J. C. Cantwell 🌻 @segfaultvicta.aludel.xyz · 27/09/2026do not think you are god's perfect nerd and made a website that clearly explains the rules behind a CNC party and therefore anyone who shows up at the door has read and understands and consents to the rules! what the fuck is your door policy!? 11404 0
J. C. Cantwell 🌻 @segfaultvicta.aludel.xyz · 27/09/2026i mean i know their door policy, i've known enough toxic nerds in BDSM spaces to know their door policy, i don't need to say what their door policy is anyways, there's NO universe where it's appropriate to engage professional tech socialisation with a kink party like this. absolutely fucking none 21536 0
A penitent who is loud @loudpenitent.bsky.social · 27/09/2026I would also argue that this feeds back into broader toxic employment pressures to make the company the entirety of your social universe (probably fed by long commutes, expected OT, and general disassociation from the non-office environment. Your job in SV is, in many respects, Your Community!) 3242 0
J. C. Cantwell 🌻 @segfaultvicta.aludel.xyz · 27/09/2026it could be the softest cuddliest most vanilla sex party in the universe and it would be *as wrong*, frankly, that would already be maxing out the meter of ethical violations of consent and autonomy right there in and of itself and i appreciate this thread a lot for focusing relentlessly on that 116613 0
