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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 12/05/2026

His wife: this is exactly what the problem is Him: What a mystery, what could possibly be the problem? Everyone: 😑

Ladies, my Wife said she was annoyed after "intimacy"

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Long story short, my wife is on her period and tonight we obviously couldn't have sex or at least not clean sex lol. We weren't doing that so my wife used her hands on me if you know what i mean and after I was done per say, she laid back on her back and just said "well that was annoying." and it absolutely blew a whole in my ego. She apologize shortly after and I know it's her time of the month plus she's already on a birth control so her mood swings are drastic but i've never seen anything like this especially if we're intimate, we've been married for 3 years and dated for 5 years prior and nothing like this has ever happened nor has she ever said anything like this

before.

I'm sitting here on my couch questioning everything because I literally cannot sleep now, so ladies what does this mean? Is it wraps for me?

Ladies, my Wife said she was annoyed after...

you say in a previous post that you have a 1 and 3 year old, and that your wife is overstimulated and touched out from the young kids, which makes being intimate really difficult for her.

im guessing that she didn't want to do anything because it's one more person needing something from her or her body in some way. it makes sense that it's annoying for her to do this when she's not only overstimulated and touched out, but now it's one-sided and she gets nothing from it, too.

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notretiredanymore 2h

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OP needs to just read this comment over and over

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Trypophilia2019 56m

Based on the comments to his previous post, he'll ignore it.

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Help Please

My wife and I are both 27 and have two children (1 year old & 3 year old) Since the kids are so young and the youngest is still breast feeding their very attached to my wife which makes intimacy, touching, grabbing etc feel overstimulating to my wife.

She say it's not that she doesn't want sex she's just mentally drained and doesn't wanna be touched by anyone because the kids have been all over her the moment she comes home from work, i work in sales and work 12 hours 6 days a week so we make all the time we have to ourselves.

Does she not find me attractive anymore? Am i doing something wrong, is this common please help-I'm a veteran who got out the US NAVY in 2023 and my wife and kids are the cornerstones to my life, please help

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Stella - she/her @lcartpresents.bsky.social · 12/05/2026

Dudes who say "my partner was on her period so *obviously* we *couldn't* have sex" are always such a red flag Throw down a towel, my guy! Or if you really wanna be safe, get a waterproof blanket!! Keep wet wipes in the nightstand to clean your bits off after if you want!!!! It's not that hard!!!!!!

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Crimson Dostoevsky @crimsondostoevsky.bsky.social · 12/05/2026

Tbh she's probably delighted that her period at least keeps her safe from 90 seconds of being grunted at before he rolls over and falls asleep

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