Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 18h“Poetry generated by suffering — perhaps, more precisely, poetry which is compelled to explore suffering as its principal subject — tends to produce moments of high recklessness or hallucination, a linguistic abandon that endows ecstasy with concrete form.” — Louise Glück, Proofs and Theories 082
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 23h“You have to be willing to push yourself further, to travel with the text as far as it can take you. This is not for the sake of the author, who is merely offering you a secret, but for your own sake.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/a-call...suliqyre.com430. A Call To ActionMany of the texts you encounter seem to do nothing other than make an argument for a particular conclusion. The conclusion is supposed to follow from the premises according to the usual rules of logic... 041
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 29/09/2026“In the violence of overcoming, in the disorder of my laughter and my sobbing, in the excess of raptures that shatter me, I seize on the similarity between a horror and a voluptuousness that goes beyond me, between an ultimate pain and an unbearable joy!” — Georges Bataille, The Tears of Eros 0103
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 28/09/2026“Many needs can be met only through specific kinds of action, in particular those actions that are loving, creative, or otherwise purposeful.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/immate...suliqyre.com429. Immaterial NeedsWhen I feel an unmet need, my first impulse is to look for a material solution. I’m lacking something, so I reason there must be some object or experience that could fill the void. And indeed, many pr... 031
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 28/09/2026“Fantasy is true, of course. It isn’t factual, but it is true. Children know that. Adults know it, too, and that is precisely why many of them are afraid of fantasy. (1/2) 152
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 26/09/2026“She has no name for her feeling and she cannot invent one. She just feels bad. It's like a hole has opened up inside her and she can't stop looking at it.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/namele...suliqyre.com428. Nameless SufferingShe knew this was going to happen. She knew that sharing her art would come with an emotional cost. She knew that her feelings would be mostly negative, regardless of the reception her work received. ... 031
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 26/09/2026“The very definition of the real becomes: that of which it is possible to give an equivalent reproduction…. At the limit of this process of reproductibility, the real is not only what can be reproduced, but that which is always already reproduced: the hyperreal.” — Jean Baudrillard, Simulations 084
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 25/09/2026“Meditation is not a tool for developing control over mental processes, but one for opening and freeing attention. Through regular practice, the skill of liberating attention can be learned and employed throughout life.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/libera...suliqyre.com427. Liberating AttentionTo live with joy, a person’s attention needs to be open and free. When it is open and free, it becomes possible to see need and how it must be addressed, and it is by meeting need that joy is created.... 032
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 24/09/2026“I prefer to think of myself as being inside a tangled knot; tangled knots fascinate me. It’s necessary to recount the tangle of existence, as it concerns both individual lives and the life of generations. Seeking to unravel things is useful, but literature is made out of tangles.” — Elena Ferrante 152
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 24/09/2026“Your goal verges on the impossible. You likely cannot save the world all by yourself. But it is the audacity to act for the good of all despite this reality that demonstrates your compassion.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/saving...suliqyre.com426. Saving The WorldIf you suddenly started telling everyone that your goal was to save the world, they might look at you strangely. Saving the world is not something one ordinarily does. It is reserved in our history fo... 052
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 23/09/2026“To make biological survival possible, Mind at Large has to be funneled through the reducing valve of the brain and nervous system. What comes out at the other end is a measly trickle of the kind of consciousness which will help us to stay alive on ... this particular planet.” — Aldous Huxley 141
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 23/09/2026“Saving the world is not something one ordinarily does. It is reserved in our history for heroes and in our mythology for gods, for those who act in extraordinary circumstances or with extraordinary power.” Read more: suliqyre.substack.com/p/saving-the...suliqyre.substack.com“Saving The World”, etc. (426-430)It is the audacity to act for the good of all despite your own limitations that demonstrates your compassion. 132
