Read the thread. Evan’s right, on all points.
One of the hardest things I have to continuously learn as a parent is that I have to let them fail.
I probably should have let them fail more, sooner.
@guyintheblackhat.bsky.socialPart of treating children as human beings means simply reminding yourself that the younger version of you would have hated to have been surveilled 24/7, and that your sense of self is formed in part through privacy from others.
We parent well when we let our children find themselves.
