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Wayne Koestenbaum

@waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
I don’t mean to be dogmatic
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Gigli’s is the best
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Not to be an opera geek but I must tell you in all confidence that I flip out with unclassifiable and probably non-teleological ecstasy during the tenor arias in Andrea Chénier
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
But must the necklace hang low, rather than remain high up around the neck? Notice how high Sophia Loren’s necklace sits.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
I wear turtlenecks and I wear necklaces, and I’m often puzzled by how to bring together (without unintentional comedy) my discordant loves.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
proving that it is possible and desirable to wear a necklace with a turtleneck
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
this daffodil is not dejected, it is merely overwhelmed by its multiplicity of veils—
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
my backyard conservatory, a school training the next generation of lyric sopranos
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
She wins, in the spattered tournament.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
We’re incorrigible.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
misread Saint Sebastian as Susan Sarandon
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 28/04/2026
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Wayne Koestenbaum Discusses My Lover, the Rabbi with Matthew Sharpe | Brooklyn Public Library
It’s been almost two decades since celebrated, boundary-pushing writer Wayne Koestenbaum published a novel. He’s back with My Lover, the Rabbi, a book only Koestenbaum could write: hilarious, queer, o...
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Fence Magazine & Books @fencebooks.bsky.social · 23/04/2026
This Saturday, April 25th, @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social & DOUGLAS KEARNEY will read at 5 PM sharp (doors at 4:30 PM) at Artists Space, 11 Cortlandt Alley, New York City. 🌞 Fence Books celebrates its 25th anniversary; make a one-time donation at fenceportal.org/support to support our efforts. 💌
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City Lights Booksellers & Publishers @citylightsbooks.bsky.social · 24/04/2026
This week our podcast features @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social in conversation with @tausifnoor.bsky.social! Don't miss it! Up now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Soundcloud! soundcloud.com/livefromcity... open.spotify.com/episode/2O9c... MY LOVER, THE RABBI: A Novel @fsgbooks.bsky.social
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 09/04/2026
Thank you!
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 08/04/2026
A beautiful review of my new novel: thank you to the great Neil Bartlett. www.theguardian.com/books/2026/a...
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My Lover, the Rabbi by Wayne Koestenbaum review – as fierce and strange as anything you’ll read this year
With echoes of Balzac and Proust, this tale of obsessive love evokes the dangers and delights of forbidden desire
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Cathy Davidson @cathyndavidson.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
(202) 224-3121 is the capitol switchboard for connecting to any senate or house office
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Maxwell Frost @maxwellfrost.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
The President is openly threatening genocide. A crime against humanity. He must be removed from office. The 25th Amendment must be invoked. If not, Congress has to do our damn job. Speaker Johnson, call us into session. War powers & impeachment. Remove this man from office.
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Amanda Katz @katzish.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
The youngest member of Congress doesn't seem to have trouble responding to this in a normal human way. Not sure why it's so hard for representatives with decades more experience
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
Tonight! Zoom! City Lights! Conversation with Tausif Noor! Topic: “My Lover, the Rabbi”! citylights.com/events/wayne... @citylightsbooks.bsky.social @fsgbooks.bsky.social @tausifnoor.bsky.social
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 31/03/2026
I’m delighted to be appearing with the brilliant Tausif Noor in a City Lights online event to discuss my new novel, “My Lover, the Rabbi,” on Wednesday, April 1, 6pm PT / 9pm EST. Maximum conversational voltage guaranteed! Register here: citylights.com/events/wayne...
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
#nokings in Hudson gloves and hat the essential accents to demonstrate spirit’s survival
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
#nokings in Hudson chanting with the best of them in harmony or out of tune, the tune is not the point, the words are
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
#nokings in Hudson, NY always in search of signs
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
I'm attending No Kings's event, “NO KINGS Hudson Rally & March” - sign up now to join me! www.mobilize.us/nokings/even...
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NO KINGS Hudson Rally & March · No Kings
**We have the power and are claiming it together. No Thrones. No Crowns. No Kings.** What began in 2025 as a single day of defiance has become a sustained national resistance to tyranny, spreading fr...
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JeffWeinstein (he/him) @jiweinste.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
And I’ll add that I have never read anything like @dfelsenthal.bsky.social review/essay/sonorous exegesis of @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social ’s fat and hairy new book. Can’t wait to dive in.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
Thanks!
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
Here is Daniel Felsenthal's brilliant and generous review of my new novel, "My Lover, the Rabbi." I can't imagine a more gratifying and gleaming analysis.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
Thank you, Reuben!
