iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

All summer, people have been showing me exactly who they are and I keep fighting it hoping they will change or something. I deserve better people in my life who value me in it.

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Reposted by Bear Bud

daresaypj @daresaypj.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

HEART this if you wanna see bulge 🥰

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

What are you waiting for? Get over here.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

Feeling like making this account a little more adult. If you need to go, heard and understood.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

Reclaiming the last three weeks I wasted trying to befriend awful people. Live and learn.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 18/07/2026

Making adult friends is some of the hardest interactions I've ever dealt with. It's bringing up all sorts of unresolved feelings of loneliness, low self esteem, and longing for connecting that's ages old for me. Every step forward is hard, but I will find my people eventually.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 03/07/2026

Convinced being an OF creator is just reposting your own reposts. Whatever happened to fun?

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 22/06/2026

The face of a guy who got hit on at the bar last night, had a great night of conversation, and then went to his room like a respectable man.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

Took this for a friend but felt like it deserved more attention

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 02/06/2026

For my mental health, I muted and I unfollowed and am making space for myself again.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

My heart hurts tonight. 😔

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

If there's one thing I'm good at, it's investing in emotionally unavailable people. 🫪

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 23/05/2026

But are we going to talk about Butter as a runway theme?

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 15/05/2026

When you realize one of your favorite OF creators is maybe kind of a terrible person.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

The face of a man who is not feeling it today

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 07/05/2026

Why is it when I start to put my heart back on the line, I'm inevitably disappointed by guys who take me for granted? Frustrating evening to say the least.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

Get you a man who can do both.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

Bear moment unlocked: politely asked to go home due to snoring.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 19/04/2026

Feeling myself alone at the gym

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 09/04/2026

Fell down a black hole going back over my streaming career and the kind of awful experiences toward the end. Better person. Better place. Peace to those who left for their own mental health. What an odd time that was.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

are you there god? it's me, margarine

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

There's nothing quite like getting in a bed you freshly made with new sheets and blankets. Heaven.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 27/03/2026

An #fcf here? More likely than you think.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 23/03/2026

What in the "eg no ra moose" woke bullshit is this, Cracker Barrel? Bring back table games that insult you.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 20/03/2026

Proud of where this body is going

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 08/03/2026

Made a bold (for me) move and I'm attending a bator event in Vegas in April. Really enjoying exploring what makes me tick.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 23/02/2026

I'm desperate to get back into reading. Somewhere along the last 20 years, I lost the spark but I really do love books so much.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 20/02/2026

I'd be lying if I said everything here was good. I feel like I'm kind of coasting, letting work absorb the space that would probably fill with some sadness. I don't know. I just wanna feel a spark again

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 12/02/2026

Are we getting brunch before or after we guillotine the CEOs?

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

Houston, I'm in you. But also, why am I not "in" you?

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

Good morning from this bed head.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 29/01/2026

Me boarding this Comic Con cruise tomorrow.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 29/01/2026

I'm headed to Tampa for a cruise and then off to Houston for work. In other news, I'm extremely horny and I'm about to sample a buffet of vacation dads.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 24/01/2026

When I tell you I never felt more like I needed to be armed, that would be an understatement. And that I might have to defend myself against agents of the US is an insane thought.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 23/01/2026

Put in work this week and admiring the results

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 19/01/2026

Been spending a lot of time fixated on how I'm just not for everybody. A lot of hurt feelings that I'm letting go, because they didn't deserve my attention and friendship to begin with. 2026, we work on this love deprived inner child and remind him that we're enough.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 15/01/2026

Quarterly HIV/STI testing completed -- friendly reminder it's time before you play again. 🥵

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Lowest weight. Most muscle. 2026 we drop more and get bigger.

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Bear Bud @thatbearbud.bsky.social · 05/01/2026

I had the best connection with a long time friend last night, and my heart is very full today. Being my most authentic self in 2026 and going forward

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