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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
Sign the pact. Join the global movement to make polluters pay: act.gp/433fCsi
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Polluters broke it, we're paying for it. Make Polluters Pay
Sign the pact, record your story. Join the global movement to make polluters pay.
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
For the 'journalists' who bang on about how we were so much more 'resilient' in '76 🥵 No names mentioned Mr posh car @lbc.co.uk It's a different world...
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We recreated the legendary heatwave summer of 1976 in today’s climate – here’s what we found
For 15 consecutive days, temperatures were over 32°C. Today, heatwaves are 3°C or 4°C hotter.
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 05/01/2026
The more beautiful books I read, the less I kid myself that I know how to write! This is not impostor syndrome, it's a healthy acceptance.
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I’m Not A Proper Writer😮Illusion Shattered
The more I read, the less I rate my writing skills
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 25/12/2025
Don't be surprised that you feel like crying when somebody says lovely things to you today! It's a funny time of year 🤗
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 24/12/2025
To paraphrase the iconic Christmas film: 'What actually is love?' My wise old woman attempt to define what love is and isn't ❤️ Free to read link ⬇️
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Whatever ‘In Love’ Means
My attempt to define what love actually is!
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
Sat with coffee realising how melancholic Nat King Cole's 'The Christmas Song' is. But festive playlists are a must, I guess! #bahhumbug
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 22/12/2025
Understanding your past through a new lens is like finding an old map to a city you have lived in your whole life; suddenly, all the winding paths and dead ends finally make sense. [Free to read link ☺️]
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Understanding Myself, Fifty Years Later
A notebook, a classroom memory, and a late-life moment of recognition
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
When s**t hits the fan, we learn a lot about ourselves, others, and the meaning of life!
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2025 Didn’t Go As Planned
This year has been life-changing in a surprising way
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 17/12/2025
Imagine the joy of accidentally binning a diamond ring and then being able to buy it back for thousands on Ebay. #Erasmus
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 15/12/2025
If you're inclined to push yourself down self-doubt spirals ... watch out for this sneaky inner critic question! "Who are you kidding?" [Free to read link ⬇️]
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My Inner Critic Tricked Me Again
The little question that writes me off — if I let it
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 13/12/2025
Confession from a curious mind! Sometimes, even my own face bores me 🤣🤣 Free to read link ⬇️
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My Message Started To Bore Me!
They tell you to niche and stay consistent — but that gets boring!
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 07/12/2025
Just a harmless thought experiment Um...can I remember things that happened 50 years ago - clearly? [Free to read link ⬇️]
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What Can I Remember From 50 Years Ago?
There is a reason why teenage memories stick
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 04/12/2025
Like the Abba song - there's always a 'day before'. It feels like we know what the next day, or even minute, will look like. Actually, we don't! [Free to read link ⬇️]
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The Day Before the Clot — Fragility of the Next Minute
A blunt reminder that the future is not a given
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 02/12/2025
You know that unsettled feeling that niggles at this time of year...that somethings wrong, you're wrong! Beware the trap of festive cheer-mongering 😱 [Free to read link ⬇️]
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Festive Cheer-Mongering — Danger!
How “special day shoulds” steal our joy — and what to do instead.
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 30/11/2025
Once upon a time, nobody spoke about the thing with 4 big letters ADHD...that was the time I grew up in 🤔 [Free to read link ⬇️]
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ADHD — Imagine If I Had It
I grew up in a time when you were either normal or weird!
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 21/11/2025
Inspired by recent political speech - but not political! [Free to read link ⬇️]
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Earning Lots Makes You Special
Paying more tax doesn’t make you more valuable — does it?
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 14/11/2025
Arty-farty - how this descriptor got hijacked by pesky politicians! [Free to read link ⬇️]
trishalewistalk.medium.com
Arty Farty — Is This Me?
Wondering what this oft-used, catch-all phrase actually means
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 01/11/2025
I am officially a party pooper. All I see is non-recyclable planet-destroying plastic and food waste. And we've still got Christmas to come 😱
Photo by Dima Kaleganov - Unsplash. Tacky Halloween decorations
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 28/10/2025
I can't be the only one who has experienced a weird fear of being praised for doing something well! I have a theory... [Free to read ⬇️]
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Why Did I Dread A Compliment?
