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TenderCub (he/they)

@tendercub.bsky.social
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Bearded, stocky, and a little bit timid. Erotic trans content creator & illustrator. Commissions OPEN Onlyfans.com/thetendercub

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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
I wrote a new article on Substack and took gay pics for it.
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Am I demisexual or am I just traumatised?
The age old question..
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
Is there a company that sells cute underwear for bears, where the models are actually fat and not muscle jocks, exist? Lemme see how this jock will look with my love handles god damnit!
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
“Remember: just because this person might be the best you’ve had yet, you’re allowed to want better.”
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Things I’d tell my younger gay trans self
On trusting your gut, playful pressure, STIs, and self worth.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
“If your friend came to you and described the person you’re feeling anxious over, would you tell them that they deserve better? Or would you be kicking your feet in excitement for them?”
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Things I’d tell my younger gay trans self
On trusting your gut, playful pressure, STIs, and self worth.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
“Don’t want to be kicked out of someones flat? Don’t be a dick.”
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Things I’d tell my younger gay trans self
On trusting your gut, playful pressure, STIs, and self worth.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
“I woke up the next morning replaying the night in my head. I thought I’d fucked it, god damnit. There’s nothing worse than being overly cocky with substance use and ending up with your head over a toilet bowl.”
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My crush told me he liked me, and I ran off to be sick.
And they say romance is dead..!
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
“I promise this has nothing to do with what you’ve just said, but if you could please play some music.. Loudly”
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My crush told me he liked me, and I ran off to be sick.
And they say romance is dead..!
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
“I had a constant knot in my stomach and could barely eat for weeks. It took every ounce of self control to maintain my independence and not fall into this all-consuming bubble of bliss.”
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My crush told me he liked me, and I ran off to be sick.
And they say romance is dead..!
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
“It’s funny to think skin from the top of my body has moved to the bottom, and it’s just there. My mouth is on my coochie .. <insert joke about which lips here>.”
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How my new urethra messed up my mouth.
The lasting results of metoidioplasty, bottom surgery, nine years later.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
“So I’m chill, trying not to play with it because it feels very odd in my mouth (wink wink, nod nod). However, I go through a period of going in and out of sleep with mouthfuls of blood. I need a bed pan to spit this into and it feels very, very wrong.”
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How my new urethra messed up my mouth.
The lasting results of metoidioplasty, bottom surgery, nine years later.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
There’s nothing more I hate in this world than a man who things he’s entitled to another persons body. Even worse - one who’s convinced himself “he’s not like other guys”.
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Pleasuredrome Gay Sauna review
What happens when a trans guy goes to a sauna alone?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
Someone just bought my recent video 👀💦 onlyfans.com/2505853492/t...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
"I think there’s also an element of dysphoria that’s bubbles up within me. All of these men seem to have built a language I’m not familiar with, and when they all have penises there’s no hiding their bodies in case of safety, or worrying that they’re going to be asked to leave."
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Pleasuredrome Gay Sauna review
What happens when a trans guy goes to a sauna alone?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
"Later on in the evening I found myself sitting next to Pepper in the hot tub. At the back there are reclining seats in the hot tub so we’re almost laying down next to each other. We slowly turn our bodies to face each other more and more and his foot starts to touch mine."
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Pleasuredrome Gay Sauna review
What happens when a trans guy goes to a sauna alone?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
Anyone in need of some nectar? @pupnectar.bsky.social 🐾 #queerart
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
"I caught the eye of one guy in there and couldn’t quite tell if he was giving me signals or not, so I didn’t presume - this guy will come up again, so let’s call him Pepper."
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Pleasuredrome Gay Sauna review
What happens when a trans guy goes to a sauna alone?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
"This was probably one of the nicer saunas I’ve been to, the lighting was nice, the hot tub was large and (seemingly) clean, though the yellow lighting in the water did make it feel like we were all bathing in a body of piss."
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Pleasuredrome Gay Sauna review
What happens when a trans guy goes to a sauna alone?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
"I was out in London recently and decided it would be the perfect night to test out a gay sauna alone. I had researched a few trans masc friendly saunas and the closest to me at the time was Pleasuredrome. So at midnight on a Saturday night, I walked myself there and signed in."
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Pleasuredrome Gay Sauna review
What happens when a trans guy goes to a sauna alone?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
"You’d think this is embarrassing for me to tell the world, but honestly I’ve met enough people who are also pissing themselves or on themselves (voluntarily or involuntarily because of one reason or another), to no longer care. Dignity? Who?"
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Nobody told me having a hysterectomy would make me incontinent.
On pissing yourself in your twenties.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
Yes, I no longer have to worry about getting pregnant. Yes, I also don’t have to worry about getting a period (apart from this one freak accident). Yes, I also also don’t have to worry about cramping after orgasms anymore. However, I adopted a couple of new worries.
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Nobody told me having a hysterectomy would make me incontinent.
On pissing yourself in your twenties.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
“I did not get a shag, but I did get the satisfaction of making an egotistical twat feel bad about himself, and that dopamine lasts much longer.”
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If I can kick a guy out of my flat 10 minutes after he's driven an hour to get to me at midnight, you can too.
