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Tabitha 🐀

@tabithawrites.itch.io
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Writer & editor, architectural historian, animal lover, queer fiction fan | Ace & agender | 🚫 genAI | ey/em or they/them Books: tabithaoconnell.com Interactive fiction: alyshkalia.itch.io

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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 27/09/2026
my books--queer fantasy romance novellas--are all in Kobo Plus and available at some libraries via Libby/Overdrive! Kobo Plus link: www.kobo.com/us/en/search... more info and links at my website: tabithaoconnell.com
covers of Structural Integrity and Structural Strain by Tabitha O'Connell with text: "Kel: messenger boy - cinnamon roll - people-pleaser. Yaan: government official - anxious mess - conflict-avoider. First they need to confront their issues... then they have to actually work on them." arrow graphic with book cover of "Dirt-Stained Hands, Thorn-Pierced Skin" by Tabitha O'Connell in the center. It features leaves and red roses around a castle in the background and the back of a person with short hair in a plain shirt in the foreground. arrow text around it reads: low heat, snarky x patient, nonbinary MC, yearning, magic plants, bonding over books, mom who meddles (crossed out) tries to help, loose Beauty and the Beast retelling, getting out of a bad relationship.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 31/08/2026
In honor of the ongoing #Narratessindiesale, you can get both Structural Integrity and Structural Strain in one handy bundle on itch for under $5! itch.io/s/198986/nar...
covers of Structural Integrity and Structural Strain by Tabitha O'Connell with text: "Kel: messenger boy - cinnamon roll - people-pleaser. Yaan: government official - anxious mess - conflict-avoider. First they need to confront their issues... then they have to actually work on them."
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 31/08/2026
Look at these gorgeous covers for two amazing books!! Both coming out October 6! Shattered City (City of Silver, book 2) by @tallimorgan.bsky.social Cover by @thistlearts.bsky.social Pre-order at itch: silvercrescentpress.itch.io/shattered-city Or elsewhere: books2read.com/cos-shattere... 🧵
Cover Reveals! Shattered City by T.L. Morgan and The Modern Mythos Continuum by Juniper Lake Fitzgerald. The covers are shown against a warbled pinkish-red background. The cover of Shattered City shows main characters Cyrus and Lucien stand in a close embrace, gazing at each other intently. Lucien has his arm around Cyrus, and Cyrus is touching Lucien’s hair. They’re set against a dark blue background and surrounded by an intricate frame of silver roses and thorns. The cover of The Modern Mythos Continuum shows from left to right: Aeris the vampire hunter, Python the vampire, Calysto the warlock. The trio is pictured in a tight formation. Aeris is peering into the distance and holding a thin golden necklace between her fingers. Calysto is back-to-back with her, and holds a book against his chest while staring up and out. His other arm wraps around Python who is leaning against him, seemingly in a catatonic state, his eyes are blank and/or detailed with magical light. A silhouette of a bat-like creature looms behind them.The covers of Shattered City by T.L. Morgan and The Modern Mythos Continuum by Juniper Lake Fitzgerald are shown with their respective vampire main characters: Lucien for Shattered City, and Python for The Modern Mythos Continuum. Text with an arrow pointing to Shattered City says “Sequel to Silver Blood,” and text with an arrow pointing to The Modern Mythos Continuum says “Sequel to The Modern Mythos Anomaly.” Both out October 6.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 30/08/2026
The Narratess indie book sale is happening this weekend through Monday, and Structural Integrity is on sale as part of it! Find more info and buy SI at tabithaoconnell.com/structural-i..., and check out all the books at indiebook.sale. #narratessindiesale
Cover of Structural Integrity by Tabitha O'Connell with short blurb: "Kel needs Yaan to show he cares. Yaan wants one thing in his life to be easy A demolition order for an old theater could salvage their
relationship—or cause its collapse." 1.99.
Below is the banner for the Narratess Indie Book Sale, featuring a dragon, a pile of skulls, and a planet. Text: Indie Book Sale. indiebook.sale. Fantasy, Sci FI & Horror. 29 - 31 Augustbook covers around the Narratess Indie Sale banner
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 18/08/2026
if this is the right image, here you go!
Taemin Phase I: Soft Violence

(01) FLOAT
Lyrics by Drew Love, Bava
Composed by SOFTSERVEBOY, Drew Love, Bava
Arranged by SOFTSERVEBOY

(02) Gooey
Korean Lyrics by jonjon (XYXX), TAEMIN, BUMZU
Composed by ditch david, Ninos Hanna. Jack Samson, WILJAM, CX Lucas, Hautboi Rich, A-Dee
Arranged by ditch david, CX Lucas

(03) Let Me Be The One
Lyrics by Kuk Harrell, Hidde Huijsman, TAEMIN
Composed by Kuk Harrell, Hidde Huijsman
Arranged by Kuk Harrell, Hidde Huijsman

(05) Sober
Lyrics by TAEMIN, Shaquille Rayes, San Yoon
Composed by TAEMIN, San Yoon, John McLucas, Jimmy Claeson, Chris Wahle
Arranged by 94K

(06) 1004
Lyrics by TAEMIN, Josh Cumbee, Tricia Battani
Composed by G'Harah "PK" Degeddingseze, Josh Cumbee, Tricia Battani, TAEMIN
Arranged by G'Harah "PK" Degeddingseze

