iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

I fully get that. Lesser voiced are the people who do care and that think you are amazing. I don’t know you or anything about you, yet I think you are pretty cool! Strangers like you, people who don’t, don’t matter!

010

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 14/05/2026

I mean, thank goodness! That is my job!

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

This took me a sec, cause I live in Las Vegas! lol.

030

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

True, but maybe more people would be happier if there were more of a focus on sex? Just an idea. Being an adult is full of things that aren’t fun, we have one thing though!

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

Thank you! I grew it myself LMAO 🤣

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

Ok. That is really cute!

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 17/02/2026

What podcast are you listing to? I have been wanting to do the same.

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 12/02/2026

Little thong by the pool action!

0181

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

Well now I wanna be friends! LMAO!

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

Regardless, I enjoy you content and all you do. Quietly, mostly, (cause I am dealing with my own situation lol) but I like what you do. I hope knowing that you are not alone helps!

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

LOL. In my world NOTHING is foolproof at all. Each day is a new day and new attempts. To me, the secret sauce has been grace. Didn’t do shit today? Whelp, while that isn’t something we should do EVERYDAY it’s ok for today (OMG THAT IS HARD) but giving myself permission helps.

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

Love you boo! Cause no one else loves you (or is as harsh with you) as you are with yourself!

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

It can be hard to find the balance especially with ourselves. We are our own harshest critics. I have found that it is beneficial to me to be flexible and understanding. When I find myself being difficult I remind myself that this is a plan I made and no one but me will know if I don’t succeed

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

I think knowing it isn’t a demand chain but rather a task list I want to get done. Free yourself from the demands and give yourself the opportunity to do your best. Do not beat yourself up. Just do what you can. I have struggled with that for years so I get it.

100

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

I fully get that. I think having the grace to say to yourself “I did my best” but also actually trying your best is, at least for me, enough. There are for sure days that I feel like I could have tried harder but I did all I could so yay!

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 02/02/2026

Ya know what I find helps me, is making a list of things I want to get accomplished, but having grace with myself for anything I don’t do. I just roll the list into the next day. Also, I have to constantly remind myself that I am the not one who knows about half these things.

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 15/01/2026

You have such cute humps!

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 08/01/2026

Good for you AND the bed!

010

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 08/01/2026

I am sorry you are feeling ill! That’s not what any of us want for you but DAMN you look good!

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 08/01/2026

Same! Would have stayed in bed with you though.

010

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

So, it is Mono Monday and I was more busy than I expected. I wanted to take a cute, staged photo. Instead I took a random pic between appointments. BUT it is black and white so… YAY? lol.

0250

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 31/12/2025

So, I have been thinking about what to post as my last pic from 2025. I think this one from my first but very much not my last visit to Puerto Vallarta is correct. Happy New Year everyone as 2025 comes to a close let’s hope for a wonderful 2026!

Man sits by a pool at night in a thong at night in Mexico.

0290

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 30/12/2025

I say no. Who knows what they have going on in their lives? You are taking your time to say something. That to me says more than a reply. Don’t let your self worth hit the ground over something like that.

000

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 21/12/2025

The #1 movie when you were 10 years old is how your 2026 is gonna go. Uh oh! media0.giphy.com/avatars/home...

media0.giphy.com

010

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 15/12/2025

Good for her for exploring what could happen!

010

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 15/12/2025

Aww bummer! Well she maybe got an idea?

010

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 15/12/2025

That is a statement that invites further questions. Like, alone? Was she encouraged and if so by whom? Did she like them?

110

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

You are just so pretty!

010

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 25/11/2025

Listen, I have always been a believer that size should be determined by the one receiving. LMAO.

020

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 25/11/2025

And we salute you for doing it! The dedication, the resolve. I for one am INSPIRED!

030

T-Ray @t-ray.bsky.social · 17/11/2025

Huh, well! At least there is a memory? LMAO.

010