iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 09/02/2025

The people who rise up eventually will be those who rely on the government to live. This is framed as a race war, but it’s more than that. It’s a class war at the highest level. So I pray that when people rise to fight for their right to live full and healthy and safe lives, they rise together.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 01/02/2025

I listened to the Let Them Theory on Audible and found the foundational idea really compelling. The extrapolation of it, less so. Not because it wasn’t well-written, but because some of the things that plague Black and brown people feel more complex than the examples shared.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 26/01/2025

What we wouldn’t give for the petty era: The name calling and bragging about crowd sizes. The photo shoots for show with no teeth. What we wouldn’t give for the days the emperor had no clothes. This is not that. This is the devil in a red, white, and blue dress. 2025

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

I can’t stop writing. Preserving my power with each stroke of my pen. (Or keyboard.) #booksky #authorsky #blacksky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

Now I’m watching The Wiz. A scared young woman. A crew of misfits. A fake wizard in a circus full of monkeys. It tracks.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

One thing about how the new admin is moving: We can stop feeling the need to help people see the racism and sexism and ungodliness that undergirds their agenda. It’s right there for anyone with eyes and ears to hear. Even people who were focused on eggs.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

Launched a newsletter today on LinkedIn for helpers who want to do good without being undone and in a few hours, it had almost 5,000 subscribers. So thinking I’m not alone here. 👀 #helpers #youarebeforetheworld www.linkedin.com/pulse/we-hel...

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

We have six young adult children and at least once a night (or early morning) I check Find My Friends to see if they’re where they belong. 🫣 I’m not proud. 🤦🏽‍♀️👀 #parenting

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

I searched #book and read the posts and I feel better already. Here’s my book baby, but I’m writing a memoir now. 💙📚

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Cheyenne @cheylaney.bsky.social · 19/01/2025

Friendly reminder that if you buy a book on Kindle, you're only paying for the rights to read, not own. If a book truly gets banned, it will be taken away from digital platforms like Kindle, nook, etc. Consider getting physical copies of banned (or other) books! READ BANNED BOOKS #booksky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 20/01/2025

People are sending me news clips about the inauguration. I’m busy watching WICKED.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 20/01/2025

I deleted my TikTok account and the 12K followers that went with it. The playing in my face was too much. #tiktok 🖤🦋 #Blacksky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 19/01/2025

This is the part where you’re sitting still at the top of the rollercoaster—anxious and anticipatory—just before it wildly descends. Unclench your jaw. Loosen your limbs. Stiffening can injure you in ways going downhill fast cannot. #Monday #youarebeforetheworld #reminders #selfcare

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 19/01/2025

Thank you for reattaching the finger you bit off. Thank you for putting out the fire you started. Thank you for catching the ball you dropped. (Next week’s TikTok tale.) #tiktok

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 17/01/2025

I realize that the advice to “be kind” isn’t always reasonable. Some don’t know how to be kind. Some have never known kindness. Some are too hurt to be kind. Some mistake kindness for weakness. So maybe we should say “be kind if you’re able.” Because some are clearly not able. #kindness

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 17/01/2025

It’s the end of an era and the beginning of something else—something that will shove us into a raw, honest life. We’ll have to doggedly pursue a peace of our own choosing. For me, that will be personal freedom—for myself, my family, and the helpers who’ve been undone by doing. 🙏🏽 #Blacksky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 15/01/2025

I’m struggling to WANT to fit working out into my current sitch where I’m prioritizing rest, finishing this memoir, and running my business. It’s not rising to the top but I know the long-term importance is HIGHHHHH. Writing this from bed. 👀 #authorsky 💙📚 📚💙 #books #entrepreneursky #sleep

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

It’s a game and we are pawns. I believe 45 is sowing chaos (use your imagination), and will come into office and “save the day.” This will make some who hate him love him - shift power. Except he’ll just be fixing things he broke. Believing this gives me no pleasure. #presidency

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

After a few weeks in our other spot, landing “home.” Which also means back to my regularly scheduled program. Let me finish this book so I can help change these clients’ employee experiences real quick. 👀 #consultingsky #booksky 📚💙

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

So who’s thinking about alternative ways to assess our book sales potential when most of the social media platforms are becoming less friendly to us? Curious about your thoughts @luvvie.bsky.social @jevonbolden.bsky.social #authorsky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

60,000 words. Now the hard but fun part: the chiseling. God told me to write this book a decade ago, but timing is everything. It’s time. 🙏🏽 I’m receiving all manners of good thoughts and prayers. #authorsky #booksky 💙📚