(07) Easy Loving You
Korean Lyrics by Tatte, TAEMIN
Composed by Anders Nilsen, Maria Mena, Gerard O'Connell, A-Dee
Arranged by Anders Nilsen

(08) SKIN
Lyrics by Alessandra Gaza', Eva Rawlings
Composed by SOFTSERVEBOY, Alessandra Gazal, Eva Rawlings
Arranged by SOFTSERVEBOY

(09) PARASITE
Lyrics by TAEMIN, Shaquille Rayes, San Yoon, Molly Moore
Composed by TAEMIN, San Yoon, John McLucas, Molly Moore, Andreas Ohrn
Arranged by 94K

(10) Frankenstein
Lyrics by TAEMIN, Shaquille Rayes, San Yoon, SeoWoo Chae, Ed Williams
Composed by TAEMIN, San Yoon, John McLucas
Arranged by 94K

(11) This Is The End
Lyrics by TAEMIN, Shaquille Rayes, San Yoon
Composed by TAEMIN, San Yoon, John McLucas. Jimmy Claeson
Arranged by 94K
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2026
Cleves mentioning the cover similarity as evidence that Walden adapted her book is so disingenuous because as this post points out, both covers were based on this image!
text reads: "As I learned later, both are based on the only existing image of Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake, a silhouette." image is silhouettes of two women in profile with a frame of coiled human hair.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 21/07/2026
does anyone know if this citation style has a name and if so what it is? this has been troubling me for literal years (the style being, author name on its own line, then publication year on the next line followed by a tab, then the title and publisher)
text showing example of bibliography entries with author name on one line and then publication year, a tab, title, and publisher on the line below
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/07/2026
STRUCTURAL INTEGRITY: Kel is longing for Yaan to show he cares. Yaan is desperate for one thing in his life to be easy. A demolition order for Kel’s favorite building could salvage their crumbling relationship… or cause its collapse. (art by Juniper Lake Fitzgerald!) #Bluepit #📖 #P #A #F #R #LGBT
cover of "Structural Integrity" by Tabitha O'Connell. The illustration depicts a young man walking toward an ornate wooden door looking back over his shoulder and holding out his hand to a man who stands in the lower left corner, his head and shoulders visible from the back. surround the cover are phrases: m/m romance, trans, ace-spec MC, supportive family, anxiety rep, angst & sweetness, existing relationship, communication, class differencedigital painting of two men standing facing each other. the taller one has brown hair and is wearing a green robe; he has one hand on the other's elbow and the other hand on the other man's face. the shorter one has black hair and is wearing a brown jacket and has one hand on the other man's waist.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/07/2026
DIRT-STAINED HANDS, THORN-PIERCED SKIN: Heron doesn’t see a future with eir partner, but isn't ready to let go. After meeting the sweet, shy, mysterious occupant of a magic-laden castle, ey starts to realize what ey wants—if ey can find the courage to pursue it. #Bluepit #📖 #P #A #F #R #OV #LGBT
arrow graphic with book cover of "Dirt-Stained Hands, Thorn-Pierced Skin" by Tabitha O'Connell in the center. It has a border of leaves and red roses, with the title text in a decorative font taking up most of the space. The title is overlaid on a castle with a blue sky behind it. in the foreground is the back of a person with short hair in a plain shirt standing facing the castle. arrow text around it reads: low heat, snarky x patient, nonbinary MC, yearning, magic plants, bonding over books, mom who meddles (crossed out) tries to help, loose Beauty and the Beast retelling, getting out of a bad relationship.collage of photos: a stone castle tower in the woods, a pair of gold legs, a long-haired, bearded man with his face in profile, hands in dirt among plants, a fountain with a sculpture on it, and in the center a red rose surrounded by dark leaves
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 12/07/2026
Structural Integrity and Structural Strain are both in this bundle! The second book especially features Yaan navigating his anxiety and depression after a major life disruption. itch.io/b/3781/figur...
Text: Characters figuring out their Queer/ Neurodivergent/ Disabled selves. Figuring it out Bundle: 17 books for $16. July 12th to 31st, Itch.io. 
Covers bordering text: 
This Is How Immortals Die, Nic Hidalgo. 
Bad Memory, M.A. Melby. 
Dragon's Soul, J.F.R. Coates. 
A Designer Magick, Stefanie Carter. 
Lucifer's Favour, Tessa Hastjarjanto. 
Countering the Hands of Crime (Sythe Series #2), Elise Carlson. 
Bleeding Gold, Niranjan. 
The Baptism is Long but the Song is Everlasting, Rob MacWolf. 
Our Simulated Selves, Nikki Null. 
Rin in Time Immemorial, L’Poni. 
Giving in to Gravity, Avery Bridge.  
A Life in Too Many Margins, S. E. Thomson. 
What Lies Within, Issy Waldrom. 
A Demon to Save Me (Found Humanity #1), H.S. Kallinger. 
Blood of the Gods, Wren L. Rivers. 
The Protector and the Annihilation, Naila Moonsi. 
Structural Integrity, Tabitha O'Connell.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 28/06/2026
cover + first page of Structural Integrity for #PrideBookFair!
cover of "Structural Integrity" by Tabitha O'Connell. The illustration depicts a young man walking toward an ornate wooden door looking back over his shoulder and holding out his hand to a man who stands in the lower left corner, his head and shoulders visible from the back.Now
Kel lay on his stomach before the open balcony door, a cool night breeze tickling his skin. The brown-striped cat that sometimes managed to climb up stared at him from the stone balustrade. After a moment, it dropped to the floor, still watching, and Kel stretched his arm toward it. “Come on, don’t you want to explore in here?” The cat stood still, one paw lifted, large pupils glinting back the room’s dim gaslight. 
Hunger tugged at Kel’s stomach, and he drew in a long breath and embraced the feeling, lowering his head to let his cheek rest on the rug. He hadn’t eaten since breakfast, save a plum off one of the courtyard’s trees.
Behind him the room’s door clicked open, and the cat darted away into the darkness. “What are you doing?” came Yaan’s bemused voice. The lights brightened, and Kel rolled onto his back and stood, measuring his speed so his head wouldn’t spin. 
“Nothing. How are you?”
“Exhausted. Today was the longest day.” Yaan fell onto the bed and reached out a hand toward Kel. 
Kel stepped forward to clasp it. “Sorry.” Perching beside him, he smoothed Yaan’s hair back above his closed eyes.
“Mmm.” Yaan pressed into his touch, shifting to nuzzle his face against Kel’s palm, his stubble tickling slightly. “My only comfort was knowing I’d be coming back to you.”
Kel’s hand slid to the fastenings at Yaan’s throat. “You had an important meeting today, right?” he asked as he worked the first set free and moved down to the next. Removing Yaan’s administrative robes was always a process. “How did it go?”
“Oh, it was fine. Not worth talking about.” Yaan’s eyes blinked open and focused on Kel’s. “Help me forget it?”
The lightheadedness brought on by the lack of nutrients in Kel’s body was akin to tipsiness, making him lazily compliant. After reaching an adequate state of forgetfulness, Yaan snuggled against his side and fell asleep. Kel lay still for a bit, but his empty stomach won the fight against his drowsiness. Eventually he eased away and crept off to
