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VJM Counselling

@vjm-counselling.bsky.social
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Integrative Counsellor, MBACP, In-Person, Online and Telephone Counselling for Stress Management and Bereavement Support. www.vjmcounselling.co.uk linktr.ee/vjmcounselling 💜

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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 18h
📣Friday Mental Health Check-In⬇ If you are struggling with your mental health and need support please contact your GP or a mental health professional. It's okay if you need something or someone else to lean on.💜 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #mentalhealthcheckin #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Please know that you are not a burden for being unwell, having feelings and needs, if you ask for help, are often sad, or just struggling to get by. You are human and deserve all the love and support you need.💜 www.linktr.ee/vjmcounselling #youarenotaburden #mentalhealthmatters #ItsOkayToAskForHelp
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Next time you're feeling anxious or overwhelmed try Star Breathing. This technique will help to calm your nervous system and regulate your emotions.⬇ Follow me on social media for more posts and updates. www.linktr.ee/vjmcounselling #mindfulness #mindfulbreathingexercise #mindfulbreathing
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Did you know that chronic stress can actually change your brain? If you would like a FREE consultation call to discuss how I can support you with your stress please visit my website www.vjmcounselling.co.uk for more details.💜 #addressyourstress #ChronicStress #StressManagement
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
We all carry an invisible backpack, that no one else can see. As it stores more and more of our problems, secrets, stresses and losses it can start to feel cumbersome and heavy. If you'd like support to help make your backpack lighter please contact me at www.vjmcounselling.co.uk/contact-form 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Grief can look very different from one person to another. When we think about grief, we often imagine sadness and tears - but grief can be much more complicated than that.⬇ 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk You don't have to make sense of everything on your own.💜 #GriefCounselling #bereavementsupport
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Grief isn't just about losing a loved one. Many people experience grief after major life changes that involve loss, uncertainty, or the end of something meaningful.⬇ Read more about grief and loss here: vjmcounselling.co.uk/f/grief-beyo... 💜 #griefcounsellor #griefawareness #LifeTransitions
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
There is nothing to be ashamed of if you’re experiencing anxiety or depression. Mental health struggles can affect anyone, and they don’t make you weak, difficult or less deserving of love and support.💜 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #mentalhealthmatters #anxietysupport #itsokaynottobeokay
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Citizens Advice @citizensadvice.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Looking for advice? We’ve got lots of helpful information about: 📝 Benefits entitlement ⚡ Paying energy bills 🛍️ Returning faulty goods 💼 Your rights at work 🏡 Repairs in rented homes And much more. Visit our website ⤵️ bit.ly/4AbelPA #WeAreCitizensAdvice
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Next time you're feeling anxious try Bubble Breathing! This exercise helps to reduce feelings of stress and anxiety by calming the nervous system.⬇💜 Follow me on social media for more posts and updates. www.linktr.ee/vjmcounselling #breathingexercises #mindfulness #wellbeing
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
#WorldSuicidePreventionDay – 10th September💛 Today is World Suicide Prevention Day, a day to raise awareness that suicide can be prevented and to encourage more open, compassionate conversations about suicide and mental health. #StartTheConversation #ITSOKAYTOTALK @samaritans.bsky.social ☎116 123
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Rethink Mental Illness @rethinkcharity.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Everyone has a part to play in suicide prevention. Talking about suicide saves lives. So for #WorldSuicidePrevention Day, share this post. You never know who it might help 💜 More detailed guidance 👉 bit.ly/4tZGrJY
A poster titled "How to support someone who is feeling suicidal" lists six tips with icons: listen and be kind, do no try to fix things, stay connected until they're safe, ask about suicide directly, connect to help, stay connected, and follow up. A note at the bottom says World Suicide Prevention Day.
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
A counsellor isn’t there to fix you because you were never broken. Sometimes life can leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, lost or unsure of what to do next. Counselling isn’t about someone telling you how to live your life or giving you all the answers.⬇ www.vjmcounselling.co.uk 💜 #MentalHealth
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month This years theme is “Changing the Narrative on Suicide”, with a simple but powerful call to action:🗣️ Start the Conversation. And if you’re not sure what to say, you don’t need to have the perfect words. Starting the conversation is what matters.💚
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
As we head into the weekend, ask yourself this... What do I need today? Finding what you need starts with knowing what you deserve. Take what you need, leave behind what doesn't serve you.💜 Follow me on social media for more posts and updates. www.linktr.ee/vjmcounselling #whatdoyouneed #wellbeing
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Thinking about booking a counselling session? Sometimes, taking that first step can feel like the hardest part. You don’t have to have everything figured out before you reach out. You can book through my website or by simply scanning one of the QR codes on the image.⬇ #mentalhealthsupport 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
How do you know if you’ve found the right counsellor for you? With so many counsellors and therapists to choose from, finding the right person can feel overwhelming. 👉 Read my blog here: vjmcounselling.co.uk/f/how-to-cho... #counsellingwarrington #warringtoncounsellor #CounsellingSupport
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How to Choose the Right Counsellor for You in Warrington
Finding the right counsellor can make a real difference to your counselling experience. But with so many counsellors and therapists available, how do you know who is right for you?
