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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 23m

Really interesting how a person who goes to performative lengths to publicly declare their boundaries so others can witness them being crossed to show how those people are bad and wrong and yet will cross boundaries to go to and use places they are obviously not welcome in.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 1h

I have such a cool line on another profile but I want to keep it disconnected from this profile and dont want to give a stalker another avenue to spy on me from 🙃

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 1h

The internet is a big place but communities can be surprisingly small and I havent felt the need to have someone's account ostracized just because we happen to interact with the same accounts. I'd probably be banned from some SF clubs if they had their way. 🫩

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 1h

Friendship is important because when someone takes advantage of your introversion to gaslight and darvo you, friends can help you see it for the abuse that it is.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 2h

I can't actually prove it but i know someone abused their social media manager position to exercise relational aggression against me.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 3h

Its really disheartening to see someone say they are so open to learning from their mistakes and then not acknowledge a mistake they made and take all the wrong lessons from it.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 4h

It isn't really advocacy if you're only complaining about whats happened to you personally and not really giving, sharing or finding solutions. Its just whining.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 4h

Strange to call out 'concern trolls' to cast people who try to converse inelegantly or through esl as 'manipulators' but then give no such critical evaluation to people fawningly deriding those people in your favor.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 5h

i think i am being made to carry the fault and blame for someone else losing touch with the community and poly paramour prospects they became disconnected from due to covid

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 6h

I've seen what fan brigades do and am not interested in bearing the brunt of that. I know people that reach across communities who are honest and ethical. This one stays cloistered with loyalist worshipers.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 6h

I'm not sure which is worse; condescension or lack of self-awareness to not even be able to realize they're being condescending.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 7h

Maybe you cant force someone to value a shared experience on the same level but they should at least not diminish it just because they didn't experience it the same way.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 7h

Really interesting seeing the bricks & minifigs thing unfold with the latest of the ceo guy lying and exaggerating and putting on a frenzied panic distress show to lay the groundwork for a possible justified murder in the future and realize thats what was being done to me 😐

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 8h

Nothing says "normal and totally not obsessed" like posting at 5am on only a few hours sleep about how other people are obsessed and holding grudges against you. Very presidential behavior, actually.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 9h

I honestly think that's their main frame of reference and they probably dont even realize it

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 9h

Its honestly so insanely laughable to question why I, a trans woman, would be wary of men. Not only because of the physical dangers etc but like, you think you've heard vile things from them, as a cis woman? Imagine what those men are saying to who they think are their peers 🙃

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 9h

I love that people still use lists in this little bitchy petty way.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 9h

So weird how some people like, declare to have drawn an imaginary line that you aren't supposed to cross as opposed to like, blocking them. Its no better than men chest bumping to goad a punch so they won't be legally at fault Some people really dont progress pass childhood

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 10h

Let's get some Awooo's in the chat on the debut

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 10h

I wonder what it must be like to say other people need to evaluate how they interact with others after repeated failures and yet will blame others when they are repeatedly accused of the same poor behavior. Really hard to look past what appears in the mirror, I guess.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 11h

I wonder if the one who lies about how long we were involved says it has been 11 years because that just makes it all sound so much worse and their other arch-nemeses also have "held grudges" for over a decade. Very wilfully duplicitous presentation of a situation.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 12h

When loneliness and isolation were acknowledged as my failings, the compassionate and empathetic thing to do, of course, was to exacerbate them and ensure I'd be further isolated and alone. Yes. That was the solution.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 12h

They're calling it a Zakkie; half a Mooch.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 13h

Finding new people I've been preemptively cut-off from is always a treat because it lets me reflect on like, how am I supposed to solely be in the wrong when proxy stalking is being utilized against me.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 13h

between like movies about WWI or docs on like, tuberculosis. I'm almost convinced most of these people have never seen the inside of a hospital themselves.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 13h

I saw someone say like blood draws, body exams, other things like that to justify it. Things where you'd likely be in a private area for that specific procedure so im pretty sure they're making it up but also the way some of them talked it sounds like those wards with lines of beds with nothing--

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 13h

I'm going to overflow! (Post spam pending; too many drafts again 😵‍💫)

Anime character, Mamimi from FLCL, clutching her head in pain

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 14h

Is it Katherine or Katharine? 😊

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 14h

Mexican food is serious business, Kathryn!

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 19h

😐 I didnt even know this was a thing on here too

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 16/10/2026

Her lawyers have advised her not to go into detail so 🤫🙏

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 16/10/2026

Girl, the fact that you even equate taco bell to Mexican food. You lived in l.a., how did you get away with this?

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 16/10/2026

Someone really doesn't value your time and/or their dedication to the cause.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 16/10/2026

Like, so much sci-fi had been dedicated to making people aware of these moral quandries so im good. I wouldnt have wilfully created the thinking machine that could possibly develop consciousness in the first place, personally. Or not think the machine doing boring Mad Libs is sentient.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 16/10/2026

It kinda is until you get all "game of inches" and get super nerdy with it but even then its got that wild card element that makes people all moisty over march madness

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

well... that sucks ⠀😎 👉👉

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

The business president who loves small business but only insofar as he can gut it and feed it to corporations

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

I forget how many people didnt grow up paranoid about government/corporate surveillance and its so quaint sometimes tbh. Like, even *if* they're following the rules, they're still harvesting so much information off everything they can.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

really says a lot that it took like, a week, for him to cancel it. Like, a normal times "admin scramble" would be statements and appearances on tv within a day about how we believe in justice not barbarism and that Hegseth really meant it *should* be live. pretty bleak.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

It could probably lose a few server racks to slim down

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

When I cry in front of the mirror and the mirror person cries back, it must be feeling feels. Tangentially, kinda weird how I started getting treated more as a thing/concept instead of a person when I started to present as a woman or trans. Great stuff, feels good man.

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

I'm back and forth between little fun slice of life type stories, light fantasy type stuff and more sci-fi leaning things. I wonder if im going to get confused and crossing wires at some point. 🤔😅

to go the long way around to it. She cast a wary eye to the windows of the main house as she crept along the grass. She froze for a moment at what she thought was movement. The moment passed and she continued. She made it to the steps of the guest cabin and let out a relieved sigh knowing she'd be hidden from Reina's view from the main house. She remained cautious and padded as soft as she could up the stairs to the door, still staying low. She knocked in the certain way she said she would. The door opened.
⠀⠀⠀Still crouched down, she looked up and saw Marin's amused expression directed down towards her.
⠀⠀⠀"You look ridiculous."
⠀⠀⠀"Better safe than sorry." She straightened herself up. "I've snuck in here a few times already but I don't take it for granted even if you invited me to come here."
⠀⠀⠀She smirked and Marin responded by grabbing her wrist and leading her up the stairs to the attic bedroom. Marin flung her towards the bed and she curled into a ball to avoid hitting the beam that crossed nearby. She wondered, as she flew past it, if it would be used in

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

More like "small" because 👀💦 🤭

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

Unless its Stardew or Harvest Moon then it's cute and fun

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Tera Pussyruiner @xdresstera.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

Getting back to my ghetto "use it til its beyond all repair" roots with a TV that sometimes switches itself off and sometimes won't turn on with certain other electronics items also plugged in and drawing power and it feels like im trying to get a car going with a faulty starter

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