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 28/06/2026
joining the cover/first page trend for #PrideBookFair! Here's DSHTPS.
book cover for "Dirt-Stained Hands, Thorn-Pierced Skin" by Tabitha O'Connell. It has a border of leaves and red roses, with the title text in a decorative font taking up most of the space. The title is overlaid on a castle with a blue sky behind it. in the foreground is the back of a person with short hair in a plain shirt standing facing the castle.Heron eased what ey hoped was the final weed from its spot between the leaves of a rhubarb plant, careful to pull the entire root system free before tossing it into the wheelbarrow with the rest. Ey wiped the light sheen of sweat from eir face, then looked up to survey the garden for any remaining intruders. Only the neat rows of vegetables remained, soil dark and damp around them.
These days, with eir mother determined to make a living off selling her inventions, the garden was solely Heron’s responsibility—which ey didn’t mind. Ey liked the quiet, the steady rhythm, the progress as the plants grew and blossomed and bore fruit. Ey liked the smell of the dirt, the infinite variety in the plants, the insects that pollinated them…
If Tiel got his way, though, Heron was going to lose all of that. Living in town instead, hearing arguing people instead of the clucking of chickens, inhaling smoke instead of rain-soaked earth.
Sighing, ey unbent eir stiff knees and rose, rolling eir shoulders and stretching eir arms above eir head. With Ma away, off on her trip to the city fair that morning, Tiel had invited himself over tonight. Heron had reminded him, though, that that would mean waking up early tomorrow to make it back into town for work on time, and that had seemed sufficient to put him off the idea.
Guilt nagged em like a persistent fly, but ey just as persistently swatted it away. Ey was allowed to want some time to emself every so often. Ever since Ma had mentioned her trip, ey’d been looking forward to a quiet evening alone with a book. No clatter of tools from Ma’s bedroom workshop, no trying to figure out if her mutterings were directed at em or just her talking to herself. Ey loved her, and they got along well for the most part—but it was still nice to have a break once in a while.
Of course, most people would relish the chance to have their lover over when they had the house to themselves… but then, most people weren’t seeing Tiel.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 20/06/2026
if you like short stories, the indie anthology Torment: A Gothic Anthology includes three vampire stories! www.juniperlakefitzgerald.com/writing-port...
book cover of TORMENT: A GOTHIC ANTHOLOGY, curated by Juniper Lake Fitzgerald. A pale, veiny hand with red knuckles tears through the black cover to reveal a red background
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 20/06/2026
still looking for recs! in the meantime, i'll note that my novellas Structural Integrity and Structural Strain follow a couple after the "getting together" stage. (getting together was the easy part; staying together not so much!) currently on sale on itch! tabithawrites.itch.io/structural
covers of Structural Integrity and Structural Strain by Tabitha O'Connell with text: "Kel: messenger boy - cinnamon roll - people-pleaser. Yaan: government official - anxious mess - conflict-avoider. First they need to confront their issues... then they have to actually work on them."
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 10/03/2026
Torment: A Gothic Anthology, curated by @ardentgrove.bsky.social, is out today!! I was a co-editor and have my own story in the collection, which channels my trauma from being raised AFAB in a conservative Christian society and was very cathartic to write! Purchase links: books2read.com/u/3Lz617
Graphic with text reading: OUT NOW
A TIMELESS COLLECTION OF QUEER GOTHIC TALES
TORMENT: A GOTHIC ANTHOLOGY
CURATED BY JUNIPER LAKE FITZGERALDgraphic with text:
A TIMELESS COLLECTION OF QUEER GOTHIC TALES
OUR CAVALIER CONSECRATE - DEMONAPOLOGIST
THE ROT BENEATH - MARAT EARENDEL
EMERGE - BAILEY ELIZABETH
OMEN - JUNIPER LAKE FITZGERALD
JUST LIKE OLD TIMES - TYLER ISAAC
ICHOR - ARTEMY MANDUS
DANCE MACABRE - T. L. MORGAN
NOTHING BUT THE BLOOD - TABITHA O'CONNELL
WHERE THE STARS HAVE NO REACH - BAY SHUFORD
BEST AND BRIGHTEST - W. PAYNE SILLAVAN
A BLOOM OF DAFFODILS - EZRA WREN
TORMENT: A GOTHIC ANTHOLOGYgraphic with heading "eleven authors" and eleven author photos/portraits/representations.graphic with header "four artworks" and four black and white illustrations. @ me if you'd like a full description!
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/01/2026
I'm so excited to be a part of this anthology! Release date is March 10, but you can sign up for an ARC now! Sign-up form: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1F... Add on Goodreads: www.goodreads.com/book/show/24...
graphic with text and image of the book TORMENT: A GOTHIC ANTHOLOGY, curated by Juniper Lake Fitzgerald. Cover depicts a pale, veiny hand with red knuckles tearing through the black cover to reveal a red background. Text reads: Coming March 10, 2026. ARC sign-ups open now!graphic reading:
TORMENT: A GOTHIC ANTHOLOGY
FEATURING:
OUR CAVALIER CONSECRATE - DEMONAPOLOGIST
THE ROT BENEATH - MARAT EARENDEL
EMERGE - BAILEY ELIZABETH
OMEN - JUNIPER LAKE FITZGERALD
JUST LIKE OLD TIMES - TYLER ISAAC
ICHOR - ARTEMY MANDUS
DANCE MACABRE - TALLI L. MORGAN
NOTHING BUT THE BLOOD - TABITHA O'CONNELL
WHERE THE STARS HAVE NO REACH - BAY SHUFORD
BEST AND BRIGHTEST - W. PAYNE SILLAVAN
A BLOOM OF DAFFODILS - EZRA WREN
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/11/2025
12 hours left to grab the Trans People Take on the World bundle! 32 books by trans authors featuring trans characters, all for $35. itch.io/b/3352/trans...
graphic with text reading: Trans People Take on the World. Nov 1-15, Itchio. below are 32 book covers: 
The Strangers Sanctuary, S.E. Robertson
What Lies Within, Issy Waldon
Synthetic Sea, Franklyn S. Newton
Non-Player Character, Veo Corva
A Life in Too Many Margins, S.E. Thomson
Like Salt and Whi Sky, Merlina Garance 
A Memory of Blood and Magic, K.N. Brindle
My Personal Trainer Cracked My Egg, Fern V. Bedek
Enemies to Enemies, Ash Kreider
The Poison Fruits, E.M. Haegar
The Thread That Binds, Cedar McCloud
The Wings of Ashtaroth, Steve Hugh Westenra
The Elysium Proposal, A.E. Bross
Structural Integrity, Tabitha O'Connell
Songs of Broken Bells, Lilly Lockwood
Echo Sight, Cian Verath
The Uncontinented Stars, Haden Cross
Between You, Me and the Moonlit Sea, Linn Silver
Secondhand Origin Storie, Lee Brontide
Blood On The Snow, Finn McLellan
Manipulators War, Elise Carlson
Powder & Feathers, Johannes T. Evans
Our Simulated Selves, Nikki Null
All Roads Lead to This, Kay Claire
1000Lotuses, Lotuscarp.com
First Rose, Jake Vanguard
A Demon to Save Me, H.S. Kallinger
Dragons Soul, J.F.R. Coates
Garden of Rotten Roses, Nicole Hidalgo
Name Her Holy, Aubrey Ennis
Baker Thief, Claudie Arsenault
Illusory, M.X. Misfits
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 22/10/2025
#AceWeek sale! 26 ace books for $26! (including one by me!) itch.io/b/3322/ace-p...
Promotional image for Ace Pride Week Bundle #2
All books in this bundle have either a major character that identifies on the ace spectrum, an ace-identifying author, or BOTH! Oct. 19-25. 26 Books, $26.00