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Rape Crisis England & Wales @rapecrisis.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Consent happens when all people involved in any kind of sexual activity agree to take part by choice. Without consent, any kind of sexual activity is sexual violence.
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Action for Happiness @actionhappiness.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Taking care of yourself isn't selfish - it's essential. Join us for Self-Care September and discover small daily actions to help you feel calmer, stay resilient and show up for others too actionforhappiness.org/self-care-se... #SelfCareSeptember
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Small Habits, Big Difference Did you know that making small, positive changes to your daily routine can have a real impact on your overall wellbeing and help reduce stress? ⬇ #stressmanagement #stress #anxietyrelief #mentalhealth #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthawareness #selfcare 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Life can feel overwhelming at times, but you don't have to face it alone. I currently have availability for counselling sessions and offer a safe, supportive, and non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever is on your mind, at your own pace.⬇ #CounsellingSupport #talkingtherapy 💜
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Rethink Mental Illness @rethinkcharity.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
💜 Walking the dog. Cooking a nice meal. Catching up with a friend. Whatever you're up to this bank holiday weekend, we hope it brings you joy. From 5pm today, we won't be checking comments until Tuesday 1 September. If you need support in that time, here's where to turn.
Infographic titled 'Mental health support over the bank holiday?' suggests contacting NHS 111 for urgent mental health help. It promotes 'Shout' as a free, confidential 24/7 text messaging service at 85258, and 'Samaritans' as a 24/7 listening service, reachable at 116 123.
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
💙Let’s normalise men talking about their feelings.💙 Men can feel hurt, overwhelmed, anxious, heartbroken and lost too. If you’re struggling, please don’t suffer in silence. Reaching out isn’t a weakness - it’s a strength.💪 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #MensMentalHealthSupport ⬇
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Thinking about starting counselling but not sure what to expect? 🤔 If you've been considering counselling but haven't taken that first step yet, perhaps this is the reassurance you've been looking for. Read my blog here 👇 vjmcounselling.co.uk/f/what-to-ex... #CounsellingSupport 💜
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What to Expect in Your First Counselling Session
Are you wondering what to expect from your first counselling session? 🤔 Starting therapy can feel daunting, especially if you’re unsure how it works or what will happen in that first meeting. That unc...
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
We are humans, not robots.🤖 Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that we’re not designed to be perfect, productive and switched on 24/7. You are allowed to be human.💜 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #mentalhealth #selfcare #bekindtoyourself #CounsellingSupport #mentalwellbeing #youarehuman ⬇
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
Next time you are feeling stressed, anxious or overwhelmed, try The STOP Technique.🧘‍♀️ The STOP Technique is a mindfulness based practice designed to help you reduce stress in the moment.⬇ www.linktr.ee/vjmcounselling #stressmanagement #anxietysupport #mindfulness #mindfulnesspractice 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Stress doesn’t just affect your mind - it can show up in your body too. When life feels overwhelming, you may notice physical and emotional changes such as:⬇ 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #stressmanagement #addressyourstress #wellbeing #talkinghelps #talkingtherapy #mentalhealth #mentalhealthsupport 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
I've written a blog exploring the benefits of talking therapy and how having someone genuinely listen can support your emotional wellbeing. 👉 You can read it here: vjmcounselling.co.uk/f/the-benefi... #CounsellingSupport #mentalhealth #emotionalwellbeing 💜
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The Benefits of Talking Therapy
Life can be challenging, overwhelming, and at times emotionally draining. Talking therapy offers a supportive space where you can slow things down, feel heard, and begin to understand yourself on a de...
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
Today is #NeverGiveUpDay, a day to celebrate the strength, resilience and determination that lives within us all. Remember, asking for support when you need it isn’t giving up - sometimes, it’s the bravest thing you can do.💜 www.linktr.ee/vjmcounselling #wellbeing #SelfCare #mentalhealth
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
Make Your Mental Health a Priority In the middle of busy schedules, endless to-do lists and looking after everyone else, it's easy to forget about your own wellbeing. But your mental health deserves care too. 💜⬇ 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #MentalHealthMatters #selfcare #wellbeing
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Where Are You on the Anxiety Scale Today?🤔 Anxiety isn't the same for everyone, and it doesn't always look the way people expect. Some days it may feel like a little extra worry, while on other days it can make even the simplest tasks feel overwhelming.⬇ #anxietyawareness #mentalhealthmatters 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
So many of us spend our time looking after everyone else - our families, friends, colleagues, and loved ones, while putting our own needs at the bottom of the list. The truth is, taking care of yourself isn't selfish. It's essential. Be gentle with yourself today - you matter too.💜 #selfcare
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Action for Happiness @actionhappiness.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
We all have the power to make someone’s day a little brighter. A thoughtful message, a helping hand or a moment of real listening make a bigger difference than we realise. And caring for others does us good too 💞 actionforhappiness.org/altruistic-a... #AltruisticAugust
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Action for Happiness @actionhappiness.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Jump Back Up July - Day 31: Remember we all struggle at times - it's part of being human actionforhappiness.org/jump-back-up... #JumpBackUpJuly
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Rethink Mental Illness @rethinkcharity.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Panic attacks can be frightening and overwhelming, but it's important to remember that they will pass. Share this post so that people know how to support someone having a panic attack. Head to our website for more information 👉 bit.ly/4fogKOs
How to support someone having a panic attack. Top left: Two figures embrace with text "Acknowledge what they’re feeling." Top right: Figure breathing deeply with text "Help them focus on their breathing." Bottom left: Speech bubbles with question marks and text "Suggest trying grounding techniques." Bottom right: Two figures sitting together with text "Stay with them until it passes."