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

While every day gives me a new reason to doubt humanity, I’m realizing that just talking about how bad we are and how much better we should be isn’t soothing my soul. It’s increasing my anxiety. So I’m working on just being the good. Prayers. 🙏🏽 #wearethehelpers #youarebeforetheworld #blacksky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

Am I the only one thinking that the heritage foundation SCOTUS is done capitulating to Trump now that they’ve successfully slid Vance in behind him? Which was the preference—and plan—all along? 👀 #trump

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

I’m at the part of the writing process where I want sleep to pass quickly so I can get back to my manuscript. This feels so good, especially after sidelining all 40,000 words of the previous effort. It’s getting better—in big and small ways. Can’t wait to share it with you. 📚💙 #writersky #book

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

My MIL sending photos of our dogs in their winter jackets are sending me… #texassnow

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 09/01/2025

Fellow authors, I’d appreciate good vibes. I’m committing to getting to 60K words by Friday EOD. I’m at 56K. Then, I’ll start my first developmental edit. I’ll hire someone to do this after me, but I always like to take my best cuts first. The fun part! Takes me back to my editing days. 📚💙

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

For GOD so loved the world, and if you can’t understand this fundamental idea, you are not doing it right and should keep God’s name out of your mouth. I stand firm on this simple concept. #christiansky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

I’m so glad I no longer have to lose sleep wondering when someone would finally change the name of the Gulf. Freedom is nigh! 🙄 #trumpygames

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

Our preoccupation with being special (different, better, more important) has fed the machine. I’m following every person who follows me (who appears to be a decent, caring human). The ratio of following to followers may help set us apart, but it doesn’t help bring us together. #community

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

I’m not gonna lie. The prospect of building a social media community on yet another app is daunting. But Zuck’s true colors shining through is ewww. He sounds like a man whose wife just left him in that video. It was like, “F it - I’m going full Broligarch.” #socialmedia

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 07/01/2025

Writing my next book and I’m at 53,000 words. It’s a hybrid memoir, which I didn’t know was a thing until last week, but definitely nails it! #booksky 📚💙 What’s your fave hybrid memoir? #memoir

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 07/01/2025

I watched the FB founder’s vid and all I heard was “We’re gonna make racism great again.” And then the people in the comments hollering the N-word. That’s not exactly what was said…but isn’t it? #facebook

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 07/01/2025

I’m no longer looking to the system to define normal. The systems have lost the plot. They are morphing for money and power and it’s a no for me. I’ll be working to create community with people who care about people beyond their noses. #community

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 05/01/2025

We know @chiefs.bsky.social didn’t need this game, but we who like our team to win are not enjoying this spanking. #nfl

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 03/01/2025

I am here. The expanse of the ocean reminds me how small I am in the grand scheme of things. And if I’m this small, my problems are even smaller.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 03/01/2025

My new book is 47,000 words so far, but I’ve not edited it yet. So that means it’s probably more like 35,000. 👀 #authorsky #books #writers

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 14/12/2024

I can’t be the only person who thinks that Leon, Mr. Master of Distraction, is behind this drone situation? I personally think they’re trying to keep us talking about nothing so they can undo everything in peace. #conspiracysky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 11/12/2024

Cable news is dead to me. Not just because of the normalization of madness, but because consuming drama every day is bad for my mental health and my ability to be creative. My creativity uses optimism as fuel. That source isn’t out there. It’s in me.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 04/12/2024

This is embarrassing. But it goes to show how good they are at convincing people to believe what serves them until it no longer serves them. Classic use and abuse.

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 01/12/2024

My post-election trauma response is seeing our national embarrassment in everything and everywhere. We saw Gladiator 2 today. The Emperor was 🍊🤡, and Macrinus? The P2025 crew. Just shady, working the back channels. #filmsky

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

The freest new habit I’ve embraced is blocking people because I can without feeling like I need another reason. Bye. #block #socialmedia #goodbye #bots #freedom #

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 28/11/2024

It’s not a perfect 7-up cake, but I’m trusting it will be perfectly delicious. This is usually my mother-in-love’s thing but she couldn’t make it this year. 😢

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Tara Jaye Frank @tarajayefrank.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

Have you ever eaten ketchup chips? My new obsession. I had to order them from Canada. Probably the last time I’ll get them for only 12 bucks a bag. 👀 Savoring the flavor… #tariffs

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