Book covers pictured are:
Non-Player Character by Veo Corva
Journey Home by May Barros
Triple Strike: Threads of Fate by G.M. Gray
Wherever the Stars Call by S. Jean
Yours Celestially by Al Hess
The Star-Crossed Empire by Maya Darjani
The Audacity 1 by Carmen Loup
The Thirteenth Key by Cara Nox
In the Eye of the Beholder by Beverly Anne Michel
A Designer Magick by Stefanie Carter
Bloody Spade by Brittany M. Willows
Structural Integrity by Tabitha O'Connell
Curse of Souls by Niranjan
The Thread That Binds by Cedar McCloud
Of Spells and Love by Odessa Silver
Courtly Love by T.D. Cloud
Song of the Wolf T.C. Smith
The Dragon Next Door by Vanessa Ricci-Thode
The Grand Duke's Masseur by sbdrag
Blood by D.C. Hart
Lantern by Burgundy Athena Pendragon
Inarora's Excursion by Astrid E. Abell
The Blood Divide by Zan Lowell
The Towers of Nine by Alyssa Louttit
Walking the Knife's Edge by Elise Carlson
Junk Junction by William C. Tracy
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 22/10/2025
#AceWeek sale--get this bundle of 50 ace books for only $50! (including one by me!) itch.io/b/3318/ace-p...
Graphic advertising the Ace Pride Week itch.io mega bundle.
Oct 19 - 25. 50+ books for $50! All books by ace authors and/or ft. ace characters across a variety of genres! riyati.ink/acepride2025

