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After having a taste of what gay life can be like when I visited DC a few weeks ago I am now even more dissatisfied with my current life in Charleston, SC. I’ve felt no sense of belonging in the gay community here for years. It feels like its poisoned by the old money culture of the city.

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Fuck I bet having those big arms wrapped around me while getting bred would fix me

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Oi! Wheres me clotted cream?

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

I hope thats a promise

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Now your power exceeds even hers and you grow moreso with each moon that passes

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Ya, always going on about being biologically engineered to breed

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Men will come up with any excuse not to pull out

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Asked a guy I recently matched with on a dating app what he does for fun, like hobbies And he literally says his only hobbies are playing fortnite and smoking weed. Im about to start eating the drywall THATS ALL YOU DO?????

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

This makes me feral, I need to see more

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I go by Y at the clinic I go to for my PrEP appointments!

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Gettin back shots so you can give back shots

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

They also pretend like it can never be changed from its current state when the founding fathers they worship explicitly laid out a way to change it in the founding document itself

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Politicians talk about the American system of government like its something that was discovered in an ancient vault free of flaws and not something that developed over centuries as a result of human decisions

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Damn if only the government was bound by laws instead of a loose collection of nonbinding rules and procedures with no real consequences. If only there was a way to have changed this situation during the last 250 years. Im sure democrats will fix this when they regain power.

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I think thats still just poly. Id say I feel pretty similar to you though

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Another angle on one of the photos

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Something some of yall might not know about me is that I really like studio pottery, especially functional pieces. I’ve been slowly accumulating more pieces of pottery over the years. Something I really enjoy is how each piece has its own personality. I can’t wait to get to use them when I move out

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Holding his little pawbs

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Had a lame night at the gay bar. The guy that convinced me to come out for bear night didnt show up til late. He was completely sauceless in person. I guess he realized there was no chemistry happening cuz he got up and walked off without saying anything. I ended up leaving afterwards.

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

PoV youre about to be fed a Hotdish that will thread the needle between disgusting and delicious

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I guess I should clarify that one was a traditional stand up, the other two were being ghosted the day of or in the lead up to day of the date

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Doesnt help that Ive been stood up 3 of the 4 dates I was supposed to go on so far this year. Hard to not feel a little bit pathetic

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Its a dreary day and Im feeling pretty glum, especially after being back home after getting to spend a few days up in DC with some queer friends. It makes me wish I lived somewhere I could be more openly queer and had a vibrant queer scene. Im dying to go on a date with someone

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Y @vernum.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I could use a left hand pump myself

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