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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

share.google/wijAaj7P3Yje... When alleged rape is met with essays instead of accountability, we have a problem. This Cornell case is a painful reminder of how institutions can fail survivors while protecting their own reputation. Sexual violence deserves consequences, not cover-ups.

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Cornell Student Alleges Frat Members Gang-Raped Her, Only 2 Were Expelled While Others Had to Write Essays: Lawsuit

The alleged rapes occurred in October 2024.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 04/07/2026

Financial abuse is about control, not money and it can happen to anyone. It tends to be overlooked especially in scenarios where stay at home mother’s may rely on their partner to manage finances. If these signs sound familiar, you could be at risk. #financialabuse #domesticviolenceawareness

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 11/05/2026

To every mother who survived what tried to destroy her: your love was stronger than the fear, your courage louder than the silence, and your resilience became a safe place for your children to grow. Happy Mother’s Day to the survivors, the protectors, and the fighters. 🌹🌸💐🌷🌺

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

Shame is a secondary emotion that complicates the grieving process. Overcoming shame & leaving it w/ the abuser, where it justly belongs is the hardest step in healing. Taking back that power. The Epstein victims endured sheer evil & it’s why this many years later many aren’t ready to speak openly.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 28/12/2025

I came across a post today of a woman commenting on a viral post of another woman who’s not come to the realization yet that she’s in a toxic relationship. She commented that the victim must be into this kind of behavior as a kink, because why would she stay? Let me be clear, this is victim blaming.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 29/11/2025

www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8UfaMxs/ There is an awakening that is taking place. More and more people are becoming aware that the behaviors exhibited by our parents in our youth was in fact abuse, not just a stern hand. We owe it to ourselves to break the cycle and be healthier for our kids.

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#oprahinterview#eggshellparent #toxicparent #emotionalabusesurvivor #estrangedparents

TikTok video by dr kim🦋psychologist

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

Trump’s vicious words to the woman reporter today IS abuse. It is prime Narc speak. This caustic example can be hard to explain to the untrained ear. Because it’s vile w/o the use of cursing which many associate as being the worst way to put someone down. But this punch down hits hard at the psyche.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 19/10/2025

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. DV is a pattern of abusive behaviors, including physical, sexual, & psychological attacks as well as economic coercion. Abusers use a range of tactics to frighten, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, and often injure & sometimes kill a partner.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 02/10/2025

www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8ARDsCq/ I posted earlier this year that given the current political climate, it will be as important as ever to find time to do things that bring you joy. This is another reminder as we are all feeling the heaviness right now.

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Feeling discouraged? Here is my counterintuitive advice. #melrobbins #dailyinspiration #mindsetmotivation #negativethinking #overwhelm #positivechanges #findyourhappy #spotlighteffect

TikTok video by Mel Robbins

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8B1xNTX/ This recent incident is interesting. Women can abuse men. However, she didn’t perceive shoving her bf to be abuse. This misconception is more commonly found on the victim side until a fist is landed. This may also have been a reactive abuse scenario. Best choice. Leave.

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#ShaCarriRichardson repeatedly called #ChristianColeman "a coward" during her arrest last month, new police video shows. Full story at the 🔗in bio!

TikTok video by TMZ

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

www.tiktok.com/t/ZP86bQhkw/ “Why didn’t you just leave?” is victim blaming. It’s easy for those on the outside to say what they would’ve done. However, abuse is never just physical. It’s really the emotional & psychological duress that keeps a person mentally trapped in these escalating situations.

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#fyp

TikTok video by Toure YT: ToureTube

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 27/04/2025

Abusers employ Flying Monkeys to do their bidding, so they can wash their hands of accountability. Reporting back to them your every move, thoughts and feelings, under the guise they are a shoulder to cry on. They blindly support and enable your abuser for their own gain.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 01/04/2025

www.tiktok.com/t/ZP82EAJHn/ Subtle example of Raging. An abuse tactic that encompasses verbal assaults at close range, hitting walls/breaking items, to elicit fear. Can include restraining& pushing. This behavior is often overlooked by victims but DOES escalate.Call the police. File the report.

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#JackDougherty's girlfriend called the cops on him after he allegedly threatened her! 😱

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 24/03/2025

Are you stuck in the Cycle of Abuse?Signs may seem obvious 4 some, but the truth is many never make the connection. I was belittled, rage baited, mocked &on occasion restrained, but because I never ended up in the ER, I didn’t believe I was being abused. Broken bones &bruises are not the only form.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 16/03/2025

Empowered women, Empower women. Always be on the lookout for the opportunity to help straighten another woman’s crown. 👑

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 08/03/2025

International Women’s Day slogan for 2025. “Empower, Inspire, Elevate”, is a call to action. It urges us to uplift the women around us, ensuring they have equal opportunities to thrive & succeed. Empowering women means giving them the tools, education,& confidence to take charge of their own lives.🩷

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 05/03/2025

The AMBUSH of Zelensky in the Oval Office was the 1st time in years my CPTSD from Narc abuse was triggered. If ever there was an example that perfectly encapsulates what a narc victim endures regularly, it was that. An absolute psychological assault. Isolation, belittling, humiliation,rage baiting.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 12/02/2025

I just finished watching Alice, Darling, staring Anna Kendrick. This movie perfectly captures the subtle tactics found in a psychologically & emotionally abusive relationship. The fear, shame, & dismantling of a victim. Tough watch, but a necessary one. #narcissism #toxic #annakendrick #abuse

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 04/02/2025

As a DA advocate, I want to be clear THIS is the face of abuse. Narcissistic psychological & emotional abuse. Manipulation, alienation, control, & shaming are all tactics.The perfect crime, because it leaves no outward visible scars. While an extreme example, THIS IS what the average victim endures.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 28/01/2025

Conspiracy or Coincidence? Was Elonia’s phrasing itself another tell? If you assign numerical value to each first letter in My Heart Goes Out To You, it totals 88. M=13/H=8/G=7/O=15/T=20/Y=25 88 is the numerical code for Heil Hitler.Screenshot Anti Defamation League’s website.So coincidence??

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

Someone shared this video w/ regards to our political climate, but I want to share it because the tactics he speaks about are commonly found in domestic abuse relationships, and why I advocate so strongly for the extreme dangers these tactics inflict on victims. youtu.be/b3AN2wY4qAM

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Once You Know This, Every PSYOP Becomes Obvious

YouTube video by Chase Hughes

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

With 🤡 firmly in office, the gaslighting will be coming at U 2x as much.Unlike a romantic relationship w/ a Narcissist, in which U would ideally leave &block, we won’t get that option.Therefore, in order 2 protect UR peace, limit UR engagement w/ negativity.Take time to do things that bring you joy.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 17/01/2025

One of the most common misconceptions about domestic violence is that it is only physical in form. Wrong. Emotional & psychological abuse are equally as dangerous. Deteriorating your self image &worth, leaving you a shell of your former self. Long term exposure can rewire your brain causing C-PTSD.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 15/01/2025

As I read through social media comments related to Jack Smith’s released report, the MAGA men continue to use the diss, “Trump is your daddy”, which is SO weird. I had a discussion w/ChatGPT, why it believes “heterosexual” males would refer to another unrelated heterosexual male as such.

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FromSurvivorToThriver @survivortothriver.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

👏🏼 Shout out to Kathryn Barger for calling out the CEO of Go Fund Me for excessive fee collecting at a time when you have an unprecedented natural disaster. Corporate America shouldn’t have to be plead upon to help Americans in the most desperate of circumstances.🛑 the greed! #lacounty #lafires

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