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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Happy Birthday to me! And a Happy Movie Premier of an historical docudrama about America's first drag queen to me! #Birthday #dandy #movie #swannqueen

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

Your Disco Needs You! . . Manifesting a Spanish Dancer at the clerb during the Disco Era for Deep Sea Disco at PTown Carnival #ptowncarnival

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 20/07/2026

Who knew love can be so bizarre? Especially self-love Me at the DC Drag Awards not being nominated yet again for Best Dressed but stopped caring, because I know my own star power

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

The one contestant I thought would beat me got chopped as quickly as I got all 10s. This was reaffirming to me. This I needed. Oh, and the theme was Luxury. I don't need labels; dandies are luxury in human form

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

So I came in second out of 2. But I did get the fastest set of 10s ever and a legendary walk. I can't argue with that. It took 1.5 years to put the lewk together. All of unemployment and uncertainty, waiting for the right moment. Tonight was the moment.

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 15/02/2026

I don't [yet] have a million followers, and I probably won't get that many, but I am grateful for the thousands of followers I get on various platforms, and I too don't necessarily follow trends (I couldn't if I wanted to), but instead show my art and authenticity

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

Absolutely, and I enjoy my fancier costumes whenever the need arises to reflect my inner flamboyance

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

I came in 3rd at the Ball, beaten by two Black trans women (out of fairness, no human can defeat a Black trans woman in a ball). And I advanced to the Top 10 for Style Icon, still currently in 2nd place styleicon.org/2025/phil-po...

Steampunk dandy look with steampunk eye patch and steampunk fan

Announcement of my advancement to the Top Ten for Style Icon, currently in 2nd place

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

What people don't understand is that people have called me ugly, stupid, and worthless my entire life, and they continue to do so today. Not yet getting a job doesn't help

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

I decided to reminisce on my old Cemetery Potluck lewks yesterday for Flower Factory and produced this Goth lewk. Also, a personal celebration for getting rid of a toxic dark entity in my life alongside being around 🔥 beautiful friends and guys in defiance of "can't interact with others"

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 05/10/2025

On my second birthday weekend I am going to dress up, go full on Disco Dandy, and head to Studio 54 to boogie on down with Bianca Jagger, horse and all, with fabulous drag queens, 🔥 shirtless gogo boys, and Utica. Miss Adams Morgan Pageant 2025 #dandy #fashion #gaydc

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 31/08/2025

The theme for this year's PTown Carnival was "Summer Camp". I remember my childhood going to summer camp and having Christmas in July, so let's make it Dandy! In August, but who's counting? #ptowncarnival #summercamp #christmasinjuly🎄 #queerfashion

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 17/07/2025

I impressed my coworkers with my skills and producing near 💯 their homepage for a demo of the proposed rewrite. They even admitted that they didn't expect my proof-of-concept to be near-identcal to the live version! Yay! Also this

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 27/05/2025

No yt 🍊 loving not see yt r@cist gay calling me a r@cist is going to ruin my start of Social Summer, but we really need to stop wanting to 🍆 or 🍑 not see yt r@cist gays. Gays, pay attention. Meanwhile, this was me @tradebardc @capitalpridedc #dandy #maximalism #pride2025 #capitalpride

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

Here is Part 2 of New York Met Gala weekend: I went to Julius' Bar, a recommendation by one of my best friends who used to work there. I had a blast! People LOVED my lewk! Now it's your turn. My evening lewk for the Met Gala weekend #metgala2025 #superfine #blackdandyism #dandy #dandyism #fashion

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 20/04/2025

I refuse to ruin my Easter by reading that.. message. This is the orange I need during Easter #kylieminogue #tensiontour #easter2025 #Easter #dandy #fashion #lgbtqia

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 14/04/2025

I don't need to go into much deeper introspection into my upgrade of my 2019 Dandy Walk lewk except how blessed my day and evening were while dressed in my 2019 Dandy Walk upgrade lewk, all while we're suffering GayThreads #bunkerclubdc #crushdancebar #flowerfactory_party

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 30/03/2025

This was my lewk last night for the Orpheus Ball. I missed the runway walk for Best Dressed due to my Uber driver going to the wrong location, but here I am anyway #fyp #spring #spring2025 #Wonderland #ball #transcendence #dandy #dandylion #dandyism #steampunk #fashion #style #dapper #fancy