Book covers for the following books are listed top left to bottom right:
Non-player Character - Veo Corva
A Dragon’s Treasure - Elis Madsen
The Blood Divide - Zan Lowell
The Grand Duke’s Masseur
Child of the Forest - Audrey Simmons
Wherever the Stars Call - S. Jean
How Six Saved the Grogs - Blaine D. Arden
City of Strike - Claudie Arseneault
In Spite of the Inevitable - Morgan Biscup
Structural Integrity - Tabitha O’Connell
Of Spells and Love - Odessa Silver
Inarora’s Excursion - Astrid E. Abell
Puppetry - Nina Waters
Sidetracked - S. K. Kelley
Lost Blades - Liz Sauco
Claimed by the Undead - C. L. Carhart
The Star-Crossed Empire - Maya Darjani
Triple Strike Threads of Fate - G. M. Grey
Curse of Souls - Niranjan
Courtly Love - T. D. Cloud
Song of the Wolf - T. C. Smith
Blood - D. C. Hart
Chai and Cat-tales - Lynn Strong
The Thirteenth Key - Cara Nox
The Dragon Next Door - Vanessa Ricci-Thode
Walking the Knife’s Edge - Elise Carlson
Yours Celestically - Al Hess
Pet - H. S. Kallinger
The One He Brought Home - Skye Kilaen
Junk Junction - Sara Codair
Secondhand Origin Storie - Lee Brontido
Riyati Rebirth - Kai Zeal
Bridges of Smoke - Julie March
The Whisperer in White - Y. R. Liu
In the Eye of the Beholder - Beverly Anne Michel
Peace in the Sky - Caye Marsh
A Spark in Space - Janina Franck
Journey Home - May Barros
Doce Drosera - Anita
The Audacity - Carmen Loup
Bloody Space - Brittany M. Willows
Enemies to Enemies - Ash Kreider
Devil’s Deal - Tessa Hastjarjanto
Merchants of Knowledge and Magic - Erika McCorkle
A Life in Too Many Margins - S. E. Thomson
Where We Converge - A. E. Bross
Lantern - Burgundy Athena Pendragon
A Designer Magick - Fox N. Locke
The Harmony of Falling Snow - Andora Brohaw
The Thread That Binds - Cedar McCloud
Towers of Nine - Alyssa Louttit
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/10/2025
reposting with alt text! (also, i still have my childhood best friend's phone number memorized from 20 years ago)
screenshot from r/CasualConversation posted 2 days ago by TotalThing7

Did people really memorize phone numbers before cell phones, or is that just a movie thing?

I was watching some old shows from the 90s and noticed people would just dial numbers from memory - like they'd call their friends
or family without looking anything up.
Made me wonder if that was actually normal back then? Did people genuinely have all their important numbers memorized, or did most folks keep a little address book or written list nearby?
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 07/10/2025
very excited to be starting this one! @elizmanderson.com
photo of a white hand holding the book "The Keeper of Lonely Spirits" by E.M. Anderson
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 16/09/2025
It's another Itch bundle, this one for speculative fiction set in secondary worlds! 23 books (including two of mine!) for only $25, now through Sept 22. itch.io/b/3254/new-w...
Graphic depicting 23 book covers (list below). Text reads: "New Worlds, New Adventures. September 16-22. 23 books - $25. itch.io"

Books:
The Kalista Chronicles: A Brave Sacrifice
The Spider's Friend
Shadows Dark and Deadly
War Heart
A Light for the Dead to Follow
The Dragon Next Door
Undine's Blessing
Love Tales from the Borun-Ma
First Snow
Usurper
Thief, Acolyte, Consort
The Warm Machine
The Star-Crossed Empire 
Structural Integrity
Structural Strain
Inarora's Excursion
Song of the Wolf
Hallowed
1# Cosmonaut
In Spite of the Inevitable
The Healer: Tales of Pern Coen 
The Sarcophagus of Lamia
The Flame of the Dragon's Oath
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/09/2025
My short story "After the Curse" is currently featured in a FREE short story bundle on Itch! Grab over 20 stories from now through the 22nd. Tips welcome but not required! itch.io/b/3272/free-...
Cover art for many short stories with a red and orange overlay. Text atop reads “Free Short Story Bundle. September 15th-22nd” and “20+ Stories”.Red and orange background with a blue book cover in the center. Cover has a sprig of red tomatoes and handwritten text reading “After the Curse” and “Tabitha O’Connell.” Text above and below reads “Free Short Story Bundle. September 15th-22nd” and “20+ Stories”.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 08/09/2025
i'm a nonbinary author of traditional and interactive fiction! books: fantasy romance novellas. blurbs & links at tabithaoconnell.com interactive fiction: short works, many queer, often with multiple paths/endings. play at alyshkalia.itch.io
Graphic labeled "Trans books by a nonbinary author". Three books by Tabitha O'Connell are depicted: "Structural Integrity" has an illustrated cover with a young man walking toward an ornate wooden door looking back over his shoulder and holding out his hand to a man who stands in the lower left corner, his head and shoulders visible from the back. “Structural Strain” has an illustration in the same style of two men standing in front of an archway with a building in the background. One, wearing a green robe, stands right at the edge of the arch with a nervous expression, holding a suitcase in front of him. The other is in the foreground, only visible from the waist up, and is facing the first man with his hand held out. text beside these two reads "Trans man x cis man, dual POV". the third book is "Dirt-Stained Hands, Thorn-Pierced Skin", which has a border of leaves and red roses, with the title text in a decorative font taking up most of the space. The title is overlaid on a castle with a blue sky behind it. in the foreground is the back of a person with short hair in a plain shirt standing facing the castle. text beside this one reads "Nonbinary MC (ey/em pronouns)". text with arrows pointing to all three reads "Strong character arcs, Cozy domestic moments, Dose of angst"
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 31/08/2025
i got to see shirley jackson's houses in north bennington, vermont today!
a large greek-revival-style house surrounded by vegetation. two-story columns support a massive pediment.a large italianate-style house flanked by trees. it has a full-width porch with elaborate decorative woodwork.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 26/08/2025
i'm not sure how we got from "creator pages containing NSFW works are blocked in the UK" to "itch is mass-banning queer content in the UK". they're just not the same thing!
screenshot of bsky post by Anarchy Goose, ‪@anarchygoose.bsky.social‬, dated August 26, 2025

