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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Shout out to the guy sitting in front of me on the plane, who’s hat said “I made your dad a bottom” Happy Southern Decadence 🤠🏳️‍🌈⚜️

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

If life can just chill that would be siiiiick (I’m okay just shaken)

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

My first tour with Joystick was 4 years ago this week! Looking back at videos from that week, booooooy howdy am I humbled by how scared and awkward I used to be on stage 😬

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

Marry the man who asks “do you want to get railed in a muumuu?”

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

Being called “the hardest-working woman in showbiz” by my bosses & clients >>>>>>>

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

No matter how long I work in audio, it’s always jarring when a man goes “I love talking to women who know their stuff” Like I don’t know whether to be flattered, impressed with myself, or flat out grossed out.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

Waves Of Grief! At the Brooklyn Dive Bar

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 22/06/2026

The romaine hearts in my fridge watching me spend $15 on a salad from the Italian deli today like:

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

Love is calling your partner while you’re at work because you saw a wasp in the house on your front window camera and having him drown said wasp in hairspray because you’re afraid of your dumb cats playing with it while you’re both at work. 🥲🫶

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

Soupy is the best frontman in music and you literally cannot convince me otherwise.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 09/04/2026

What if we had a mash-up of the Arthur theme song with American Hearts by Piebald send tweet

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

April Fools posts were already the worst but the mindless AI slop people are posting today makes me want to be fully lobotomized, honestly

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

You know, after watching Star Wars all day, it boggles my mind that anyone can be bigoted & call themselves a Star Wars “fan” Like did you not hear “don’t give in to hate. That leads to the dark side”???

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

I was fortunate enough to be asked to contribute my talents to this album and it is absolutely bonkers. I’m so proud of the Megababes- give Harmonic Convergence a listen and show @megainfinity.band some love 🖤

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 22/02/2026

Life is weird because one moment you’re playing a packed out room in Yonkers, then the next you’re passing a dead body covered with a sheet next to some smashed cars on the NJ turnpike on the way home from said gig, only to have to wake up early and go to work before an impending snowstorm.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 02/02/2026

I’m the only one on my team at work today because everyone else has the flu. Happy Monday?

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 24/01/2026

Despite the horrors I’ve managed to make brunch, start laundry, and take down the Christmas tree today… AND I’m playing a show in Brooklyn tonight. I’m already tired.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 16/01/2026

Yeah I’m ready to be done with winter loooololol

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 13/01/2026

I am, once again, shouting into the void about how my mast cells are ruining my life more and more each day. Today my body has decided that I can’t even get smooches from the bearded main squeeze without my skin flaring up.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 11/01/2026

My favorite thing about being the Brewery Girl™️ is hearing grown men tap their feet to my sad girl jams of choice today.

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Mike Hogan @mjhogan29.bsky.social · 10/01/2026

The same people who would obnoxiously protest and block traffic & entrances to places because they had to wear a mask are now saying you can be shot in the face for being politeky objective to someone wearing a mask. Wild fascist times.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 10/01/2026

7 more days until my first day off in 20 days. I got this, I think…????

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 10/01/2026

My favorite thing about the Jersey shore on a Friday night in January is how excited cougars get over cover bands doing a medley of all sorts of 2000s jams that all use the same chord progression

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

Maybe I’m off my hinges, but if you’re a mayor of an adjacent town visiting a small brewery following your swearing-in ceremony & claim to be the party of “family values” + “keeping jobs at home” you should probably:

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 05/01/2026

Saw people tonight that I haven’t seen since this time last year (mere days post-layoff, to be exact) and I cannot stress enough how nice it was to hear people tell me “it’s so good to see you thriving” after seeing me in a low spot almost a year ago.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 31/12/2025

Humble brag: working 2 jobs (granted, one is only for one day a week) has allowed me to nearly fill my house’s heating oil tank this week AND pay for it with cash. This time last year I got sued by my old heating oil company over a bill from them that I couldn’t afford to pay.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 30/12/2025

I think I’m tired of online communities. Not being tethered to discussion-based social media is doing numbers for my mental health.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 20/12/2025

What made me teary-eyed today you (didn’t) ask? Hearing that a ton of NOLA folks asked where I was at Joystick’s show last night 😭💔

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 20/12/2025

I’ve already adulted too hard today (paid all my overdue bills instead of going shopping for Christmas gifts)

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 19/12/2025

Spent my lunch break visiting my dead friends and naturally, the sun was out in full force when I walked out of the mausoleum AND my check engine light turned itself off. These girls always did have jokes and I’m glad they still do.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 08/12/2025

Played a killer show last night, got home at 2:30 AM today, swapped my Halloween decorations for Christmas ones (don’t judge me okay???), dragged the Christmas tree up from the basement, and did laundry. Big day for Lil Bex.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 05/12/2025

Current brain mood: Mentos in Diet Coke WHYYYYYY

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

I will stop being mean to myself!!! I will remind myself more often that my body is indeed a thing of beauty despite what diet culture and the patriarchy want me to think!!! I will stop falling asleep with my rings on!!! I will remember that I am so loved!!!

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

I would simply like to stop being traumatized by my own body over and over and over

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

Another attempt at taking care of myself, another finish line ripped away from me just as I’m approaching it.

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 18/11/2025

Today is pre-admission testing day for my surgery on Friday and holy god shit just got REAL!!!

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 17/11/2025

Woke up from a dead sleep and immediately felt like I was going to cry and throw up. It’s going to be a good week, huh?

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

Sometimes love looks like your man helping you get your ring off your finger with dental floss at 1:30 AM because some bozo fell asleep on the couch with it on (It’s me; I’m some bozo. 😭)

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Diglo @mikediglo.bsky.social · 13/11/2025

New @megainfinity.band song out today! This one is a vibey, hook oriented pop/ska song and it’s very special to us. Second single from LP2! Thanks @emilywilliamsss.bsky.social , @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social and @darkmaterials.bsky.social for lending their talents to this one 🎷🎹 Li.sten.to/mihc

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 13/11/2025

Get yourself coworkers who say “that shit is like replacing ICs and MOSFETs” to ease your mind about your bisalp surgery

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

Who has a pair of Hot Mulligan tickets for Brooklyn that they’re trying to get rid of? 👀

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Tour was fun! Fest was great! Bleeding quarter sized blood clots all weekend sucked! But 11/21 I get to say “bye bye bisalp” and also hopefully get some answers as to why my body wants to k*ll me! I also got a row to myself on the plane this morning! Yay!

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

Operation “Don’t Let Aunt Flo Ruin My Favorite Weekend Of the Year” is already off to an abysmal start. If I’m not fully up for socializing this weekend please don’t take it personally, I’m just trying to make sure I don’t pass out 😭🫶🏻

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 23/10/2025

New tour achievement unlocked: eat an entire pint of ice cream in the van on your long drive to the next hotel ✅

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

Night 1 of tour: we stopped at a Taco Bell that not only didn’t call out my order when it was done but they also gave me beef on EVERYTHING. I’ve been vegetarian since 2018 so RIP my intestines, my bandmates’ noses, and this van’s interior I guess 🫠

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bex (she/they) @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social · 20/10/2025

My favorite part about touring is how, when I have moments to myself, I get to reflect on how much I deserve this. Call it cocky, but only if you don’t know how hard I worked to get here.

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