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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

The Kink Bundle is back! 🎉 This is my 5th year participating, and this year I contributed my favorite resource yet: The Submissive’s Toolbox. 37 BDSM, kink & D/s resources. $99. Sept. 17–23 only. Come see what makes your kinky brain go “OOOH.” 😈 subgui.de/kinkbundle #kinkbundle

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 01/05/2026

A lot of submissives think they need to just try harder. But often what’s missing isn’t effort — it’s skills. I made a free training on five essential tools that help build healthier submission.https://youtu.be/q_QhHNs67No

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 23/03/2026

What feedback (explicit or implied) did I receive from my Dominant today, and how did it make me feel? You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. subgui.de/365days

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 23/03/2026

The Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit begins today. 20 educators. 4 days. Fully virtual. Each presentation is available for 24 hours once released. You can still register: subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.c…

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 23/03/2026

Support what you love—and get something back. 💗 Join our Patreon and get: 📚 Free BDSM book each month (select tiers) 🧰 Tools for your submission 💬 A community that gets it Start here: patreon.com/subguide #subguide #patreonperks #submissionjourney #bdsmeducation

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 22/03/2026

I’ve seen a lot of kink shops come and go. Stockroom is one of the ones that stuck — solid gear, wide selection, and a long history in the BDSM community. If you’re shopping anyway, this is a link I trust: 🔗 www.stockroom.com/?acc=6ea9ab1baa0e… #affiliate #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 21/03/2026

#KinkTip: Don’t compromise or bend your boundaries to please your Dominant, sooner or later, it will cause more harm than good. #subguide From tiiaelina on Instagram!

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 21/03/2026

“That which yields is not always weak.” - Kushiel’s Dart by Jacqueline Carey

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 20/03/2026

#SubGuideTeaches - Growth in submission is rarely linear. Plateaus, pauses, and recalibration are normal parts of a long-term journey.

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 20/03/2026

Ready to take your submissive journey to the next level? Join Submissive Guide on Patreon for $10/month and get: ✨ Self-paced mini-classes 📖 Early access to new content 💬 Exclusive discussions & downloads 💗 patreon.com/subguide #subguide #submissionjourney #bdsmeducation

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 19/03/2026

Behind the Blush: Humiliation Confessions: Volume 1 by Princess Kali A first-of-its-kind anthology of first-person reflections on erotic humiliation — a curated “best-of” drawn from more than 800 quotes. amzn.to/3ENMCIz #amazon #subguide #affiliate

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 19/03/2026

Most D/s conflict isn’t about obedience. It’s misalignment. One partner expects initiative. The other waits for direction. I’ll be unpacking where this confusion begins at the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit. March 23–26. subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.c…

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 19/03/2026

#KinkTip - Aftercare isn’t just physical; talk about the scene later. Sharing what you loved (and what you learned) helps you relive the experience and deepen the connection for next time. #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 19/03/2026

Want a chance for your BDSM or submissive question to be answered in an Ask SubGuide column? Ask in the comments, send me a message, or leave it anonymously here - forms.gle/woycNkR3YvNX3wBH8 #subguide #ama

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 18/03/2026

#SubGuideTeaches - Submission doesn’t mean silencing your instincts. It means learning when to listen to them and when to bring them into conversation.

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 17/03/2026

#KinkTip - Dominants are human. They have emotions, insecurities, and needs just like anyone else. Supporting their humanity strengthens your dynamic. #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 17/03/2026

#SubAffirmation – My dynamic is unique, and it doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s. If this is your affirmation today, drop a 💛 in the replies. #subguide Explore more at submissiveguide.com

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 17/03/2026

Have you experienced sub frenzy? What was it like for you? You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. subgui.de/365days

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

#SubAffirmation – My obedience is a choice I offer freely. If this is your affirmation today, drop a 💛 in the replies. #subguide Deepen your practice: 365daysofsubmission.com

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

Looking for a deeper way to learn about submission? Join our Patreon for early access to new content, monthly perks, exclusive PDFs, and private community spaces. Support your growth—get the tools you deserve. 💗 patreon.com/subguide #subguide #bdsmeducation #submissivegrowth

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

The essential guide to the creative, erotic art of sexual role-play. Fantasy Made Flesh helps readers use imagination in a sensual context and gives permission to become the creatures of their dreams. amzn.to/2lfiBwr #affiliate #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

#KinkTip - Butt play safety rule #1: use toys with a flared base. Anything without one can disappear quickly - and that’s an ER trip no one wants to make. #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

#SubGuideTeaches - A healthy dynamic leaves room for questions, uncertainty, and learning. If curiosity isn’t welcome, that’s worth paying attention to.