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 23/09/2026“That’s the way it is, a slight sense of failure that keeps growing stronger and the body gets used to it. You can’t escape the void, just as you can’t help crossing the streets if you live in a city, with the added annoyance that sometimes the street is endlessly wide...” — Roberto Bolaño, Antwerp 153
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 22/09/2026“I know that everything uncertain is also unbounded, which causes me to jump directly to the worst case scenario: the problem is actually huge — so big that I will never be able to solve it.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/catast...suliqyre.com425. Catastrophic ThinkingA problem can seem bigger than it actually is. Engulfed in uncertainty, I can’t see where it begins or ends, so my imagination transforms it into a monster. I know that everything uncertain is also un... 061
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 22/09/2026“I have always felt that the art of telling a story consists in so stimulating the listener’s imagination that he drowns himself in his own reveries long before the end.” — Henry Miller, The Colossus of Maroussi 153
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 21/09/2026“Of course, the point is not to literally cause the planet to explode. The point is to clear the ground of all that is stagnant and tired and utterly lifeless. The point is not actually destruction, but rejuvenation, a blossoming of new life.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/a-beau...suliqyre.com424. A Beautiful BombNothing less than a world-destroyer will do. You’ve set this incredible standard for yourself because you know you’ll never succeed without it. You’ll be distracted into thinking about things that are... 041
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 19/09/2026“All this reasoning is simple to come up with. Sliding from one thought to the next, carefully constructing a convincing justification, is just so easy to do. But it's also something I've constructed. And if it's constructed is it real?” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/evasiv...suliqyre.com423. Evasive ConstructionsThere is something that I know I must do. I have no doubt about its necessity. Not doing it almost guarantees harm for me and possibly for others, which means it must be done. This is perfectly clear.... 031
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 19/09/2026“An admirable idea: the world imagined as an essentially futile process, like a sideways, lost glimpse of ancient celestial episodes. Creation as a chance act.” — Jorge Luis Borges, “A Defense of Basilides the False” 171
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 18/09/2026“Because you care deeply, you have developed strong attachments to beliefs about how the world should be. You know that it can and should be more just, more fair, and more compassionate.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/one-si...suliqyre.com422. One-Sided AwarenessYou’re paying attention to the world around you. You know what’s going on and you can see all of the problems, near and far, present and approaching. You know there is suffering everywhere. You can se... 042
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 17/09/2026“If excessive stress on content provokes the arrogance of interpretation, more extended and more thorough descriptions of form would silence. … The best criticism, and it is uncommon, is of this sort that dissolves considerations of content into those of form.” — Susan Sontag 142
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 17/09/2026“There is an undeniable meaning in compassionate actions, a meaning that we witness directly not just through the growth of life or its endless beauty, but through the inescapable joy we feel in taking them.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/meanin...suliqyre.com421. Meaning In LifeHuman beings need meaning. We not only perceive the world around us, we also perceive value: we reflect on our perceptions and judge certain things to be better for us than others. Everything that car... 042
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 16/09/2026“What I enjoy in a narrative is not directly its content or even its structure, but rather the abrasions I impose upon the fine surface: I read on, I skip, I look up, I dip in again.” — Roland Barthes, The Pleasure of the Text 042
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 16/09/2026“There is a kind of meaning available to us that persists regardless of our judgments. It is the meaning created through the actions we take to meet the needs of living beings, ourselves included.” Read more: suliqyre.substack.com/p/meaning-in...suliqyre.substack.com“Meaning In Life”, etc. (421-425)We try to meet our need for meaning by creating it wherever we can, but sometimes we also see through our own creations. 061
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 16/09/2026“I know nothing. There is nothing that I know. But the heart senses certain things. Let your heart speak, question faces, do not listen to tongues.” — Umberto Eco, The Name of the Rose 082
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 15/09/2026“All language is metaphorical, an abstract relation formed between memory and imagination. A collection of these abstractions can be thought of as a kind of theory. When we write about an experience, we are giving our theory of that experience.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/pointi...suliqyre.com420. Pointing To RealityReading a text that describes the beauty of a summer day, we automatically begin to imagine it. The warm breeze, the sound of a fountain running, the air rich with the scent of growth, the blinding su... 092