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
Did you know that today is #InternationalFriendshipDay Friendship is a crucial element in protecting our mental health. Our friends can keep us grounded, help us get things in perspective, and help us to manage life's problems.🤝 #checkinwithfriends #friendship #socialconnection 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic - it can look like staying busy, overthinking, feeling exhausted, and putting things off. This is known as the Anxiety Productivity Trap.⬇ Remember, you don't have to do everything today.💜 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #anxiety #anxietysupport #mentalhealth
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
Anxiety can be incredibly convincing.⬇ Be kind to yourself. You don't have to believe every thought that anxiety brings your way.💜 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #anxietyawareness #anxietysupport #mentalhealthmatters #CounsellingSupport #stressmanagement #selfcare #youarenotyourthoughts #vjmcounselling
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
Stress is a natural response to feeling pressured, overwhelmed or threatened, but when stress becomes a regular part of life, it can affect both our physical and emotional wellbeing.⬇ 🌐 www.vjmcounselling.co.uk #stressmanagement #addressyourstress #stressawareness #vjmcounselling
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Did you know that anxiety can manifest in different ways, and that they aren't always obvious?⬇ If you'd like to explore your anxiety in therapy please use this booking link www.fresha.com/book-now/vjm... or visit www.vjmcounselling.co.uk 💜 #anxiety #anxietysupport #anxietyawareness
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
Mindfulness doesn't have to take hours out of your day.🧘‍♀️ Sometimes, the smallest moments can make the biggest difference.⬇ Feel free to save this post or share it with someone who could use a little calm today.💜 #mindfulness #mentalwellbeing #selfcare #PauseAndBreathe #MindfulMoments #Wellbeing
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Rethink Mental Illness @rethinkcharity.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
Dissociation can show up in lots of different ways and can be scary or confusing to go through. Share this post to raise awareness of what you can do to help. Find out more about dissociation on our website 👉 bit.ly/4wafPas
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
It's okay if... you're taking care of your mental health in your own way. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to looking after your mental wellbeing. What helps one person may not help another and that's okay.⬇ #mentalhealthmatters #wellbeing #therapy #healingjourney #selfcare #journaling 💜
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SANE | Changing mental health for good @sane.org.uk · 14/07/2026
Need to talk about your mental health? We offer non-judgmental, confidential, and compassionate support and guidance to anyone affected by mental illness, including friends, family, and carers. Tap the link to find out more and get support: sane.org.uk/support. #mentalhealth #emotionalsupport
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
What are grounding techniques?🤔 Grounding techniques are exercises that may help you to refocus on the present moment to distract yourself from anxious feelings.⬇ What's your go to grounding technique? Please share in the comments.😊 #WellBeing #selfcare #groundingtechniques #stress #anxiety 💜
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
Do you ever wonder why your anxiety feels worse in the morning? You're not alone, and there are real reasons behind it.⬇ If your anxiety feels overwhelming or seems to be getting worse, please seek support from your GP or a qualified mental health professional like myself.💜 #morninganxiety #anxiety
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
🌙Do you ever notice your anxiety feels worse at night?⬇ If your anxiety feels overwhelming or is getting worse, please seek support from your GP or a mental health professional like myself. You’re not alone in this.🙏💜 #nighttimeanxiety #anxietysupport #anxiety #mentalhealthawareness
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
How are you going to take a break this weekend?☕ Will you enjoy a walk outside or chat with a friend? Let me know in the comments. I'm going to potter in the garden and listen to some music!🌱🎵 Follow me on social media for more posts and updates. www.linktr.ee/vjmcounselling #takeabreak #wellbeing
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
🎉Friday Check-In🎉 What are you celebrating this weekend?🤔 Is it that you've managed to take a well needed break, or set a healthy boundary? Whatever you're celebrating enjoy your weekend and stay safe!💜 #Wellbeing #selfcare #celebrate #progress #itsokaynottobeokay #ITSOKAYTOTALK
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VJM Counselling @vjm-counselling.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
Recognising the early warning signs of stress, in your mind, body, emotions, and behaviours, is key to taking care of yourself. If we miss these signals, stress can build up and eventually overwhelm us and stop us from showing up for ourselves.💜⬇ #stressawareness #stressmanagement #mentalhealth
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