people in the comments are really mad about this idea but unless you specifically tell me not to tell my spouse i am 100% telling my spouse. neither of us are going anywhere else with it, but both of us know. i don’t know what else to tell you
@whittyrem.bsky.socialHelp settle a 16 year discussion between me and my husband- if someone tells you something in confidence and asks you to tell no one does that mean:
A- You’re not telling your spouse/partner
B- You are telling your spouse/partner unless you’ve been specifically asked not to