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 15/09/2026“I, who manufacture the future like a diligent spider. And the best of me is when I know nothing and manufacture whatever.” — Clarice Lispector, Água Viva 043
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 14/09/2026“I want to be able to explain my experience, because explaining it means I can confine it to one part of my reality, a part that can never fully encompass me. And that means I won't have to think about it any more.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/bad-ex...suliqyre.com419. Bad ExperiencesAn experience occurred. It happened. I also acknowledge that it happened to me, but I refuse to think about it in that way. Doing so would make it too intimate, and I don’t want that because the exper... 062
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 14/09/2026“What I want is that you love me even unto death. For my part, it is in death I love you at this very instant. But I don’t want your love unless you know I am repulsive, and love me even as you know it.” — Georges Bataille, My Mother, Madame Edwarda, The Dead Man 053
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 12/09/2026“When he is most honest with himself, he knows he really is both. Being both means not only accepting his role in the past world but accepting and expressing his present self as well.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/this-a...suliqyre.com418. This And ThatWhen he hears that name it always takes a moment for its meaning to register. That it refers to him is not immediately apparent. The name is one he no longer uses for himself. Still, there are many ot... 061
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 12/09/2026“Well-formed language is a subset of a more fundamental notion of language in general. … A model of language that sees (instead) the well-formed as fundamental and ill-formed as an excess and theoretically disposable supplement is hamstrung from the start.” — Samuel R. Delany 151
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 11/09/2026“When our actions seem to reduce suffering and create joy, we might feel confident that they are compassionate. But it still remains possible that we would be capable of actions even more compassionate if our awareness were broader than it is now.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/an-end...suliqyre.com417. An Endless ProjectThe range of our awareness is always unknown. We might feel we are fully aware of a particular experience only to later realize that there is more to it than we thought. We might feel that our actions... 022
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 11/09/2026“Writing exists (for me) at the intersection of three precarious, uncertain elements: language, the world, the self. The first is never wholly mine; the second I can only ever know in a partial sense; the third is a malleable and improvised response to the previous two.” — Zadie Smith, Feel Free 041
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 10/09/2026“The challenge is to thrive while still meeting your responsibilities. To press forward in new ways while also accepting the old. To find freedom within the life you've already built for yourself.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/the-on...suliqyre.com416. The Only One You HaveYou just want to be free. Free to create the life you want for yourself. Free to build the world you want to have with others. Free to have new experiences that go beyond what you’ve already done. But... 051
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 09/09/2026“Of the two powers, the two categories that take possession of us when we enter the world, space is by far the less mysterious…. Space is, after all, solid, monolithic…. Time, on the other hand, is a hostile element, truly treacherous, I would say even against human nature.” — Stanisław Lem 151
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 09/09/2026“You know with every ounce of your being that there is more to life than this, that your current position is only one step along the way. And not just for yourself, but for humanity as a whole, too.” Read more: suliqyre.substack.com/p/the-only-o...suliqyre.substack.com“The Only One You Have”, etc. (416-420)The challenge is to find freedom within the life you've already built for yourself. 082
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 08/09/2026“There is one quality that characterizes all of us who deal with the sciences of the earth and its life — we are never bored. We can’t be. There is always something new to be investigated. Every mystery solved brings us to the threshold of a greater one…” — Rachel Carson, Lost Woods 065
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 08/09/2026“Criticism cannot undermine an artwork for the same reason that it is incapable of undermining a person. Both are uniquely what they are, and they add to the tapestry of creation.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/more-t...suliqyre.com415. More To Be CreatedWhat does it mean to say that an artwork contains a mistake? Putting aside the obvious case where the artist declares some part to be a mistake, is it even possible for an artwork to be wrong? When we... 041
