iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

Obviously not the point here, but as I remember it, “introducing Martha Wash” was exactly what they didn’t do.

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 14/04/2026

Right, if you do, tomorrow you’re in a meeting with whoever runs your program hearing about how badly *you* handled it

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 14/04/2026

They almost never do, do they? Honestly, I’ve stopped correcting them about myself a lot of the time depending on my mood in the moment. Often not worth the extra headache to deal with everyone’s reactions to me doing that

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 14/04/2026

Either way, I don’t care for it

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 14/04/2026

Fairly easy to guess what that’s about.

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 14/04/2026

I have never found any way to predict how an interaction is gonna go, and it seems to have little to do with anything I do or don’t do.

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 22/08/2025

I’ve yet to see a compelling argument for why trans people should sacrifice ourselves so everyone else can go back to pretending everything’s fine, and I won’t be playing along

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

Objectively, the past week and a half was good. I know that. I should feel good. And yet I haven’t. And don’t.

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

A good thing happened today. I know that. Something that would have been very important to me not even that long ago. Intellectually, I know a good thing happened. And yet I don’t feel good.

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 18/06/2025

I would prefer if you all stopped attacking a person who saved my life more than once. Just don’t do that

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Fearless Queers Self Defense @selfdefenseisgay.bsky.social · 04/06/2025

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 25/05/2025

I miss the silly little village in Ithaca

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

I don’t know what to say anymore, and I don’t believe anything I might say would matter anyway

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 12/05/2025

Look if it’s a good day for you, it should be, I actually am glad it is. I really am. It’s just sad for me is all. I know that doesn’t matter. Whatever

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

No, in fact I was gonna talk to you about that. Hang on

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

But there’s also my tendency to subtly excuse myself and disappear forever as is obviously healthy, so…

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

Honestly? I’ve got plenty of excuses to be out there these days. Main things stopping it would be a place to stay and my paranoia about traveling

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

I think I’ll carry on subtly excusing myself and disappearing forever. As is obviously the healthy thing to do

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 23/04/2025

If you get a chance, please tell him I said he’s a very good dog

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 18/04/2025

Which is a reasonable thing for him to say. Please give him a hug for me if you get a chance

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 07/04/2025

I’m sorry you’re sad too. A completely unrealistic wish I have is that trans people should never have to be sad. That’s a thing about me.

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 07/04/2025

Thank you. I don’t think it really is though

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 01/04/2025

And if so, he’d have been correct

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 31/03/2025

This is the part where I say some real self deprecating shit that amounts to “I am not rad” and then delete it hopefully before either of you see. Just so we’re all on the same page here

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 31/03/2025

Hey, look at me actually talking to somebody I don’t know though 👍🏻

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 31/03/2025

Slaying various forms of dysphoria is not something I’ve ever had a lot of success with

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 31/03/2025

In my case I’m going with the second one. And I don’t blame them, it’s just… very sad

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 30/03/2025

I think I’ve finally accepted they’re not flaky, they just don’t actually give a fuck about me

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 06/03/2025

I’m actually a real person with real experiences and real emotions and it’s become pretty much impossible to get any kind of support about any of this

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 06/03/2025

Well why don’t I, a literal trans woman athlete, look at the news again today? Surely this time it’s gonna be ok to do…

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 06/03/2025

That is a lyric I was not expecting to read on Bluesky

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 01/03/2025

Not how did you get it. I mean how did you never have it?

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 28/02/2025

Just an endless parade of incredibly dumb fucking horrors

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 28/02/2025

It’s all just so mind numbingly fucking stupid

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Tara Stardust @tarastardust.bsky.social · 14/02/2025

Yeah, I gotta finally get rid of it too

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