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Essays on intimacy, memory, and the emotional body. Click to read Soft Focus, by Violet Fawkes, a Substack publication with hundreds of subscribers.

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Trump reeks of more than just his diaper, he reeks of narcissism and a painfully obvious need for approval. So why is he so intimidating?

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Trump reeks of more than just his diaper, he reeks of narcissism and a painfully obvious need for approval. So why is he so intimidating?