have been getting this too. feels worrying that we've gone from a situation a few years ago where unless a cis person had trans friends or was a dedicated transphobe they mostly didn't know how to actually clock anyone, to a world where the kids are all watching transvestigation tiktoks all day?
get the sense i am getting clocked more often these days and idk what it is, if it is my summer wardrobe, or maybe transvestigation is going mainstream, i.e. everyone is getting hyperaware of Gender