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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Thanks for the reply! We live and we grow, but yeah its not always comfortable. 🫂

Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

For sure, the best moments of personal growth for me have come through difficult changes and seeking what really feels right to be as a person now.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

I also muse about the ‘kink persona’ that I’ve created and how others view/interact with me based on that, which again doesn’t feel particularly authentic right now. Does this resonate with anyone? If you've been through something similar, I'd love to hear from you. (DMs are open) 4/4

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

The hardest part is going into new situations with a level of anxiety I’m not used to. I'm having to be really honest with myself about my own expectations and also figure out how to communicate them to other people. Some days I feel curious and adventurous and other days I feel a bit lost. 3/4

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

I'm back to exploring, working out what I actually enjoy. On one hand that's exciting, but it’s also strange, and honestly frustrating at times. It’s not quite starting over, but it is not nothing. 2/4

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

In the last year, my desires and wants from kink and sex have shifted quite a lot. I feel indifferent about some things I used to really enjoy, different things are starting to seem really hot. 1/4

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

A repeat of this super hot pic - bsky.app/profile/dann...

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Yes without a doubt, but I can see it being comfortable enough to wear for a few days.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Intense, I think i'd need to bend the belt a bit to get it to fit my body properly.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Thanks @kinkster.fun for letting me try your behindbarz belt. Its intense 😈

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 20/07/2026

Manchester folk. I’m looking for a new flat/flatmate from August/September. If anyone knows of anything going, preferably central, feel free to get in touch. References available ✨ Pic for attention 😋

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 03/04/2026

Experienced my first orgasm since August 2025. It wasn't mine, but at least someone got to cum 😆

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 19/01/2026

For sure, they're both great in their own ways.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 16/01/2026

Very understandable, its a tough position for sure. What a trooper!

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 16/01/2026

Amazing stuff! What was the first thing go that needed release?

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 11/01/2026

That would be amazing to see. Two guys in the same predicament, struggling to see who can last longer 😈

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 10/01/2026

Looks amazing! I did something similar and wasnt even close to lasting that long.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/01/2026

Going though some scenes from the past few years and remembered this intense one 😈 tough and mentally challenging, I absolutely loved it!

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

Thanks @knott13.bsky.social for adding some brightness to my workout 🌞

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 04/12/2025

Cb, it'll add to the viewing experience ;)

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 23/11/2025

While not being particularly sexual generally, this outfit really makes me feel feral.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 22/09/2025

"Quick, get out the car!" "I cant, i'm in a SJ?!" "That wasn't a request, plus it'll be worth it."

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 07/07/2025

Do I know any musicians in Manchester? Or maybe someone I know, knows some musicians in Manchester? Let me know 🎸🪕

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

I've been going through some gear that's been packed away. This singlet brings back a lot of fond memories.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 09/06/2025

This was a truly brutal edging, I was a mess by the end. 🫠 @firefox77788.bsky.social is a virtuoso edger.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 30/05/2025

The rest was needed, it was a brutal edging 😈

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 24/02/2025

I had one friend and that was it. Scary for sure but i've found it rewarding and I learned so much about myself.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 24/02/2025

A year ago I moved to Manchester! I am very proud of myself, grateful to the wonderful people i've met and excited at what the future here will bring 😃

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 21/02/2025

Thank you! Learning every time and enjoying the experience.

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 21/02/2025

He was being 'motivated' to make some noise 😈

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 20/02/2025

Im not sure which I enjoyed more either 😈

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 19/02/2025

It was a good learning experience for me as well, I'd do things a little different next time. But he was a very willing and helpful victim!

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Controlling Atlas @thekinktrovert.bsky.social · 18/02/2025

5/5 Finally, I tapped GagJack (recon) in a similar package and he joined @knott13.bsky.social on the floor for a while. Thanks to both for a really fun time!