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Award-winning domestic abuse and sexual violence charity. For help, call us on 0808 2800 999. We listen, we believe, we act. stayingput.org.uk

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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 5h
Common myths around sexual abuse: ❎ It's mostly perpetrated by a stranger... ✅ 80-90% are committed by someone the survivor knows. #VAWG, #NotOKNeverOK #DomesticAbuseAwarenessMonth
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 10h
Are you interested in supporting Staying Put today? Every act of support helps us carry out the vital services that we provide for domestic abuse and sexual violence survivors based in the Bradford District and West Yorkshire as a whole. To support Staying Put, visit the link in bio. #StayingPut
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
Did you know...? Our accommodation services can accept accommodation referrals from anywhere outside of West Yorkshire- enabling us to help more people in crisis. Find out more about our accommodation service here: buff.ly/qIUqeSC #VAWG #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
We understand that there are many challenges to accessing support for people who are subjected to domestic abuse and sexual violence. These challenges increase for people from under represented communities.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
How can your business help us? We would love to have your support to help us continue the vital work we do, and would love to have a conversation with you about what a mutually beneficial partnership looks like 👉 buff.ly/v4511nR #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
A big thank you to our amazing supporters who raise free funds for us on #easyfundraising. If you're not signed up yet, please join today and you can raise free donations for Staying Put every time you shop online this autumn. All the big retailers are ready to make a free donation at no extra ⬇️
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Domestic abuse is about power and control and its impact can continue long after a relationship ends. The Guardian has spoken to survivors about their experiences of former partners who are now involved in far-right street patrols, highlighting the ongoing impact of abuse and coercive control. ⬇️
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
We have a predominantly female workforce, but we are trained to take calls from male survivors too. We will never judge you 👉 buff.ly/AjBJCwE #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Coercive control is a behaviour where the abuser uses ongoing oppression to instill fear. Find out more about domestic abuse here ➡️ buff.ly/YgkGrgQ #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Have you seen our Survivor Squad page yet? Survivor Squad is a page dedicated to the survivors of domestic and/or sexual abuse, who have bravely shared their story with us. Check it out here 👉 buff.ly/3UY66m7 #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Abuse doesn’t always stop when someone leaves. Technology can be used to monitor, threaten and control survivors — from location tracking and social media to connected devices. Whether abuse happens online or offline, it is still abuse. Read our blog post here: buff.ly/8FRqu1v
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Honouring Gisèle Pelicot, and all survivors of sexual violence. Gisèle Pelicot’s decision to waive her anonymity has helped bring vital conversations about sexual violence, consent and abuse into the public eye.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
£50 could pay for a small mobile phone, pre-loaded with emergency contacts and a personal safety alarm app, to help someone fleeing abuse stay safe. Find out how you can fundraise for Staying Put here ➡️ buff.ly/4aW4qzv #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
What is sexual violence? 🤔 Sexual violence is a term used to describe any form of unwanted sexual behaviour or acts. Find out more here 👉 buff.ly/1i8a9NR #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Sexual violence is never the survivor’s fault. Survivors deserve to be heard, believed and treated with dignity, compassion and respect — whether they choose to report, speak publicly or remain private.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
'Ashley' wasn’t used to making decisions because her husband organised everything. But when he made threats against her daughter, we supported her ➡️ buff.ly/K4Nct0g #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
We can help you if you need support following an act (or acts) of sexual violence. It doesn’t matter how long ago it was, if you need support you can contact us and we will help you 👉 buff.ly/n4KGxMY #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
We know recent news about sentencing changes may be worrying, particularly if you are waiting to understand what they mean for your case. We do not believe the changes go far enough to protect survivors of domestic abuse.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Did you know...? Our accommodation services can accept accommodation referrals from anywhere outside of West Yorkshire- enabling us to help more people in crisis. Find out more about our accommodation service here: buff.ly/qIUqeSC #VAWG #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
It is great to see that the Prime Minister has announced that specialist courts to handle cases of rape and other sexual offences will be introduced across England and Wales over the next two years. Read more from BBC News 👉 buff.ly/X433qwa
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Recording people without their knowledge or consent can be deeply invasive and distressing. As wearable technology develops, we must ensure it cannot become another means of watching, harassing or controlling women and girls in their everyday lives.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
🚨 We’re growing – and we want YOU to be part of it! 🚨 Could you be the next person to join our team? 👀 👉 Check out our current vacancies here: buff.ly/krq7Wtf Please share this post with anyone who might be a great fit! 📣 #DomesticAbuse #SupportServices #VAWG
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
We are not a service just for women or heterosexuals, so if you live in Bradford, identify as LGBT+, and you need help, we are here for you. 👉 buff.ly/TxRehUh #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Our CEO and Yorkshire Regional Chair of Domestic Abuse Housing Alliance, Yasmin Khan, will be speaking at Westminster Insight’s Tackling Domestic Abuse Conference tomorrow.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Our One Front Door helpline is open to anybody who needs help – whether you are a victim or survivor, a friend or family member of someone who needs help, a professional who needs advice for a client, or a perpetrator who wants to address your behaviour. Read more here buff.ly/2lvfuu4
