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T- 2 minutes till curtain up on The Mad King! I can’t take any photos but needless to say what I’ve seen of the set waiting for it to begin is very exciting. So proud to represent @kissedbyfirepod.bsky.social for this amazing opportunity. If you listen to the show and you’re here, come say hi!

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Star Wars universe: the name for the race Mon Calamari seems a bit on the nose, right?

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Obie @obienator.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Almost time! #TheMadKing

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

Well. Stick your jealousy goggles on. I’m in Stratford-Upon-Avon with the gorgeous and amazing @obienator.bsky.social ready to be joined by @ragmanspod.bsky.social tomorrow for The Mad King!!!* *if it’s not cancelled.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

I’m wondering this too. Or maybe they just “forgot” about Rhaenyra’s other children 🙄

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Bword @bword.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

Thinking about HotD and @steflyoness.bsky.social’s constant wondering where the Gay Abandon has been… I just wondered if Aegon, Larys and Tyland are now heading to Essos, if maybe they’ll end up on the same ship… @kissedbyfirepod.bsky.social

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

I’m so sorry for the monster I have brought forth.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

He had better not. Didn't know he was a flight risk 😂

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

Cat came home! I think he went into some nearby woods. I went there too. He must have followed me back. Didn't know that he was behind me though. Why? The little rascal had lost his collar. He had a mucky face and a bare neck. But he's been washed and has a new purple bell. LOVE HIM SO MUCH.

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Cute Black Cat with Large Eyes in Bath

ALT: Cute Black Cat with Large Eyes in Bath

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 08/07/2026

Can you come bring him home? I miss him so much.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

My cat is missing and I am 😭😭😭😭😭😭

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

Those are his new house words.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 30/06/2026

Really tired. Would like to sleep. But I'm pretty sure there are cows doing it in a field nearby my house. Wish me luck.

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Good Morning Moo

ALT: Good Morning Moo

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 18/06/2026

Keep forgetting about Bluesky. What's been happening, beautiful people?

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 18/06/2026

It's all fine. I'll protect you.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

My instinct is to hide. BUT. Please, if you want to, share this post far and wide. People who are going through similar should know they are seen. I wish I could say there is always hope. I can't. But. To those of us who have connected in this small but important community: you are not alone xxx

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

To all people who have supported Kissed By Fire, I love you very much. That podcast has kept me going through thick and thin. Tomorrow, @bword.bsky.social and I are sorting out next steps to make sure we can keep on truckin'. We love you all.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

It's not just that, though. I am trying to leave my (abusive) marriage. It's fucking hard. It's part of the problem. So there's a lot going on. But hiding and pretending isn't doing much for me anymore. I need to write. I need to reach out. Feeling alone is shitty.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

And yes, I am a food writer. I see the irony. Food is a huge pleasure. Perhaps that's part of my problem: the denial of pleasure? I keep being told if I don't sort this out I am going to die. The ambivalence to that is something I am trying to sort through.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

It's a resurgence of an ED I had years ago, rearing its ugly head once again. I'm now in treatment and, honestly, it's a full time fucking job seeing all the people and being monitored all the live long day.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

I haven't posted much in a while. But I wanted to show y'all my absolute genius with The Rubik's Cube. It's utterly incredible, I know. Apologies for my face, I'd been travelling and had almost no sleep and no make-up but my big brain makes up for that, I'm sure.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 08/09/2025

Please remind me where exactly it was that Khal Drogo died and Danaerys did the funeral pyre? I wants to know.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 27/08/2025

Absolutely! And it was so good. Amazing band, amazing set, incredible performer.

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

Chappell Roan tonight was incredible! 🦄🤠

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 18/08/2025

Totally misjudged where I was while distractedly running for a bus. Fell over a low wall I didn’t see and landed right on my old noggin. I have learned many lessons from this! 😂

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StefLyoness @steflyoness.bsky.social · 08/08/2025

I actually LOVE parallel parking (no cap). But DEAR LORD I wish to ride a dragon 🐉 and burn my enemies.

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