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive I'm going to guide you to the answers, but you'll still have to do your own work as far as finding the answers that will work for you. bit.ly/SubExpectations

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

#SubAffirmation – I am enough, every step of the way. If this one speaks to you, type “I claim this” below. #subguide Become a Student: patreon.com/subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Did you know Submissive Guide runs on Patreon? We crowd-fund our BDSM education projects so you get quality tools, classes, and support—all with your help. ✨ Support = access, downloads & more. Join us: patreon.com/subguide #subguide #patreoncommunity #bdsmeducation

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

#KinkTip - Strength isn’t the same as dominance. Submissives can be powerful, grounded, and resilient; devotion and softness are not weaknesses. #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

#SubGuideTeaches - You are allowed to have needs in submission. Naming them doesn’t weaken your surrender, it gives it a safer place to land.

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

There is no single “correct” way to be submissive. Misalignment in D/s often comes from misunderstanding wiring — not lack of commitment. I’ll be speaking on Types of Submission at the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit. March 23–26 | Free | Virtual subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.c…

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

Why are we on Patreon? Because creating the BDSM education you love takes more than passion—it takes time, tools, and support. If our work matters to you, help keep it going. 💗 Join the community: patreon.com/subguide #subguide #bdsmeducation #supportcreators

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

New post! Creating a Personal Submissive Protocol That Fits Your Life submissiveguide.com/articles/skills…

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 11/03/2026

#SubGuideTeaches - Feeling nervous doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It often means you’re stretching, learning, and paying attention.

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Submissive Self-Help & Training Books (Amazon List) A curated, growing list of books focused on communication, skills, mindset, and healthy submission. Know a title that belongs here? I’m always open to recommendations. amzn.to/45611y7 #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

#KinkTip - Erotic pain and harmful pain are not the same. One is chosen, intentional, and controlled; the other is your body saying “stop.” Learning the difference keeps play safe and satisfying. #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

#SubGuideTeaches - Labels can be useful tools, but they’re not contracts you’re trapped inside. It’s okay if the words that fit you change over time.

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

It’s time for our monthly watch party! Each month, we’ll watch YouTube videos by BDSM educators and discuss the topics together. Friday, March 13, 2026 at 7 PM CST Let's explore Vetting New Partners. Zoom: us06web.zoom.us/j/84858429458?pwd=e…

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

For just $5/month, you can join our Cheer Squad on Patreon! 💗 Get sneak peeks, behind-the-scenes content & help keep BDSM education going strong. Join today: patreon.com/subguide #subguide #patreonperks #supportsubmission #bdsmeducation #cheersquad

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 09/03/2026

Registration is open for the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit (March 23–26). 4 days. 20 educators. Focused conversations about power exchange, sustainability, and skill-building in D/s. Fully virtual. Free during the live window. Register here: subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.c…

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 09/03/2026

“No kind of sensation is keener and more active than pain it’s impressions are unmistakable.” Marquis DeSade

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 09/03/2026

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 08/03/2026

Stockroom has been around forever for a reason. If you’re exploring BDSM gear and want a shop that understands quality, safety, and consent-forward kink, this is one of the places I still trust and recommend. 🔗 www.stockroom.com/?acc=6ea9ab1baa0e… #affiliate #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 08/03/2026

#SubAffirmation – I trust myself to learn, adapt, and thrive in my submission. If this is your affirmation today, drop a 💛 in the replies. #subguide Deepen your practice: 365daysofsubmission.com

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies covers the 30 most common BDSM emergencies, how to build and maintain a dungeon first aid kit, and other essential safety information. amzn.to/2lduRgW #affiliate #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

#KinkTip - If erotic authority excites you, permission can deepen intimacy. Asking your Dominant before doing something sensual turns the moment into connection, not just action. #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

📣 This month's featured read is here! Join Submissive Guide on Patreon as a Library Card Patron and receive "Submissive Reflection" as your reward. Expand your BDSM education today: subgui.de/patreon #bookofthemonth #patreon #subguide

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

"When all Americans are treated as equal, no matter who they are or whom they love, we are all more free." - President Barack Obama

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

🎉 Shoutout to our amazing listeners! Your support keeps us going. The newest episode of Submissive Guide Podcast is out now - let us know your favorite part! 🎧 subgui.de/podcast #PodcastFans #CommunityLove #NewEpisode

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

Arguments happen—even in D/s. What matters most is how you handle them. 🖤 Cool off before reacting 🖤 Speak as equals 🖤 Use “I” messages 🖤 Brainstorm, don’t battle 🖤 End with kindness or forgiveness bit.ly/5WaysResolveDsConflict #BDSM #D/s #subguide #kink #healthyrelationships

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Submissive Guide @subguide.bsky.social · 07/03/2026

“Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly.” — Rose Franken

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