Maybe my reaction to kind words was fueled by an odd fear
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 26/10/2025
Can't believe how I embued a whole different meaning to a Wishbone Ash track - when I was a love-drama-queen of 16! [FREE TO READ LINK ⬇️]
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Everybody Needs A Friend: A 1970s Song Revisited in My 60s
A life-changing emergency, a song, and the power of friendship
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 23/10/2025
Just thinking. If someone feared being exposed by a compromising video, would they create lots of AI videos of themselves to pave the way for dismissing the ACTUAL embarrassing video as a clever ai creation?
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 22/10/2025
I was doing a thought experiment. What teenage experiences would I have been robbed of, if Covid had struck in 1973? [Free to read link ⬇️]
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When Sixteen Was Still Mine
What I would have lost if COVID had come in 1973
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 18/10/2025
I have seen the splitting seams of our NHS hospitals this week... but I've also seen the nurses. In awe. [Free Read Link ⬇️]
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A Love Note To the Nurses
A scary hospital admission put nurses up close and personal
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 12/10/2025
How I discovered the 'power of the pause' - it started with Harold Pinter! [Free to read link ⬇️]
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I Couldn’t Hear My Voice — Bliss!
I discovered the power of being silent, and it didn’t come naturally
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 11/10/2025
"What happens in your mind doesn't correlate, sometimes, with what you've got on the surface." Alice Hendy - R;pple (Raw and real conversation on suicide on LBC - with Matthew Wright 11.10.25)
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 09/10/2025
You know when someone tells you (nicely) to 'believe in yourself' - have you ever had a weird reaction? I have. I think I figured it out. Have a read and see if it resonates!
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Positivity Slogans Are So Annoying!
Why three friendly words — “believe in yourself” — made me unexpectedly cross
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
'Life can be a yes or a no. So the sooner you learn to adapt to no, the sooner you’ll have a shot at yes.' Writers in the making - you'll enjoy this read ⬇️
theguardian.com
‘Stay true to yourself – and fly closer to the sun’: what I’ve learned from 50 years of rejection
As a writer, I have been rejected thousands of times, and it initially led to shock, denial and anger. Then I accepted it. Here’s what you can gain from doing so too
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
Sorted my memory box and found a message within a message from 25 years ago!
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My Memory Box And The Hidden Message
A card given to me 25 years ago contained far more than words
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
RIP Jilly 🌼 Your words live on. "I’ve always said the secret to a happy marriage is creaking bed springs – from laughter, rather than sex." (NB: Both is an option)
theguardian.com
Jilly Cooper, author of Rivals and Riders, dies aged 88
The author of 18 ‘bonkbuster’ novels including Riders, Rivals and Bella has died following a fall
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 03/10/2025
“How Love Songs Conned Me“ - but no more! ( I created a Spotify playlist to accompany this article 🎵 )
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How Love Songs Conned Me
The pop anthems that shaped my ideas of love, and the long road to unlearning them
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 27/09/2025
Why Can’t I Keep My Big Mouth Shut (And How I’m Learning to). Tell me I'm not alone? 🤔 [Free to read link for you ⬇️]
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Why Can’t I Keep My Big Mouth Shut (And How I’m Learning to)
Surprisingly insightful reflections on my impulse to speak out — not always wise
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
I still remember “The Day My Mother Told Me I Was Fat“ - but there's more to this story... [Free to read link ⬇️]
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The Day My Mother Told Me I Was Fat
Mum’s lifelong dieting shaped me — but I finally abandoned perfection!
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 23/09/2025
Here's a thought provoking little article! The quiet tyranny of a ‘bucket list’ [Free to read link]⬇️
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The quiet tyranny of a ‘bucket list’
I am 68 and lack ambition. Is there something wrong with me?