Read this before you judge me.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
“I excuse myself to the bathroom, and promptly get out my phone. I spam my boyfriend with 8 texts in one minute and he doesn’t reply. My heart is beating in my chest, I’ve never confronted someone in my home like this, what if he get’s angry? What if he hits me? Worse, what if he hurts my cats?"
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If I can kick a guy out of my flat 10 minutes after he's driven an hour to get to me at midnight, you can too.
Read this before you judge me.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
What happens when a trans guy comes across a t-dick sucking hard packer from banana prosthetics? find out: onlyfans.com/2505853492/t...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
“It wasn’t the kink itself that was the problem - it was the secrecy and shame that came with it. The more I hid it, the more dangerous my choices became.”
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Am I a Shitty Person? Or Is This Just Kink?
Untangling shame, desire, and consent - and learning that curiosity can be safer than control.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
Does anyone have reccomendations for t dick pumps? #ftm
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
“Kink is supposed to be about freedom, but for many - especially queer and trans people raised around shame - it can feel like a test of morality. You wonder if your desires make you a bad person, if your fantasies say something dark about who you are.”
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Am I a Shitty Person? Or Is This Just Kink?
Untangling shame, desire, and consent - and learning that curiosity can be safer than control.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
Hi there 👋🏻
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Vulpes 🍉 (He/They) @katevulpes.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 27/05/2026
Hairy boys with pretty nails? 🐚
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
The art, vs the artist.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
I'm so proud of getting this book out. I'm currently finalising sending out signed copies to my kickstarters who have supported the project, but as soon as they're sent out, the physical copy will be available for all! Digital version is available here: conscious-euphoria.com/products/a-p...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 16/05/2026
I think I need to make different thumbnails for my OF videos as the current ones are very explicit.... thoughts?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 16/05/2026
My Weird Waxing Experience as a Trans Man Have I just got weird luck or is this the norm?
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My Weird Waxing Experience as a Trans Man
Have I just got weird luck or is this the norm?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
I'm Not Polyamorous BECAUSE I'm a Slut. I’m Polyamorous — and ALSO, I’m a Slut. Know the difference.
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I'm Not Polyamorous BECAUSE I'm a Slut.
I’m Polyamorous — and ALSO, I’m a Slut. Know the difference.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
Free undressing references for artists <3 onlyfans.com/2070172724/t...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
I was out in London recently and decided it would be the perfect night to test out a gay sauna alone. I had researched a few trans masc friendly saunas and the closest to me at the time was Pleasuredrome. Read my full review here: consciouseuphoria.substack.com/my
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Fellow artists don't forget I have free reference albums on my OF (which is also free to join). onlyfans.com/2069693495/t...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀This is an anonymous story submitted by a trans person for the Body Like Mine book - a collection of 100 illustrated transgender bodies & stories, available to purchase now! conscious-euphoria.com/products/bod...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Never trust a man who “playfully” pressures you. “Promise me you’ll come over..”, “you owe me a kiss if I buy you a drink”, “don’t be such a prude..”, “I can’t wait for tomorrow, why can’t we just meet tonight?”..
consciouseuphoria.substack.com
Things I’d tell my younger gay trans self
On trusting your gut, playful pressure, STIs, and self worth.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
I feel like part of being trans masc is having to get used to pissing on yourself, esp if you're learning to use STPs..
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
When being discharged from the hospital after my hysterectomy, I was given a leaflet that talked about the importance of Kegel exercises. I paid attention to it for the first few days, and then in typical ADHD fashion, forgot. (read more on substack here: consciouseuphoria.substack.com
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
I’ve briefly mentioned this story a few times, but I thought I would lay it all out in its glory, because if anything, it could be a useful lesson in identifying red flags. Here is the story about how I ended up hooking up with a man who foreshadowed his own arrest - during our meet.
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I can look past “I’ll scoop your eyes out and hide your body” but I draw the line at greasy hair.
A lesson on having better standards in men (this is so much worse than you think it's going to be)
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
Who should I draw next?
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
Seeing my boyf tonight yayayayay
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
Sad to announce that in returning my new camera to the manufacturer , I forgot to take out the SD card which had raw footage of my OF content on it.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
This is an anonymous story submitted by a trans person for the Body Like Mine book - a collection of 100 illustrated transgender bodies & stories, available to purchase now! conscious-euphoria.com/products/bod...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
“I promise this has nothing to do with what you’ve just said, but if you could please play some music.. loudly” I’m still not sure if he assumed I was going for a shit, or to be sick, he quickly put his headphones on and told me not to worry. (read more...)
consciouseuphoria.substack.com
My crush told me he liked me, and I ran off to be sick.
And they say romance is dead..!
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
If there was a people pleasing award, I would definitely be in the running. I have endured some nasty shit in the name of not making people feel bad, including sleeping with a guy who said he would scoop my eyes out. (read more..)
consciouseuphoria.substack.com
If I can kick a guy out of my flat 10 minutes after he's driven an hour to get to me at midnight, you can too.
Read this before you judge me.
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
So I've been getting sent *toys* to review for around 7 years now, which means I had to get a 6 drawer cupboard to contain everything. The eligibility criteria of keeping these prosthetics is strict, so I made a video of 15 toys that I have kept. www.youtube.com/watch?v=91HJ...
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TenderCub (he/they) @tendercub.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
Can't wait for the physical copy of this book to be out! You can get the digital version here: conscious-euphoria.com/products/a-p...
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