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Reuben Gelley Newman @joustingsnail.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
"treating language as a whisk to beat the unseparated yolks and albumen of the congregation's dreaming mind" One of many sumptuous phrases from @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social's new novel
A red book cover with an abstracted image of a rose in grayscale and the text "MY LOVER, THE RABBI a novel Wayne Koestenbaum"
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Lit Hub @literaryhub.bsky.social · 17/03/2026
@waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social, author of My Lover, the Rabbi, explains why Gilligan’s Island taught him “how to be bumbling and small while receiving the protection of an older, bigger man.”
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What Wayne Koestenbaum Learned From Gilligan’s Island (And Why He Will Never Finish Reading Marx’s Capital)
Wayne Koestenbaum’s new novel, My Lover, the Rabbi, is out now from FSG, so we asked him a few questions about writing, reading, and whatever else was on his mind. As ever, Koestenbaum did not disa…
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Harper’s Magazine @harpers.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
“The stories he told himself about his own perilous and erratic progress through the world would be reshaped to place this anal ailment at the summit of his pilgrimage.” From the novel My Lover, the Rabbi, by @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social.
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Rabbi Hole, by Wayne Koestenbaum
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Harper’s Magazine @harpers.bsky.social · 05/03/2026
“The anal specialist—‘my butt doctor,’ the rabbi proudly called him—did not forbid anal intercourse.” From the novel My Lover, the Rabbi, by @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social.
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Rabbi Hole, by Wayne Koestenbaum
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Jewish Currents @jewishcurrents.bsky.social · 04/03/2026
"To the rabbi I’d promised a loyalty so primal and regressive it almost qualified as a throwback to a totalitarian, fascistic style of erotic attachment." Fiction by @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social: jewishcurrents.org/my-lover-the...
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My Lover, the Rabbi
“I, without a prehistory, became his forbidden, verklempt possession.”
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Jewish Currents @jewishcurrents.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
"It wasn’t the rabbi’s cock I wanted in my face, it was the sense of annihilation and relief that rushed over me when his cock finally arrived to smother and obliterate my restlessness and ambivalence." Fiction by @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social: jewishcurrents.org/my-lover-the...
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My Lover, the Rabbi
“I, without a prehistory, became his forbidden, verklempt possession.”
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Jewish Currents @jewishcurrents.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
“I, without a prehistory, became his forbidden, verklempt possession.” Fiction by @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social: jewishcurrents.org/my-lover-the...
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My Lover, the Rabbi
“I, without a prehistory, became his forbidden, verklempt possession.”
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
From my past, this stirring and enigmatic phrase, Emerson’s, returns to me, like a keepsake I’d misplaced, and I am roused almost to action by the forgotten question’s reappearance: “Why should not we also enjoy an original relation to nature?”
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
U.S., horror-catalyst, ungoverned land in which I live and sometimes thrive — paradox of dwelling inside this mallet striking and destroying— self-disgust at dwelling inside the unlawful arm reaching without pity or deliberation into other people’s schools and sanctuaries—
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 27/02/2026
New York City launch for my new novel! www.mcnallyjackson.com/event/wayne-...
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Wayne Koestenbaum & Morgan Bassichis
Choose an RSVP Option: I'd just like a seat, please - $5 I'd like the book and a seat - $19
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
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In Wayne Koestenbaum’s First Novel in Two Decades, Gay Lust Incarnate Is a Rabbi With a Dad Bod
My Lover, the Rabbi, out March 17, follows an unnamed protagonist's agonizing infatuation with an aging religious leader.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 21/02/2026
Two sentences from my forthcoming novel. @fsgbooks.bsky.social
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 21/02/2026
An excerpt from my forthcoming novel, “My Lover, the Rabbi,” to be published by FSG in March 2026. harpers.org/archive/2026...
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Rabbi Hole, by Wayne Koestenbaum
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 14/02/2026
in an undoctored photo, I’m waving hello or goodbye to you
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 14/02/2026
this morning: looking out my dirty, south-facing window, through a scrim of succulents:
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
They want to pollute the globe because they are the very incarnation of pollution.. They understand only pollution. It’s their lingua franca, their touchstone, their method, their core.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
“A two-grappa boy goodbye / I insist on an ocean” — alert, terse, erotized poesy by Ryan Skrabalak, published by speCt! books in Oakland, 2024
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
I’m back. Not dead. Still sane. Still skeptical.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 11/02/2026
I’ll come back
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
Good people are arising like unbidden annunciating angels to counter these eruptions of unleashed state-sponsored violence.
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Wayne Koestenbaum @waynekoestenbaum.bsky.social · 20/01/2026
fantasy: tomorrow morning the 25th Amendment will arise from its long sleep and kick ass
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