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 18/09/2025
“Does Impostor Syndrome Peak in Uncertain Times?“ Well - we're certainly in them! [Free read link]
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Does Impostor Syndrome Peak in Uncertain Times?
What is your feeling of unease? Is it the world or is it you?
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 10/09/2025
As I try to persevere with writing on Medium - I have to write headlines that work! Aaargh! I've come up with 5 guiding principles...so grown-up. This is 'friend link' - Free to read.
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I Tried using ‘Headline Analyzer’ — I felt queezy
How can I write headlines that work for all involved — you, me and the Medium elves?
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 07/09/2025
Daring start to my writing reboot 😱 Free to read link for non-Medium members - medium.com/write-a-cata...
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I Almost Wrote About Sex. Almost.
The line between oversharing and honesty is thinner than you think.
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 07/06/2025
This isn't me - but the insight Hannah Morris shares is totally me! I like climbing because it is a comfort stretcher where I REALLY feel I'm in control of my inner voices (or self-squashing as I say!) Good video for non-climbers too: ⬇️👍
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I Spent 60 Days Training To Join The Top 10% Of Climbers
YouTube video by Hannah Morris Bouldering
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
So , yes, I can link the Musk Trump farce with my latest podcast episode. Clears throat. Being your true unsquashed self in public won't always pay off.
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 04/06/2025
What happens when a nervous rock climber gets freaked out but fights the fear with a sneaky mind trick?... Free to read link ⬇️😊
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Flight, Freeze, Fight—Action!
It was scary but my fear of failure pushed me through
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 03/06/2025
So - I started thinking about the feeling of 'boredom' and found this Johnny Harris video. Ton of insight driven by a 'car journey' analogy and full of scrumptious research rabbit holes. I like his style.
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Why Everything Is Making You Feel Bored
YouTube video by Johnny Harris
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 03/06/2025
I'm just thinking about what 'boredom' actually is. How would you describe it? Is it a luxury? Is it always bad? Is this question boring? I don't want a boring dictionary definition. 🤔
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 01/06/2025
Ep. 187: 'Make Friends with your Inner Squasher'. 'Self Belief Unsquashed' Podcast on all the main platforms and same named YouTube channel 🕵🏻‍♀️
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187. Make Friends With Your Inner Squasher
Self Belief Unsquashed · Episode
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 01/06/2025
I'm back on the writing! And asking questions like this... This is the 'free to read' link 🎁
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I Don’t Know if This Is Worth Reading
Help me understand why you read Medium stories
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
A mood lifting idea. Simple, but it works! 4-min read on Medium- here's a no-paywall link 🌞 ⬇️
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Make It Physical and Satisfying
The mood-lifting magic of a bit of scrubbing
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
Keir's public speaking style is just slightly too annoying to be hypnotic.
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
Climb Baby Climb. Please try this antidote to anxiety 🤗 Read my story to be inspired to climb! I took it up in my mid-60s - just saying. [Free to read link ⬇️]
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Climb Baby Climb. My Anxiety Antidote
Climbing is calming — I urge you to try it
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Leah Stokes @leahstokes.bsky.social · 09/01/2025
Cannot stop thinking about how Octavia Butler wrote a book in 1993 about climate change. It opens with deadly fires in LA in 2025. In the story, a fascist President has just won office with the campaign slogan "Make America Great Again." She was a modern day Nostradamus. If only we'd listened.
The cover of the book Parable of the Sower.
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 14/01/2025
You might like this podcast 🤔 It's not flashy- but it is very human! Ep. 176 on all pod platforms. 🎙 #podcast #self-belief
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176: Unlocking Hidden Perspectives: A Journey of Self-Discovery
Self Belief Unsquashed · Episode
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 14/01/2025
To hear my early years replayed from outside my head was a shake-up of my long-held unqiestioned assumptions. [Free friendly link ⬇️]
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My Best Friend Has Very Different Memories of Our Childhood
A rare meet-up with my friend of 65 years sparked a day of revelations
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Curiously Trisha @trishalewistalk.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
Will the last would-be influencer filming the flood, fire, or 'super awesome' nuclear fallout, please switch off the light. #climatechange
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