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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 13h

That suit is amazing on you!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

I honestly love the idea of a dungeon crawl being visiting people's play rooms.

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Re: ai search They do have a toggle to let you opt-out of ai search and say the ai is internal and hosted on their servers. So I'm giving it a chance for now

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Negatives so far: - Not a huge fan that they integrate ai into the search and some of the default images look suspect. - you can supposedly opt out of ai search but still... - It's kind of alot and the overwhelming layout does not work for my senses. Really hoping the dashboard can be customized

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Positives so far: - Spandex is a kink option! - Based on the types of kinks it features it's not as restrictive. - security and privacy seem to be a big concern. And they have options to make profiles as private as one wants. - It prioritizes community on paper so that seems good

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Just made an account on Hank Social, it's a brand new social media platform so we'll see how well it grows before i fully commit to it. But here are my thoughts on it so far:

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

The bulge is bulging! 🖤❤️

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Hmm...interesting what's the spandex situation like on there (i.e. is it even a recognized fetish)?

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

It's wrinkling my brain that the Young Avengers/Champions and X-Men will be roughly the same age.

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I recently saw one that said "HDCNSLT" and I did a double take to make sure that wasn't an "M"

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Damn that's a position I'd love to apply for!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Tonight's fit at the Eagle. Think I'll find a Sinestro tonight?

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I forget what I was watching but someone mentioned the plural group term "Toms of Finland" and I cackled.

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I would yellow light so fucking hard

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Totally agree. I can see the smolder

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Gotta love when 20% of my workout is putting away weights that other beefier guys don't bother to re-rack. Just my opinion as an occasional gym goer but if you're too drained to put away your weights, that weight is too heavy for you.

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Happy Webhead Wednesday! Spidey's got himself in a but of a pickle! Someone used his own webshooters on him!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Damn. What id give to be in NYC hehe

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Happy Superhero Sunday from your friendly neighborhood kinky hero!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I'm so sorry that you got stood up. It never feels great.

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Yeah. I didnt take into account they may have been high. Though it isn't helped by the fact that their profile was quite devoid of details

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Right? Like why do I know what your asshole looks like before I even know why you're hitting me up?

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Like...does that tactic work? Am I being too old-man-yelling-at clouds about this? Are full sentences a turn off?

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Listen, I'm an elder millenial who remembers paying by the text. But we have unlimited texting now. Apps let one DM whole sentences, for free! Amazing I know! So why is this convo on Scruff like pulling teeth to get a verb and maybe a preposition? "Into? Looking?" 🙄

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I love that set up! Would love to give something like that a try

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

The only Spider in my apartment should be me

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Today was deep-clean-the-apartment-day and found a spider under my bed. Making a nice home for herself...absolutely not Miss Charolette. Get vacked!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Happy Folsom SF weekend to all who are celebrating!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Hope you have a ton of fun! I need to make my way to a Folsom at some point. SF, NYC or Berlin...can't decide!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Yep was posting some of my new singlet pics on there and it had a reminder to not post ai. Which is a very welcome thing to see

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Oh hey! SpandexParty's website has a no-Ai policy. Good on them!

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Booo! Why must it creep into everything?

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The Sidekink @the-sidekink.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Sorry you are going through that. I've been there myself and it is always rough. Hope you find something to bring you joy and help you feel less lonely.

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