I wrote about it, and about why we get asked "would you go back?" so often, in my newest Debi Downer essay. If you know someone who's wondering whether leaving is possible, or whether it's worth it, please share it with them.
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What Would I Mark?
I forgot our three-year anniversary in Spain. That's how I knew we were home.