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 08/09/2026“Rereading is here suggested at the outset, for it alone saves the text from repetition (those who fail to reread are obliged to read the same story everywhere), multiplies it in its variety and its plurality: (1/2) 141
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 07/09/2026“With my attention so heavily restricted, I can't get an accurate picture of things, which means it's easy for me to fall into delusion. I start to believe that we have agreed that our relationship will go in a certain way, but we have not.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/delusi...suliqyre.com414. Delusional RelationshipsFirmly attached to a specific desire, my ability to see reality is occluded. My attention cannot reach what is happening in and around me, because I’m seeing everything through the lens of my desire a... 041
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 07/09/2026“Suffering modifies the image of time. The eruption of suffering cancels out linear time, breaks it, makes it into whirling squiggles. … Strong feelings are like that: they explode chronology. An emotion is a somersault, a tumble, a dizzying pirouette.” — Elena Ferrante, Frantumaglia 054
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 05/09/2026“She had mastered the art of being competent and functional, and she could turn it on with the flick of a switch. When she went into that mode, she became a machine. She could do anything she had to do.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/gettin...suliqyre.com413. Getting AheadIt’s just a phase she’s going through. That’s what they say about her. They need an explanation for her behaviour. They want to know why she has abandoned her former pursuits. They can’t seem to accep... 011
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 04/09/2026“All words, in every language, are metaphors.” — Marshall McLuhan, Laws of Media: The New Science, with Eric McLuhan 082
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 04/09/2026“Our systems encourage attachment to things like status, wealth, and other forms of power, and in doing so they produce incredible suffering not just for those who are deprived of these things but also for those who most possess them.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/collec...suliqyre.com412. Collective LiberationWhen we act from compassion, we do what is needed to make our own lives and the lives of the people around us better. By meeting the needs of ourselves and others, we eliminate suffering and we create... 031
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 04/09/2026“To be human we need to experience the end of the world. We need to lose the world, to lose a world, and to discover that there is more than one world and that the world isn’t what we think it is. Without that, we know nothing about the mortality and immortality that we carry.” — Hélène Cixous 151
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 03/09/2026“The problem of living more joyfully is not a complicated one. All that is required is for us to allow our attention to be both open to new experiences and free to explore them fully.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/theore...suliqyre.com411. Theoretical BurdensWe notice a pattern in some area of our experience, so we give that pattern a name. Then we discover similar patterns that relate to the first pattern and we name those too. Soon we have a whole theor... 051
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 02/09/2026“To hear correctly is an art. To see things as they are is also an art. … In learning to look at, to listen to all the content of that consciousness, in the observation of that consciousness, is action.” — Jiddu Krishnamurti, Total Freedom 052
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 02/09/2026“Enormous clarity can be gained simply by stripping away the complications of theory and terminology, and looking at life as it is actually felt and lived.” Read more: suliqyre.substack.com/p/theoretica...suliqyre.substack.com“Theoretical Burdens”, etc. (411-415)When we elevate our theoretical understanding above other kinds of understanding, we tend to make life far more complicated than it really is. 061
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 02/09/2026“I’m scared of the moments in which I don’t use thought and that’s a momentary state that is difficult to reach, and which, entirely secret, no longer uses the words with which thoughts are produced. (1/2) 121
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 01/09/2026“As I look more carefully at the particular forms of suffering I experience, I also start to see how these forms depend on my attachments. This is frequently a distressing process, because it means coming to terms with the broad reach of suffering.” Read more: suliqyre.com/posts/the-sc...suliqyre.com410. The Scope Of SufferingAs my awareness of self and world expands and deepens, I begin to better understand the sources and scope of my suffering. I gradually become more aware of the simple fact that much of my ordinary exp... 041
Suli Qyre @suliqyre.com · 01/09/2026“One thing must be understood: I have said nothing extraordinary or even surprising. What is extraordinary begins at the moment I stop. But I am no longer able to speak of it.” — Maurice Blanchot, Death Sentence 041