This is something that got lost a little in the wider Itch wildness but Itch has banned almost all queer content from the UK citing the OSA, even though that isn't what the OSA requires and almost certainly nobody asked them to.

They are a wildly incompetent company, regardless of wider issues.

quoted post by Ela Bambust, ‪@ela-bambust.bsky.social‬:

@itch.io is this something y'all did on your end or is this the UK government because if my *page* is hidden now I'd like to know
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 23/08/2025
My novella DIRT-STAINED HANDS, THORN-PIERCED SKIN is on sale through the 25th as part of the #NarratessIndieSale! Full synopsis and purchase links at tabithaoconnell.com/dshtps. Check out the 300+ other books currently on sale at indiebook.sale!
Graphic with a book cover and short text at the top. the book is "Dirt-Stained Hands, Thorn-Pierced Skin" by Tabitha O'Connell. It has a border of leaves and red roses, with the title text in a decorative font taking up most of the space. The title is overlaid on a castle with a blue sky behind it. in the foreground is the back of a person with short hair in a plain shirt standing facing the castle.

text beside it reads: A queer Beauty and the Beast retelling starring a snarky nonbinary farmer struggling to end a bad relationship and a shy, sweet man stuck in a magical castle. 99 cents.

below, a banner reads "Indie Book Sale. indiebook.sale. Fantasy, sci-fi-, and horror. August 23-25."
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 23/08/2025
The August 2025 #NarratessIndieSale is on! From now until the 25th, over 300 indie books are discounted from $1.99 to free, including my novella DIRT-STAINED HANDS, THORN-PIERCED SKIN (on sale for $0.99!). Check out all the participating books at indiebook.sale.
graphic with a banner over 24 book covers. banner text reads "Indie Book Sale. indiebook.sale. Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror. August 23-25"
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 23/08/2025
From now through the 25th, you can get my novella DIRT-STAINED HANDS, THORN-PIERCED SKIN as part of either of these two #NarratessIndieSale Itch bundles! Short stories & novellas bundle: itch.io/b/3243/narra... Fantasy bundle #3: itch.io/b/3240/narra...
A graphic with 25 book covers. Caption text reads: "Narratess Indie Book Sale August 2025. Short Stories & Novellas Bundle. itch.io”

books depicted are:
The Living Sword by Pemry Janes 
Tales of Lunis Aquaria by Tessa Hastjarjanto 
Killer Debt: An Anthology of Murder by Dianna Gunn 
Dame Ophis by Merlina Garance
Werecockroach by Polenth Blake 
Running with the Wolf by Bryony Rosehurst 
Journey Home by May Barros 
Water’s Edge by Ellie Lieberman
Og-Grim-Dog: The Three-Headed Ogre by Jamie Edmundson 
Grey Angel by Dani Finn 
Chai and Cat-tales by Lynn Strong
Unburnt by A.M. Weald
Of All the Stars by Kris Madigan 
Flooded Secrets by Claudie Arseneault 
The Selkie and the Minstrel by Elis Madsen 
Moral Laundry by Conrad Altmann
Dirt-Stained Hands, Thorn-Pierced Skin by Tabitha O’Connell
Cat/Mouse: An Allied Space novella by Eliza Mares 
The Hand That Feeds by Sass Everett 
Like a Bullet to the Head by Claude Hamesh 
Dirt You Shall Become by Karen Lykkebo 
Tales of Yamato by Odessa Silver 
Lantern by Burgundy Athena Pendragon
Dark Heart of Ilmoure by Cara N. Delaney 
Bad Grains by Susanne SchmidtA graphic with 24 book covers. Caption text reads: "Narratess Indie Book Sale, August 2025. Fantasy Bundle #3. itch.io”

