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🏳️‍🌈 A book about #GBTQ+ bodies & self-expression. 🐻🦊🐶 A campaign about body liberation. Learn more: linktr.ee/thegaybodyguide

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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍 You always matter.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Love isn't in the same place you lost it. #GayDating isn't easy — you deserve more. You deserve better. You deserve the best. Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gbgt #lgbtq #queer #loveislove
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 13/03/2025
There's only a post or two left in the queue! 😢 A handful of leftover books are on a closeout sale for just $20 beans. The former edition is $15. (Plus shipping.) If you miss this round, you can always get The Guide at Amazon (regular price). Go to www.thegaybodyguide.com!
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 12/03/2025
🌟 #RedefiningMasculinity 🌟 Up to 60% of men experience gynecomastia. It doesn't define your worth! 💪 Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq #GynecomastiaAwareness
Quote reads: Gynecomastia doesn't make you less of a man.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
Love knows no age! 💖 If you're over 40, you deserve depth, stability, and shared dreams. Have a story? Share below! 💌✨ #LoveAfter40 #MatureLove #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #samesexmarriage #equlaitynow #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: Finding love is possible after 40.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 09/03/2025
After much reflection and a heavy heart, I've made the difficult decision to bring The Guide to an indefinite close. Please read my full statement...
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It's Time to Close This Chapter | Gay Body Guide Store
A statement from the writer about The Guide's indefinite closing.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
One size does not fit all. You don't need to act like the Western male ideal. Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: You do not need toa ct like the Western male ideal.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
One person doesn't set all beauty standards. Chin. Up. Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: One person doesn't set all beauty standards.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 02/03/2025
Embrace every line & wrinkle—they're maps of a life well-lived. Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: A few wrinkles does not make you ugly.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
Love is a human experience, NOT POLITICS. ⚖️ What will it take for empathy to rise? 🕊️ Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gayisok #equalitynow #noh8 #gay #queer #gbtq #lgbtqia #translivesmatter
Quote reads: Love is a human experience, not politics!
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
🌈 Your worth isn't defined by others. What other people think about you is not your business. Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #SelfWorth #twink #twunk #gaybear #chub #gaychub #gaycub #trans #drag #leatherman #gaybear #gayfox #queer #gay #lgbtq
Quote reads: What other people think about you is not your business.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
There's no right size to be, and whatever their "preferences" are doesn't mean what you're packin' is lackin'. 🍆🥕🥩🦴 Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #discostick #junk #malebodypositivity #malebody #gbtq #lgbtq #gay #queer
Quote reads: Disco sticks come in all shapes.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
🪮💈 Too many hairy boys get shamed for having a few more follicles than normal. It's bull💩. You don't have to shave to fit someone's crave. 🧔‍♂️ Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #hairyman #hairygay #scruff #gaybeard #beardedgay #gay #queer #gbtq #gaybeard #scruffygay
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 20/02/2025
There's so much pressure on men to lose their virginity. Why? 🌈 There's no shame if you haven't given up your V-card in your 20s, 30s, 40s, or beyond! 💚💜💛 Share this! 🏳️‍🌈 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gay #gbtq #queer #menshealth  #virginityrocks
Quote reads: Adult men are allowed to be virgins.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
Set some time aside to watch this! "1 Conservative vs 25 LGBTQ+ Activists | Surrounded" @jubileemedia  📹 Watch 👉 youtu.be/yBoFwaTWm70?si=Xy1i7-uVOsE… #jubilee #surrounded #lgbtq #gay #queer #equalitynow #pride
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
💪 A body like yours has always existed. Don't let haters shame you into thinking you're a monster. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: A body like yours has always existed.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
Don't miss out on this flash sale—this week only! The Guide: Gay Bodies & Expressions is just $20 (US-based orders only when you buy direct). While supplies last. Comes with a free sticker. Go to www.thegaybodguide.com! #gayauthor #lgbtqbooks #queerbooks #lgbtqwriters #gaybookstore
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 16/02/2025
🧩 What defines a man? Is it strength, vulnerability, or compassion? 🌈 Share your thoughts and this post! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #DefiningAMan #gay #gaybodypositivity #lgbtq #malebodypositivity #gbtq
Quote reads: There are many ways to define a man.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 15/02/2025