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 02/03/2025

In the midst of a very bad week I take back my power, in a silly, campy, fashion forward kind of way, in time for Mardi Gras and the subsequent celebration at TRADE. Laissez les bons temps rouler (sur les mals hommes) #mardigras2025 #mardigras #lgbtqia #drag #dragisart #dandy #dandyism #style

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 23/02/2025

Fed up and going to look cute tonight at Crush, because I am old disabled neurodivergent misshapen black gay fem queer dandy who can look like this and that is all GayThreads

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 18/02/2025

"I would be happy to do so only on the condition that whenever we have s*x we do it to the music of DEATH METAL". He quietly crept away from me. That's all. It's fun. I'm weird and memorable. Abracadabra #gay #lgbtq #Abracadabra #redandwhite #dandy #fashion #maximalism #maximalist

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 18/02/2025

Story Time (and I want to shamelessly promote my lewks): Decades ago, when Ramrod was still in DC, I was there being me, when this older leather daddy approached me and ordered(!) me to be his s|äv3. Now aside from the Race Of It All, and the Consent Of It All, I said to him:

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 14/02/2025

Not exactly a fan of St. Valentine's Day. My only boyfriend Larry d13d August 2009, 6 months before my only (that I know of) opportunity to celebrate. I will somehow still be happy for LGBTQ+ couples, throuples, and situationals on this day.. as I personally wince #valentinesday #lgbtq

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 14/02/2025

A better shot. I am proud that I can do this at last

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 12/02/2025

In case you didn't know that fashion exists in DC, you're welcome, and Happy Holidays! December Flower Factory Yuletide Ball lewks. Damn this pic is 🎄 🔥! #dandy #dandylion #dandyism #steampunk #fashion #fashionstyle #style #dapper #fancy #maximalism #maximalist #maximalistfashion #maximaliststyle

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 11/02/2025

I really need to have more self-respect and tell them that this black gay fem queer dandy IS enough, but they're not for me #mentalhealth #selfrespect #award-winning #dandy #dandyism #steampunk #fashion #fashionstyle #style #dapper #fancy #maximalism #maximalist #maximalistfashion #maximaliststyle

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 10/02/2025

One fine evening I get to see a Black pre-game show and a Black halftime show, and see a team whose member willingly shake the hand of 🍊, spectacularly lose to a Black led team.. in New Orleans, during Black History Month, did my black gay fem queer dandy soul good (2/2)

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 31/01/2025

The Ball was a wonderful time at one of my favorite gay bars, Crush, with my friends there to support me and enjoy the moment. It was powerful; it was magical; it was defiant. Our joy is an act of saying "F*q U" to those who are scared of compassion, love, acceptance, inclusion, Black and Brown Joy.

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 30/01/2025

I need San Francisco I need Flower Factory I need a Dandy Walk at a steampunk con I need a 🔥 guy to be sexually into me I need the London Colour Walk I need to go to the Met Gala I need PTown Carnival I need this fekkink black/brown queer ball #lgbtq #lgbtqia

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 30/01/2025

First time in a while due to depression over everything, money issues, and the polar vortex. Good to be back, but I'll never be a dedicated gymrat; I am me

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 28/01/2025

I really, really, really X 100000000000000 would like to scroll through social media for one hot microsecond without seeing his face. And I need a ball. Thursday night couldn't come soon enough

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 20/01/2025

And there are others who aren't doing that sick sh*t he does who do amazing makeup out there that should be promoted instead of that POS

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 20/01/2025

Thank you, @bsky.app . While I truly wish that my art and messages got better and wider engagement here, I appreciate the distractions of fashion, drag, and, ahem, gay stuff on here. Thank you

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 19/01/2025

Watching people celebrate the ban on TikTok, where my dandy fashion art thrived the most, these same people who refuse to support my black queer dandy fashion art, is depressing and disgusting. It mattered to us vulnerable and marginalized people who can't get thousands of likes on Instagram

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

Without downloading any new pics, describe your gender with one image

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

Showing off a different style because this black gay fem queer dandy has a range #mal2025

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

Dedicated to the memory of the [thankfully] late [never] great Anita Bryant. Nom

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Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy @yourdandy.bsky.social · 07/01/2025

@theebillyporter @kingofbingo @csiriano @metgala2025_official #dandy #fashion #metgala2025 I hope you all get to see this and invite me to join y'all at the Met Gala this year. I am Black; I am a Dandy (award-winning dandy at that), and I have style. I really want to go and fulfill a dream

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