books depicted are:
The Whisperer in White by Y. R. Liu
Higanbana by Jake Vanguard
Dame Ophis by Merlina Garance 
The Lion by Lee Burton
Grey Angel by Dani Finn
Children of the Dragon by Melissa Stone 
The Grand Duke’s Masseur by Rori Thornton
Ghosts of the Catabombs by Janna Ruth
Children by Bjørn Larssen
An Uncommon Curse by Devan Barlow
The Dragon Next Door by Vanessa Ricci-Thode
Flooded Secrets by Claudie Arseneault 
Carp in the Pond, Crane on the River by Ruth Miranda
Tales of Yamato by Odessa Silver 
Far Removed by C. B. Lansdell 
Blood by D.C. Hart
A Path of Endless Crossroads by M.C. Burnell 
Soultaming the Serpent by Tar Atore
Durga by Geetha Krishnan
Blind the Eyes: Enter the City of Nightmares (Threads of Dreams 1) by K.A. Wiggins
How Six Saved the Frogs by Blaine D. Arden
Dirt-Stained Hands, Thorn-Pierced Skin by Tabitha O’Connell 
Between Starfalls by S. Kaeth
When the Stars Alight by Camilla Andrew
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 23/08/2025
who wants to be the 100th backer *and* push the Plot Twist Cafe Kickstarter over $12k?? www.kickstarter.com/projects/bai...
screenshot of a webpage showing $11,954 pledged of $15,000 goal. 99 backers, 28 hours to go.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 18/08/2025
best novel origin story (from the 1971 introduction to Maurice by E. M. Forster; introduction by P. N. Furbank)
Then, in September 1913, he went on a visit to Edward Carpenter, the prophet of the simple life and high-minded homosexuality, and he experienced a revelation. He has described what took place in his own Terminal Note (see page 235): Carpenter's friend George Merrill touched him on the backside, and the sensation, as he put it, travelled
straight through the small of his back into his ideas. On the instant, an entire new novel shaped itself in his mind: it was to deal with homosexuality, would feature three main characters, and would have a happy ending.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 18/08/2025
medium.com/@hyenablood/...
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Obscenity censorship does not coalesce in a vacuum and I think it is journalistic malpractice to report on it as if a campaign’s superficial goals are the finish line. People should be fully informed on how these groups attempt to manipulate them with reasonable complaints while either neglecting to mention the scope of their own intentions or the beliefs and motivations of groups they associate with.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 17/08/2025
a great article!
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In addition to these concerns, the de-indexing has caused a lot of confusion and misinformation. Press and players cited Consume Me and Mouthwashing as examples of affected games, but Itch had actually de-indexed both games before receiving pressure from payment processors, for unrelated reasons. The mess has caused some developers to criticize Itch fiercely, claiming the storefront should have done more, both to protect developers and warn them about what was happening.

Lawhead, however, believes that Itch deserves some benefit of the doubt.

"They don't have the resources that a place like Steam does," Lawhead said. "They are about as indie as I am. It's not hard to knock something like that off its feet and make it impossible for it to get back up... The only way to fight this is to understand that we are all in this together, and that includes Itch.io too."
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
image reposted with alt text!
post from ‪mady castigan ‪@madycast.com‬

every time itch lies, a trans journalist thrives! I am going to keep using your replies to fundraise for more journalism! 

did you know you can also support us with a monthly membership at our website? this helps us have predictable income and stability!
transnews.network/upgrade.

the post quote posts itch.io saying:

That game still meets the criteria for deindexing, we never stated otherwise. In this case it's a game that accepts payments and has been tagged by the author as NSFW and has the addition of a tag suggesting sexual content, "eroge".
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
in contrast:
screenshot of a bluesky post by mady castigan @madycast.com from 8 hours ago.

isn't it super cool when a company that supposedly supports queer people instigates harassment on a trans journalist by latching on to a gamergate-style smear campaign against her and her colleagues?

I'm not going to engage with any of this. It's a complete waste of time. We stand by our reporting.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
👏
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"If you’ve opened up a few of these sites and grimaced at the mention of PayPal, Stripe, Mastercard, and Visa, then congrats! There’s no escaping the sweeping NSFW bans forever until we make payment processors and their banking partners back down from enforcing their puritan bullshit on us. There’s also no real replacement for itchio at this time that’s going to allow queer creators of all types of work to connect with their audiences in the same way they have in the recent past, or a place that’s going to allow so many creators to bundle up their works to fundraise for themselves or a charity. While itchio may not be perfect, it is a platform I believe is worth protecting, or at least not destroying if you actually care about the wellbeing of poor trans queer creators like us. We have got to fight for each other in all of this, or at least stop cannibalizing the folks trying to main any kind of transparency just because you’re more likely to have a conversation with them than some jackass on his sixth yacht."

the second-to-last sentence is highlighted.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
article has been updated to note Itch's response
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Update: Itch.io have responded to the report from Trans News Network on Bluesky, claiming the article is "full of misinformation". "I haven't had a chance to look up everything individually, but I do want to note that we have [an] existing set of indexing rules that can impact indexing," the storefront's account wrote in a separate reply. "There are circumstances where pages may get marked as requiring human review before being eligible for indexing. This is completely independent of the indexing eligibility change for adult works."
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
phew glad to see there is widespread support for calling out the BS. image reposted with alt text
screenshot of posts from mady castigan @madycast.com: 

This particular staffer has spent days lying that Itch isn't delisting non
NSFW games and defending Itch's decisions in a condescending tone to community members in their discord. while weaponizing their identity as a queer artist to try to stifle community dissent.