Nothing has to die for you to evolve. Say "no" to #twinkdeath 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #twink #twunk #gayfit #gayhot #gaybear #lgbtq
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
Finding love is possible at any age! Keep your chin up. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #twink #twunk #gaybear #chub #gaychub #daddy #gaycub ##drag #leatherman #tallgay #pocketgay #gayfox
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 11/02/2025
Labels don’t have to hinder you—they’re a way to connect with others who share your experiences, interests, and identity. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #twink #twunk #gaybear #chub #gaychub #daddy #trans #drag #leatherman #gaygiraffe #tallgay #pocketgay #gayfox
Quote reads: Don't let labels box you in. Let them build you up.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
Older bodies still deserve respect. Barring unforeseen circumstances, we'll all get there eventually. If you're over 50, we SEE YOU.  ❤️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 🤎 💜 🖤 🤍  🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #over40 #over50 #gay #gaymen #daddybear #leatherdaddy #oldermen #menshealth
Quote reads: Older bodies still deserve respect.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 08/02/2025
Note to Self: Pour your time and energy into #LGBTQ influences, artists, and activities that promote body positivity, self-love, and inclusivity. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 s.mtrbio.com/bdjsulineo #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Text reads - Note to Self: Pour your time and energy into #LGBTQ influences, artists, and activities that promote body positivity, self-love, and inclusivity.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
What defines your worth? Is it the size of your muscles, your gains, or how well-endowed you are? Or is it your happiness, your kindness, and the impact you have on others? 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 05/02/2025
In case you missed it, watch Shape by Roger Ungers, exploring how gay clubbing, ads, apps, and social media fuel obsession with the "ideal" body and its harmful effects. 📹 Watch 👉 tubitv.com/movies/100029313/shape #gaydocumentary #gayfilm #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #lgbtq
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 03/02/2025
To-do List: Share your journey and encourage dialogue about self-acceptance within and outside your circles. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Text reads - To-do: Share your journey and encourage dialogue about self-acceptance within and outside your circles.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
Following the release of Roger Ungers's doc Shape, which examines issues like racism and body image within the #gay community, Bowie Creators explores how these stereotypes intersect and impact the community. 📰 Read on 👉
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The struggle for beauty standard in the gay community has its documentary | BØWIE Creators — Home of Queer & Feminist Creators
Following the release of Roger Ungers’s documentary "Shape" which delves into the struggles within the gay community from racism to physical appearance, we’ve decided to explore the dynamics through which these stereotypes intertwine and the effects on the community itself.⁠
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
"Shape" by @rogerthatpictures explores harmful beliefs about physical appearance & their impact on those who don't meet unattainable standards. Must-see! On Prime & Tubi.  youtu.be/W6-lkwJhajI?si=k78E8UavEYr… #queerfilm #gayfilmmaker #gay #queer #lgbtq #malebodypositivity #gayfilm
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 31/01/2025
Self-promise: Engage in activities that make you feel good in your skin, such as dancing, videogames, or art. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gaymemes #gayquotes #queermentalhealth #gay #queer #gbtq #lgbtq
Text reads: Self-promise - Engage in activities that make you feel good in your skin, such as dancing, yoga, or swimming.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
You don't need to explain your weight to anyone. Ever. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #twink #skinnygay #gaybear #gaychub #gbtq #lgbtq #gay #gaybodypositivity
Quote reads: You don't owe anyone an explanation.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
Racism isn't a good look. Keep your "preferences" in check. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #sexualracism #racism #noh8 #grindr #scruff #gaydating #lgbtq
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 28/01/2025
Having small b@lls is not a pitfall. 🏀🏐⚾⚽🎾 No matter that size, you can still score! 🥅 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: "Having small balls is not a pitfall."
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
Note to Self: Surround yourself with body-positive and supportive people, like online forums, local groups, and events — you don't need to feel alone. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gaycommunity #lgbtq #gbtq #lgbtia #queer #noh8
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 26/01/2025
Yes, feminine men can have body hair too! All the hairy #femboys, raise your hand! 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #twink #twunk #gaybro #gayboy #kween #gaysian #gaygeek #gaycute #femme
Quote reads: Feminine men have body hair too!
