Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog.bsky.social · 16/04/2026And here’s a tough question: if your partner refuses to see the red flags and is actively making you feel unsafe by staying in a toxic relationship…what does that say about them and their relationship with you? 110 0
Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog.bsky.social · 16/04/2026Part of being a good hinge managing multiple partners is taking responsibility for yourself, so your partners aren’t overfunctioning around you or cleaning up after your mess. So how much can you really trust your partner to show up and advocate for themselves - and by extension, for you? 110 0
Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog.bsky.social · 16/04/2026You don't have to like what your partner is doing in their other relationships, but ultimately, they get to make their own decisions, even bad ones. You can't control them, but you can control how you respond. 110 0