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Thank you, BGF Foundation, and all our amazing supporters who made this happen! We are so grateful for the opportunity to continue delivering our services across West Yorkshire and beyond. #BGFFoundation #StayingPut #StayingPutSupporters
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
We know recent news about sentencing changes may be worrying, particularly if you are waiting to understand what they mean for your case. We do not believe the changes go far enough to protect survivors of domestic abuse.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
£500 could buy a laptop and internet connection, helping child victims of abuse to stay connected with friends and complete homework projects on time. Find out how you can support children fleeing abuse by fundraising for Staying Put here ➡️ buff.ly/4aW4qzv #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Have you spotted signs that your friend or family member is experiencing domestic abuse? Read how to help them here buff.ly/RtPBU4t #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
We are proud to invite you to a special one-day showcase of Untold Stories, a powerful collection of creative work produced by women who have been subjected to domestic abuse and coercive control.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Our Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (ISVA) can support anyone who has been the victim of sexual violence – whether this happened two days ago or 30 years ago Find out more here ➡️ buff.ly/GQXDaBj #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
We’re happy to share that our CEO and Yorkshire Regional Chair of Domestic Abuse Housing Alliance, Yasmin Khan, will be speaking at Westminster Insight’s Tackling Domestic Abuse Conference this September. The conference will explore: 👉 The national policy context for domestic abuse
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
We’re delighted to showcase artwork created by women who have survived domestic abuse and coercive control. Across six weeks, participants explored who they are, what they have experienced and who they are becoming through art, storytelling, drama and movement.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Amy's family are a perfect example of having open conversations about domestic abuse and using Clare's Law to understand if abuse has occurred before. They never pushed her to leave, but kept the door open for her. buff.ly/Lro8ROt #VAWG #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
🚨 We’re growing – and we want YOU to be part of it! 🚨 If you’re passionate about making a real difference to people’s lives, we are currently looking for: 🏠 Domestic Abuse Specialists – Raneem’s Law Could you be the next person to join our team? 👀
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
We have previously called on the government to stop the weaponisation of violence against women and girls by far-right groups and politicians to promote racist, anti-migrant agendas. Why does the hard right have such a high tolerance for domestic abusers in their midst? ➡️ buff.ly/AgvZo8y
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
47% of survivors of non-physical domestic abuse have experienced suicidal thoughts. Behind this statistic are people living with the impact of coercive control, emotional, psychological and financial abuse. Domestic abuse isn't always visible, but its effects on mental health can be profound.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Suicide Prevention Day | Start the Conversation Domestic abuse doesn't always leave visible injuries, but its impact can be profound. Coercive control, emotional, psychological and financial abuse can leave people feeling isolated, overwhelmed and struggling to see a way forward.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
We have specially-trained Independent Domestic Violence Advisors who can help survivors of all forms of domestic abuse. Read more about what they do here buff.ly/nHeFPv3 #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Our One Front Door helpline is open to anybody who needs help – whether you are a victim or survivor, a friend or family member of someone who needs help, a professional who needs advice for a client, or a perpetrator who wants to address your behaviour. Read more here buff.ly/2lvfuu4 #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Did you know...? Our accommodation services can accept accommodation referrals from anywhere outside of West Yorkshire- enabling us to help more people in crisis. Find out more about our accommodation service here: buff.ly/qIUqeSC #VAWG #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
If you're a professional, take a look at our handbook produced with Survive and Thrive. It's designed to help those working in the health and social care sectors know what services are on offer. buff.ly/WcZlPp7 #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
🚨 We’re growing – and we want YOU to be part of it! 🚨 We’re excited to announce a fantastic range of new opportunities across Bradford and Wakefield, following our recent contract wins! 🎉 🧵👇
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
We are deeply saddened by the death of Gloria Steinem, a pioneering journalist, activist and advocate for women's rights. Throughout her life, she used her platform to raise awareness of issues affecting women and girls, including domestic abuse, harmful practices such as female genital mutilation 🧵
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Natasha had been a victim of coercive control and was estranged from her family when she was ferred to us. Read her case study here ➡️ buff.ly/nXqzu19 #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
We are proud to invite you to a special one-day showcase of Untold Stories, a powerful collection of creative work produced by women who have been subjected to domestic abuse and coercive control.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Domestic abuse is any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse by a partner or family member. Find out more here ➡️ buff.ly/dXd5E43 #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
We know recent news about sentencing changes may be worrying, particularly if you are waiting to understand what they mean for your case. We do not believe the changes go far enough to protect survivors of domestic abuse.
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
We can help you if you need support following an act (or acts) of sexual violence. It doesn’t matter how long ago it was, if you need support you can contact us and we will help you 👉 buff.ly/n4KGxMY #NotOKNeverOK
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Staying Put @stayingputuk.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Your voice matters. You are invited to take part in a short, anonymous survey for the Law Society’s family legal aid campaign, in collaboration with Women’s Aid and Rights of Women.
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