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
To-do List: Remember that the "ideal body" portrayed in the media is often unrealistic and narrow. Not everyone has the desire, time, resources, or incentive to look like Adonis. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gayquotes #gaymeme #gay #queer #gbtq #lgbtqia #gaybodypositivity
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
Truths from Rick Clemons about overcoming your body issues. "Accept where you are in the moment." 📹 Watch 👉 youtu.be/IFYs4pGou5M?si=lyHJa_gl59r… #malebodypositivity #bodypositive #queermentalhealth #gay #lgbtq
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 23/01/2025
🏅 Athleticism knows no size limit! 🌟 Your body type doesn't discern your athletic prowess. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gay #lgbtqia #gaygym #gayfit #twink #gaybear #chub #gayathlete #queer
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
Your weight is not against the law. Whether you're large, small, tall, or short, there is no court of law that says your body is illegal. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: "Your weight is not against the law."
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
📹 Watch 👉 "How Gay Loneliness Convinces Us that Body Image is Currency" — An important commentary about belonging and body image by @DonnyWinter #lgbt #gay #malebodypositivity #gaybodypositivity #queer #bodyimage #mentalhealth
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
To-do List: Instead of focusing on your perceived flaws, celebrate what your body can do, like move, connect, and express yourself. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 s.mtrbio.com/bmrcywjpid #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaymentalhealth #queermentalhealth #gayquotes #lgbtqia #gbtq #gaymeme
Text reads: Instead of focusing on perceived flaws, celebrate what your body can do, like move, connect, and express yourself.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 17/01/2025
Whether you're getting older, going bald, gaining weight, man b00bs, or just showing signs of aging, NOBODY'S PERFECT. Cut yourself some slack. Many of these things will happen to everyone. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #lgbtqia #gbtq
Illustration of an older, overweight man.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 16/01/2025
Natural vs Steroid Bodybuilders by @jubilee is a must-watch. We idolize muscular bodies, but sometimes, there's more to the story.  📹 youtu.be/X5q5ZC0MjW0?si=heCs7OzGOok… #gayfit #gaymuscle #gymrat #musclebear #musclecub #gayhot #beefyboys #beefybear #beefybull #gymbear
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 15/01/2025
Your to-do list... Challenge any negative thoughts about your body. Ask yourself, "would I say this about someone I love?" 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #lgbtqia #gbtq #gaymentalhealth #gayquotes
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 14/01/2025
A "side" is someone who enjoys s3xual activity but doesn't prefer p3n3trati0n (giving or receiving). And that is OKAY. What you desire is yours to pursue! 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq #gaybear #twink #twunk
Quote reads: Being a side is not lame.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 12/01/2025
Attractiveness has no weight limit. Whether you're skinny or a #chub, say it until you believe it. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 www.thegaybodyguide.com #twink #twunk #gaychub #gaybear #chubbygay #skinnygay #femboy #boi #queer #gbtq #lgbtqia
Quote reads: Attractiveness has no weight limit.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
You don't need to flatten your curves. How else are you going to drive them wild? 🤪🏁🏎️  🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 s.mtrbio.com/mclytyuzde #gaychub #chubbygay #chubbygaybear #bigboy #thicc #gaychubby #bearbelly #grommr
Quote reads: You do not need to flatten your curves.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 09/01/2025
Size has nothing to do with skill when it comes to s3x. Have no shame, friend. There are resources on how to have great s3x with a smaller-than-average 🍆. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 s.mtrbio.com/rrcqqmanwp #malebodypositivity #gay #queer #gaybodypositivity #lgbtqia #gbtq
Quote reads: A small junk doesn't mean you'll flunk.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 07/01/2025
We put so much energy into other people we forget to fill ourselves up. Believe in yourself before believing in someone else! 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 👉 s.mtrbio.com/sssvkjegng #twink #twunk #gaybear #chub #gaychub #daddy #gaycub #trans #ftm #drag #leatherman #gayfox
Quote reads: Believe in yourself before believing in others.
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The Guide @thegaybodyguide.bsky.social · 05/01/2025
🐶 You are Pup enough, no matter what stage you're at. 🐕🐩🐕‍🦺 You deserve all the scritches and belly rubs, whether you're new to the scene or not. 🏳️‍🌈 Share this! 🐾 s.mtrbio.com/rlibmuphua #humanpupplay #gaypup #humanpup #leather #kink #gay #queer #gbtq #pride
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