[screenshots from discord, text is small and hard to read]

mady goes on:
my personal stance: obviously don't harass this staffer, but I think it's
bad when higher income/less marginalized trans women weaponize their identities to justify the oppression of poorer trans and queer people and defend corporations, and worth calling out!

this is exactly why we criticize Sarah McBride, and equally goes
for all queer people or POC who weapons their identities to
protect corporate interests or fascists. you either stick with us
and fight, or take the side Of corporations over the hungry queer
artists being starved by their decisions.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
THIS is how misinformation happens. "my games don't show up in autocomplete" does not mean the games are deindexed. a journalist's assumption that it did mean that started this whole mess, and the journalist refuses to admit she was wrong.
post by mira @thefreeradical.org

Krispycat responded to me, I reached out to her for private comment. Go give her a follow, by the way, and support her games - she's caught up in the middle of this, so we may as well support an indie queer dev. 
@butterflylatte.bsky.social

two images are attachedscreenshot of DM between mira and butterlylatte

mira: Hi! I'm working on a response to Itch's claim that SFW games are 'actually' indexed. Are you able to confirm when you last saw your games were deindexed, when they were reindexed, and them still being invisible on autocomplete?

butterlylatte:

Yes, I'll do my best.
I checked to see if my own games were still indexed on July
23, when this whole shitstorm started. At the time, they were.
The Seventh Bride still showed up in autocomplete when I did
a search.
As of 7/28, it no longer appeared in auto complete. I checked
my other games and none of them appeared either.
So between those five days, it was deindexed, as was all my
other games when I did a search.continuation of butterflylatte's message from the prior image:

I just did a search for The Seventh Bride and Like Seafoam. Neither appear in autocomplete.

Like Seafoam appears in the search results proper as of today, 8/13. The Seventh Bride does not.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
working for itch does not make one a "traitorqueer", oh my god 😭
Mira ‪@thefreeradical.org‬

anytime a minority figure whose doing a harmful action / is complicit in some sort of oppressive bs is criticized, you'll see people come in troves arguing that their minority status means that you cant criticize them, actually, and are bad for doing so. 

ignore them - traitorqueers arent our pals

people did this for mcbride, and now they're doing it for some itch transfem staffer that my colleague criticized. they've done it in the past for abusers in DSA, people have done it for ppl i have personal beef with, people have done it in orgs like PSL to cover up abuse, etc etc etc
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
if someone can point me to this so-called hate mob, please do! i'd love to connect with others who are dedicated to calling out misinfo
post by mady castigan ‪@madycast.com‬

controversial opinion but spending hours ginning up a massive hate mob by lying about a transfem of color journalist to all your followers in order to defend a corporation that is actively destroying the lives of dozens of poor trans people actually doesn't make you woke
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
people correcting her misinformation = "the dogpile mob"
post from mira @thefreeradical.org: fully can vouch for this, btw. mady's an amazing person and friend whose used her own personal income to help keep myself and many other queer journos off the streets. she rocks, and everyone attacking her for daring to criticize another transfem is a POS

mady castigan @madycast.com replies:

thanks Mira 💖

I guess it was inevitable I would get the attention of the dogpile mob out here for daring to call out all people whose actions harm trans people, even if they are trans themselves.

ironically, they're engaging in exactly the act they think I'm engaging in (dogpiling a trans woman of color for doing nothing wrong)

If I'm ever publicly defending any entity who hurts trans people as their representative, you all have full permission to call me out and compare me to McBride.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
oop castigan blocked me. the post i originally quoted was this. bsky.app/profile/madycast.com/post/3lwc73qewys2h
screenshot of bluesky post from mady castigan (@madycast.com), posted 1 day ago. text reads:

Here's a screenshot of someone on your staff lying to the community that LGBT games weren't impacted, while you were blanket deindexing yuri games (which are lesbian, not NSFW).

As a journalist, I have a responsibility to correct misinformation from corporations. Stop lying to your community!

the screenshot within the post is a discord message from lyn-marie/charlene from 7/24/2025 that says: LGBT games are not deindexed. a couple games got deindexed due to their identifying tags (such as "adult") but they are not an inherent part of the temporary deindexing of nsfw content.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 15/08/2025
and gotta add "greetings from Rochester"!
same as others in thread
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/08/2025
coming back to add another international one i just found
old postcard reading "Greetings from Malta". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/08/2025
these were all grabbed from a quick google search, and as such i am letting my usual rigorous standard for citation of sources lapse. but the last one i'll share is from the collection of Troy's Hart Cluett Museum, and it is going to haunt my dreams.
old postcard reading "Greetings from Meriden, Conn". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Greetings from Troy, NY". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes. the woman has her hands clasped near her face and is staring intently at the camera.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/08/2025
...especially this one.
old postcard reading "Greetings from Concord, NC". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Greetings from Galesburg, IL". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Greetings from El Reno, Okla". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Greetings from New Orleans, La". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/08/2025
but most of the ones i'm seeing online are from the US. i've noticed models/templates reoccurring...
old postcard reading "Souvenir of Hot Springs, Ark". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Souvenir of New Orleans, LA". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Souvenir of the south. Greetings from New Orleans, LA". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Greetings from Spring City, PA". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/08/2025
not just US, they're international! and not just place-based either.
old postcard reading "Lembranca Do Rio de Janeiro". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Souvenir Presidentiel". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of two men and two city scenes.
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Tabitha 🐀 @tabithawrites.itch.io · 14/08/2025
today i discovered butterfly women postcards. a thread.
old postcard reading "Greetings from Elmira, NY". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Greetings from Black River, NY". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Greetings from Bridgeton, NJ". image is an illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.old postcard reading "Souvenir of Memphis, Tenn". image is a composite photo/illustration of a woman with giant butterfly wings. on the wings are photos of various buildings/scenes.
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