iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Sure things can get pretty weird and fucked up in the kink world. But things can also be really beautiful. And if you let love be your guide, you'll see that a lot more is possible than you ever really gave yourself credit for. Love and trust your partners. It's important for your mental health.

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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

And also, love and trust yourself. I know that can be hard. God knows I struggle with that. But love and trust yourself too. You're worth it ❤️

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Azure @azuresmansion.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

I believe you're onto something. I was silently cut off after, I assume, Going Too Far, and to this day I still don't exactly know why, which makes it really horrible to trust myself. But my girls constantly showing me how they want what I do, how it makes them happier, better people, lets me heal.

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The Opal Choir @the-opal-choir.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

very good thread 💖

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Lilith "Radio Girl" Olivia @liliththefirst.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Thank you for writing this thread. I think I will sit with it for a while and maybe get rid of a tear or two. I am so happy for finding this community. I might not be crying because of the happiness but I might count it as well. Communication and honesty are just so important. And love.

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primevil @primordial.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

My experience with this doesn't happen to be related to kink. I'm a person who has made some bad mistakes. I balance "it wasn't okay and I need to do better" with "I did the best I knew how to do at the time, and that may not be enough for the other person, but it has to be enough for my self-view."

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Eleanor Thorn @eleanor-thorn.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

You spoke so well, Story. Thank you for sharing this with us. I'm gonna go cry now... ❤️

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Awlyx Everbruised @boobgoldberg.northsky.social · 17/04/2026

❤️‍🔥

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Chloe 🌹, fractal femme @lunarweasel.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Something that I've found helps a lot, not just in kink, but also in relationships and life more generally, is to shift your thinking away from "good and bad people," and toward "people who do good or bad things"

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Cpt. Jade, Combat Lesbian @jessiejade.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

This is really beautiful Story, I really agree with you that caring for our Dommes is something we don't do as naturally or often as we should, and I so agree with you that love is the answer in so many different ways My master wasn't a domme before I came into his life, he was too terrified of it.

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Bitey Ravenna 🏳️‍⚧️ @ravennabites.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Thank you for sharing all this, I know it couldn't have been easy emotionally but it was very well explained and a lesson I'll think about for a while going forward

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Krystyn, MilSurp Mutt @fluffywuffysheep.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Thank you for sharing this Story, its very well written and thought provoking. You've given me a lot to consider within my own dynamic

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Absynthe's pretty poodle @addibae.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

I'm trying so hard... In some ways I knew this, or pieces of it. I know, I've seen in my life, that as I heal from my trauma I am capable of so much more. You can't love without connection. I came here looking for connection, trying my best to continue my healing. Even discovering my alters and

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Marcie @marstruc.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

A lot of this I think is why I don't feel like I'm worth loving. Why I hear the words and feel them glide past me without much interaction. I did heinous things as a domme. I've been so very slowly clawing it back. I might've had someone else at the controls, but it was still me underneath.

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Mira, Violation Incarnate @mechsplotunes.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

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