iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Here we go!!! Home from work and heading out with @matty.wtf to see Liz Phair and Sleater Kinney, then all weekend at Riot Fest! Plus, we saw Bikini Kill on Monday. Busy week of awesome shows!!

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 12/09/2026

Found a canister for my protein powder that actually fits my house. I love shopping for everyday stuff when all the spooky/stuff is out. It’s way easier to find skulls, bats, and ravens!

A white ceramic canister with a black lid, covered in a black bat silhouette pattern. The lid has a small bat figure on top with painted white wing details and orange eyes, sitting on a kitchen counter.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 09/09/2026

Boss is upset that he can’t add an appointment to the schedule of someone who is out of office that day. I really can’t sometimes.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 02/09/2026

She uses spreadsheets like scratch paper - info just randomly scattered across the screen.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 02/09/2026

My boss was complaining that her phone hasn’t been working right. I took a look at it at her request. She had 590 browser tabs open, among other issues. I just really can’t sometimes.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 31/08/2026

He was pretty great. One of them was an acoustic show at a smaller theater where he told lots of stories about his career.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 31/08/2026

Introduce yourself with 5 artists you’ve seen at least twice: Winona Fighter The Cure John Prine Billy Idol Bad Religion

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 25/08/2026

So sad, she was an icon.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 25/08/2026

I really do love it. Plus it was like $10

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 25/08/2026

Did I buy myself a skull hoodie in the boys department? Yes I did. I will not be taking any questions.

Selfie in a car of a woman with dark hair with blue streaks, wearing purple cat-eye glasses and a crescent moon pendant necklace. She’s wearing a gray zip-up hoodie covered in a black skull and crossbones print, worn open over a black top. Neutral, deadpan expression.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 22/08/2026

It’s definitely very bi of me lol

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 22/08/2026

Cleaning the house and decided to take a break. This is how I chose to sit down. Cool cool, this is definitely why my hips hate me and not a medical mystery at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Overhead view of a person sitting on a brown leather couch with one leg propped up along the couch arm, foot resting near a low wooden coffee table stacked with card games including Cards Against Humanity-style boxes, Zombie Kittens, and Poetry for Neanderthals. A patterned area rug and carpet are visible around the table.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 13/08/2026

So much tuna! But you’re doing so awesome with everything!!

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 13/08/2026

You look great, babe!!! Awesome work! 😍😍

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 06/08/2026

4 years smoke-free today. 20+ years of smoking cigarettes before that. Still weird that my hands don’t know what to do sometimes but here we are.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 04/08/2026

Truly bad day at work. Then @matty.wtf shows up at my house unexpectedly with a bunch of my favorite candy. I adore this guy.

Flat lay of the candy Matty brought: Skor, 100 Grand, Reese’s peanut butter cups, and Sour Patch Kids on a wood table, with books, a crocheted cat in bisexual-flag colors, and a purple foam cat-shaped dish that my daughter made holding the earrings I wore at for the backyard wedding last year.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 29/07/2026

@matty.wtf is out of town for work and I miss him enormously. That is all.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 28/07/2026

Said therapist loved the shirt.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 28/07/2026

I’m annoyed that I didn’t catch that it auto corrected with an apostrophe before I posted.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 28/07/2026

Am I going to therapy in a shirt that says “thou shalt ingest a satchel of Richard’s” Yes I am.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 27/07/2026

I would say exactly the same about the fabulous @matty.wtf. Here’s to the first of many more amazing years. In this chaotic, messed up, frustrating world it’s so lovely to have this kind of happiness together.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 18/07/2026

The one closest to my work is in a wealthy suburb so it’s extra filled with white women who will run you over while they shop like they’re alone in the store.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 18/07/2026

The worst is any time I have to go to Trader Joe’s. Not a single person in there has any awareness that other people are in the store.

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 17/07/2026

Poster - from Five Below of all places!

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stef rose @stefinitely.cool · 17/07/2026

The basement gym isn’t particularly well lit, but there can still be a rest break selfie

Stef rests between weightlifting sets in a dimly lit basement, looking directly at the camera with a focused, slightly serious expression. She wears purple-framed glasses, a burgundy sleeveless workout top, and a smartwatch, with one arm resting across the other. Black tattoos on the visible arm include a goth-style pinup girl, a cat sitting on a crescent moon surrounded by stars, and several small stars near the shoulder. Behind them is a black-and-white mural of skeletons surrounded by plants, creating a moody, gothic backdrop.

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