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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 14h

protect your daughters, but more importantly, teach your sons.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 12/10/2026

I'm actually a dog, I like pumpkin and CBD

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

I don't physically hurt people, but I happily have driven everyone who has hurt me mad. Not through some grand manipulation, but by simply showing them who they are.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

My father? Abandoned by his wife and children. My mother? Alone, miserable. My brother? Addicted to meth. People who serially harm others often believe whole heartedly that they will never face it themselves, I seek to dissolve that delusion.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

People also often underestimate how cruel I can be. Call it reactive abuse, but I bite the fuck back, if I am so much as scratched, I ensure your psychological destruction. I have left every abuser who has affected me deeply afraid and wounded.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

It's a sad existence for those who believe they are entitled to my presence or being. Like no one understands that I permit, I lend, all of myself. They mistake my devotion as theirs, rather than something I am merely allowing them, and it is ultimately why they lose access.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

I'm like a stray dog that keeps coming to your door cause you fed me once.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Am I supposed to be grateful I survived this?

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Need dick from old bears who'll treat me like their child

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Id be on my knees servicing you 😊

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

he also does a lot of soft launching of what he is already doing, as if he wants to maybe do it. so i'm just not sure i can trust him anymore. the best liars are dishonest to themselves.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

that was before i cut off from the apps. but still. it just feels like he wants me, and then secretly wants women other than me on the side. but either way, his loss.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

i've just told him to lay out in front of me or begone basically. because the issue isn't her, it's not envy, it's that im being kept away when we established this as a nonmonogamous relationship. when i told him i'd consider meeting someone soon, he also again met me with apathy and detachment.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

i've noticed that since i've closed my end of the relationship that he's begun to withdraw, and withhold information. just slipping that he's considering meeting her from time to time. really happy to give me a cushy story about a convo they had, but no explanation as to why he's obviously aroused.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

whilst he kinda shrugged it off as fine. he had this dreadful emotional air around him, he seemed very upset, just hiding it. he then began to stop talking of the lady he's speaking to, but still continues to text her and even now texts her over me during his breaks at work, calling her too.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

but things started to happen in my life, i suffered a great loss in my family. my libido has gone down signifcantly, im just a mess, so i confided in him, told him whilst he was rambling on about her, that i'm deciding to stop searching for new partners.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

he then started speaking to a new woman, with increasing frequency, enthusiastically so, there is most definitely an air around him similar to when he was first speaking to me. i wasn't really against that.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

i began to search for partners, potential ones, everytime i spoke of them with him it was pulling teeth, apathetic, disengaged, etc. mind you, at the time i was DEEPLY encouraging him for the same, but he was steadfast on committing to me, cool ig.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

anyway, after i did that he started talking to allegedly new people, going so far as to make an NSFW art trade with a person. this is important because at the beginning of our relationship he made art for me, but stopped, making several excuses. but then QUICKLY drew for this person.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

he speaks of times he had with people, conversations, as if they were recent, and when questioned, quickly states that it was ANCIENT history... strange. but okay. i also wanna say that when we established our relationship i told him im non-monogamous, he was reluctant but accepted it.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

let me speak on why exactly i feel this way. i recently began to use dating apps for the first time, something i've noticed when i communicated this to my partner is that he began to kinda admit that he had BEEN using them, that tells me he was withholding that info.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

call it paranoia, but given my experiences recently i suspect that my partner has a mistress. now another alone isn't the issue, its that he likely isn't telling me the whole story between them, the withholding of info is the issue. he gives me nuggets, trivializes their interactions.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

With the small exception of feral tops who just want to sink their claws in, push down, and claim>>>>>

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Repcoda @repcoda.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

What if we all swished tails together

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I will not tell you my fears as your advice may only fuel them.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Gawd dammit, I'm sending this to the DL (Deadlock) discord.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

To elaborate, I remember just being my fuzzy self in the fandom at 11, sona named "sin". Just... astonished at my sudden ability to interact. Around 15 I first joined VRC, and whilst it is a dumpster fire through and through, I've met some people there who're now life long friends. I'm astonished.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Despite my jaded bullshit, I adore this fandom.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

The fur, the tail, the snout, it doesn't relinquish me of anything. The autistic C-PTSD experience is a painfully aware one, there is truly no escape. But this identity and culture does one beautiful thing, it gives me ground to stand on, albeit minimal, but still, it supports me. I love all of you.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Again, it's not to say that I haven't experienced deep struggle and abuse within the fandom, unfortunately predatory people have a nose for people like me and they sink their teeth in at times. But I am resilient, and they are inevitably found out and shaken off.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

My point is, is that the fandom doesn't offer me an escape. Being autistic, the only real escape from my experience is death or extreme substance abuse which would destroy me, I won't allow either to happen. The furry identity offers me safety, something I require to function in social settings.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

But I haven't let that discourage me too much, I still have faith, the safety I derive is borderline intoxicating, something I cannot abandon, and unlike an actually addictive drug or substance, I truly need this.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

When people, dawn these animal features and aesthetics, it communicates to me that I can be vulnerable. Now that isn't always true and as a child, members of this fandom certainly abused it.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Growing up I was closest with animals, they were most safe to be around cause they'd never hurt me, specifically the family dogs. They were the only members of the family who wouldn't harm me in my family, the most innocent and pure of heart.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

When I joined, and made my first fursona, I could FINALLY, have a conversation without assuming the absolute worst, I could envision relationships, touch, and intimacy. I could entertain the idea of love.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I associate the harm I went through with humanity, specifically, visual human features. Like skin, hair, genitalia, etc. When I dawn these animal traits and interact with others who do, it removes the human traits that I associate with threat and harm, it pacifies me.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

The true reason for a lot of my motivations in life has been safety, given that I have C-PTSD. But one may ask, what safety can one derive from this community?

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I realized now finally the words to explain my reason to be in the fandom. Everyone so confidently says "it's escapism", and I've never felt that way as being hyper aware and tormented with knowledge as I am, has truly somehow othered me from this very feckless and apolitical community.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Sexual partners who're attentive and aware>>>>>

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

The threat of escalating health problems is no longer, nor was it truly ever, an effective source of motivation to take care of oneself for people like me, who don't anticipate a tomorrow. I need to construct an approach.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I just had the wildest fantasy. My arms compressed against my chest by a big guy, softly pushing himself into me, brushing my hair out of my face with his hand whilst he shushes me, and reassures me.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Cptsd is so fun because you're chilling and then you don't have any flash backs or warnings, your body just reminds you.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I may be consumed by psychosis soon.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I just sink into myself with how other I am. I just observe everyone, never included. Just out of reach.

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Unhound @unhound.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

always on the outside looking in

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