disneyland, and loved Rihanna. We decorated his room with Yoda decorations, brought Disney to him, and...sound on for how we fulfilled the Rihanna wish! Final memories are important. #Kindness
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3 Wishes Program @3wishesprogram.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
The patient wanted to die in Mexico, his home country, but it all happened so fast, that was impossible. A volunteer used her creativity & compassion to create these colorful decorations with tissue paper in the gift shop. Small gestures of #kindness can mean so much to grieving families.
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