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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 2h

Anyone else think of this photo when they see this scene?

Taylor swift from the 2019 rolling stone lover interview with her hair pinned up, wearing red and white polka dots. Her hands are flung up and her head tilted back

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St0rmin A Martini @storminamartini.bsky.social · 14h

Red and plaid at midnight on the showgirl anniversary is DIABOLICAL

Dakota and taylor on SNL. Dakota is wearing a tight red dress and Taylor is wearing a plaid off the shoulder dress

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

So Taylor uses “I have an annul bc ent to make!” in her capacity as a director…yeah that tracks

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I’m staying in a cabin tucked into 32 acres of woods in the mountains, sitting in a wood fire heated hot tub. This is the life

A small cabin stands out amongst colorful trees

A hot tub sits nestled in colorful fall woods

The view from the wood fire heated hot tub, showing a beautiful patch of trees

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Merriam-Webster @merriam-webster.com · 01/10/2026

October is the 10th month. ‘October’ means “8th month.” In the first calendar used in ancient Rome, the year had only ten months, starting in March and ending in December. The extra period between December and March was not considered part of the series of months.

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Been touching so much grass today

A mountain coated in an array of colorful trees ranging from red to green to orange to yellow

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I’m just thinking about the evolution from “when I felt like i was an old fardigan under someone’s bed, you put me on and said I was your favorite” and “meet me behind the mall, so much for summer love and saying ‘us’” to “your hand me down sweater should’ve been from the mall”

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I had two people look right at me and call me sir today. Fuck it’s validating hahaha

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InClosetsLikeCedar🌈💛✨ @inclosetslikecedar.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Are you picking up what I’m putting down??? 😅💛

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I got to touch the liberty bell today!

My hand wearing a white glove and a rainbow strapped watch touching the liberty bell. The famous crack is visible in the right side

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Is it over now playing in the hotel lobby iktr

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afterglowlor 🌞✨ @afterglowlor.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

so distracted by gay, hadn't seen anyone post this explicitly

taylor swift and dakota johnson in patient zero

taylor swift and post malone in fortnight

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Giggling with your friend while you’re twinning 🤝 like I lost my twin 🤝 I don’t want you like a best friend

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💌 @allofmypoems.swifties.social · 28/09/2026

one thing about taylor is that she’ll have her arms around a woman 😍

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laken ⏾⋆˙⟡࿐࿔ @lakenspiraling.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

are you going to marry, kiss, or kill me? i’m betting on all three.

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Met a couple of my coworkers in person for the first time, went to a couple science and history museums, and had an incredible dinner with my spouse. Now ready to watch the music video. Feeling optimistic

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

So I normally follow behind my husband when we’re walking around because I’m blind and it’s easier, but today it was great lighting for me and I was ahead for once, and I looked back so many times. Today I understand Orpheus a little better

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Never Been a Natural @neverbeenanatural.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Patient Zero is such a scathing song about the music industry and I’m so upset that nobody outside of our corner of the internet will even try to understand it, and would rather just keep attributing it to a random man.

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Exploring a new city with the love of my life to celebrate five years married and 11 years together. Later this week we abscond into the mountains to hike and chill in a cabin with a hot tub in the middle of the woods. This is the good shit.

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

I love the all gender bathroom st the airport!!! I can go in with my husband, there’s floor to ceiling doors and walls, and there’s big lights above each stall to let you know if it’s occupied. As a blind person, it’s SO much easier and hugely decreases my public restroom anxiety

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Quick dip into muse speculation for fun… Pink clouding could be about Zoe and patient zero could be about herniating the conversation between Zoe and Dianna at that bit Dianna party lol

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

I’m going on vacation for a week! Tag me in anything earth shattering!

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DearTabby @deartabby.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

A line by line analysis of “Patient Zero” and “Rebecca” by Daphne Du Maurier in preparation for the music video to come. The more I listen to patient zero, the more I fall in love with this song as a Rebecca talking to the new wife in her moment of crisis.

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

I wrote out some lyrical parallels I noticed in Babylon for my friend because she asked, so I figured I’d share!

Babylon lyrical parallels
The casino doesn't like when you run the tables You can see it in my face l'm about to play my ace
First they're off to the races and she's laughing drawing aces but none of it is changing that the chariot is waiting
And though the box is wrapped up nice, it's just a cage to you LWYMMD MV visuals
Gold cage hostage to my feelings
They told me all of my cages were mental so I got wasted like all my potential
My town was a wasteland, full of cages, full of fences I just learned these people o ly raise you to cage you They've got the cages they've got the boxes and guns This cage was once just fine. Am I allowed to cry?
Those electric fences buzz
Your picket fence is sharp as knives
Full of cages full of fences again
Lights flash and we run for the fences
The stallion flees the stable
Her best mates laughed and they nicknamed her the bolter
Its too late for you and your white horse
And that small town's even smaller now in your rear view This is a big world, that was small town, there is my rear view mirror disappearing now
I always felt I must look better in the rear view
Escape this town for a little while
Staring out the window like l'm not your favorite town
No midsize city hopes and small town fears
Etc
You ran with all the wild things
Maybe you ran with the wolves and refused to settle down
My and my wild boy and all of this wild joy
A liberated libertine who then longed for home The light of freedom on my face
Filled the pool with champagne and swam with the big names
There's more here but I have to noodle on it
'Cause it's where you're from
Aunt Virginia with a church dress on
Sarah's and Hannah in their Sunday best, clutching their

No elbows on the table
And the neighbor's lawn always looked better
Suburban legends
Do you see my face in the neighbors lawn?
Your hand-me-down sweater should've been from the mall
Meet me behind the mall, cardigan And you hate this song
You'll hide away and find your peace of mind with some indie record that's much cooler than mine
But you wake up on the train with your headphones gone
Put on your headphones and burn my city
You booked the night train for a reason
My train could take you home
Northbound I got carried away as you boarded your train south
Then that melody is all you want You hear my stolen lullabies
You never knew that it was Babylon
'Til it was gone
You hang from my lips like the garden of Babylon
Babylon lovers hanging lifetimes on a vine, do you miss mine?
No rules in breakable heaven
Give the people what they want, then you keep it movin' The entirety of showgirl lol
Eras
I can do it with a broken heart
Make your plans and friends, a stranger's makeup on your tie The man MV
Friends break up friends get married, strangers get born and strangers get buried
My friends found friends who care You cinephile in your suit and tie
I can see you in your suit and your necktie The ties were black the lies were white
I keep up with out old friends just to ask them how you are What do you tell your friends we shared dinner, long weekend with?
The mark they saw on my collarbone
Twenty watches in the safe 'cause your time is money
What it like to brag about raking in dollars and getting bitches and models?
"I don't mind, it takes time" I thought I was better safe than

Twenty watches in the safe 'cause your time is money
What it like to brag about raking in dollars and getting bitches and models?
"I don't mind, it takes time" I thought I was better safe than starry eyes
The jokes weren't funny I took the money my friends from home don't know what to say
Been sleeping so long in a twenty year dark night
Twenty years at your job then the son of the boss gets the spot that was yours
Love is ice upon the ladder that you need to climb You wanna take a seat in the ice inside my veins?
The ladder imagery from eras
Love was a cold bed full of scorpions
Your pain fits in the palm of my feeezing hand
Watching you climb watching you climb over people like me
She captured your attention, so free of all pretension I call you our on your contrarian shit
Are we o my biding time until I lose your attention?
Motion capture put me in a bad light
It stopped you cold Stop you losing me
Say my name and everything just stops
That Ivy lyric
Because she loved you so
Pretty as a picture that you didn't post
Didn't read the note on the Polaroid picture, they don't know how immich I miss (her)
A red rose grew up out of ice frozen ground with no one around to tweet it The third Polaroid
Looking at you like you're made of solid gold Your eyes are liquor it's like your body is gold
Made your mark on me a golden tattoo
I once believed love would be x but it's golden
Your Midas touch on the Chevy door
Karlie's wedding outfit
Etc there's so much gold
Never official
Our secret moments in a crowded room
Really just rep in its entirety
It's best that we move fast and keep quiet The greatest of luxuries is your secrets
I would die for you in secret
You mention you're single to the girls at the bar

Never official
Our secret moments in a crowded room
Really just rep in its entirety
It's best that we move fast and keep quiet The greatest of luxuries is your secrets
I would die for you in secret
You mention you're single to the girls at the bar You'll slide into inboxes and slip through the bars
Hits different
Maybe something else?
You're using nostalgia as a weapon to hurt yourself Nostalgia is a mind's trick, if I'd been there l'd hate it Renegade
Could've followed my fears all the way down
There's a lot of options here
But darling, you end up hurting everybody else
Renegade again
Darling darling please, you wouldn't take my word for it if you knew who was talking Darling I'm scared
Who could ever leave me darling? But who could stay?
The self-harm of never being where you are
I will go to secret gardens in my mind
Like we were in Paris
Girls loves her escapism
It's bedtime, but you're sitting in your car You're missing all the best parts
There's an interesting parallel to a Barney Williams song here actually but I can't think of which one
Never grow up
Robin
And they're all at home
She's hanging Christmas lights with your son We can leave the Christmas light up til January
Christmas tree farm
Sneak into the bathroom to call her mom And say, "It's not working
It's just not worth it if we're not what he wants" I don't know how to be something you'll miss
And you do what you want cause l'm not what you wanted
Find out what you want, be that girl for a month Tolerate it

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

I know it seems like he shines so bright but he’s bathing in your reflected light 🤝 You should find another guiding light but I shine so bright…my fourth drink in my hand these desperate prayers of a cursed man 🤝 I’m a mirrorball…masquerade relievers, drunk as they watch my shattered edges glisten

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

“Now he seems bored by you, and you don’t know what to do” 🤝 “I got harder I got smarter in the nick of time…look what you made me do”

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vi0let 💜🥨 @myeyesviolet.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

THOUGHT OF CALLIN YA BUT YOU WON'T PICK UP I'VE GOTTA BE HONEST I'VE BEEN EXPECTING YOUR CALL... NO IT'S NOT A BAD TIME AT ALL SHE PICKED UPPPPPPP

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

TS13 is going to make or break everything. I’m quite nervous but tentatively hopeful

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Someone just turned on an AI note taker for our fuckass meeting 🤮

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bella❤️‍🔥✨ @dreamscapes.swifties.social · 25/09/2026

I didn't want to let you down so I left you up there on a pink cloud. I didn't wanna come down I thought it was just goodbye for now. I hoped you'd return with your feet on the ground, tell me all that you'd learned. I hope you landed safely on the ground and I hope you're so happy now.

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Gray rocking where the arrow hit

Hayley Kiyoko in the YBTCD MV with a lavender jacket shooting a bow

Anti hero music video with Taylor getting shot by an archer and bleeding blurple

Taylor in the anti hero music video covering up her wound with a “vote for me” sign

The gray rock in the opalite music video with a friendship bracelet reading “friends forever” as she smears the blurple glitter on it

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Anyone think patient zero is about other artists fleeing big machine? I remain convinced that eventually she’ll release her own label

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

“Now I’m wearin’ white”

Taylor in the fortnight music video wearing white and looking depressed as hell

Taylor wearing white in the fortnight music video while being given electroshock “therapy”

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

“You have to find someone who doesn’t find you totally insufferable!” oh so he…tolerates it

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

So I learned a new phrase Also the fact that it’s quite similar to stonewalling but the difference is intention… The course for this is the Cleveland clinic btw lol

If you've spent a lot of time on social media, you're probably familiar with the phrase, "Don't feed the trolls." People who enjoy doing harm
like to see that they're getting to you. Grey rocking is a way of making sure the trolls (in this case, the harmful people or interactions you encounter in the real world) go hungry.

Making yourself too busy with tasks and appointments to spend time with a toxic
person.
• Participating in a conversation as little as possible. For example, limiting your responses to "yes" and "no," or being very deliberate about what you do and don't say.
For example, you may use canned responses like, "Please don't take that tone with me," or "I'm not having this
conversation with you."
• If the person is calling, texting or messaging you, waiting to respond, blocking them, putting up a "do not disturb" or away message or or simply leaving the message with a read-receipt and no other reply.
Ignoring or not responding to somebody.

Limiting eye contact with the person in question and keeping your facial expressions neutral.
• Staying calm, cool and collected in your response, even when the other person is ratcheting up the volume or trying to pick a fight.
This is probably starting to sound a bit familiar, isn't it? While they aren't exactly the same thing, grey rocking is definitely reminiscent of stonewalling.
Grey rocking vs. stonewalling
The difference between grey rocking and stonewalling is in the intention. When we stonewall somebody, we're either doing it because we can't handle the difficult feelings we're experiencing or because we're being manipulative:

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

The she/her pronouns!?!?!?

Lyrics from Taylor’s new song Babylon:

She captured your attention
So free of all pretension
It stopped you cold
Because she loved you so
Pretty as a picture that you didn't post
Looking at you like you're made of solid gold
Never official

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Babylon has me thinking about white horse, daylight, but daddy I love him, begin again, and willow/I look in people’s windows

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

“Met the magenta sunrise, fuschia forever intertwined” ok maroon

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Cleveland! is London Boy part 2

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Re🐦📚🎶 @birdsbooksnbops.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Wait. 4 cryptic phrases from the Emmys sketch, 4 new songs. Could they be linked? Patient Zero = ar[i]es? Cleveland! = north or south? Pink Clouding = saccharide? Babylon = from the vineyard?

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

She also made that Elizabeth Taylor memorial video, which essentially equated to massive donations to AIDS research

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MK @thatbicatlady.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Ending the encore with a song called Babylon after using that word in cowboy like me AND the secret of us? I’m sat Also pink clouding is giving lavender haze and “give me the blues and then purple link skies”

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