Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 05/07/2025trying to blame nick for delays is crazy. and idc if it is nick’s fault (which it’s not), i’m squarely on his side on this one. as an actor it makes zero sense to put your career on hold solely for concepts of a script. until he has a finalized script in his hands, it’s fair game 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 01/07/2025anyway i’ve been so stressed that my immune system decided to peace out and i somehow caught a cold in the middle of a heatwave ✌🏽 it’s 90 degrees out and i’ve been coughing like a sick victorian child 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 28/06/2025squid game season 3 is what depression feels like 👍🏽 (i actually think the ending is great, but man is it a gut punch 😭) 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 17/06/2025y’all i need prayers and major good vibes thrown my way 🙏🏽 (i got good news for once but i need all the spiritual help i can get 🥰) 100
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 13/06/2025kids these days have no culture because i made a “it’s just a flesh wound” joke and no one knew wtf i was talking about /s/ i feel so old 😭 (i’m not even 30)media.tenor.coma woman is holding her hands to her face and saying `` oh , i 'm like the crypt keeper '' .ALT: a woman is holding her hands to her face and saying `` oh , i 'm like the crypt keeper '' . 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 07/06/2025i sacrificed clarity to try to make creative topic titles so if you need me to explain just hmu 🤙🏽 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 07/06/2025me (who hates drama) creating drama on the internet:media.tenor.coma drag queen is standing in front of an orange background and asking is it me ? am i the drama ?ALT: a drag queen is standing in front of an orange background and asking is it me ? am i the drama ? 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 07/06/2025before you guys priv quote me to hell please note that this is satire 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 07/06/2025hello everyone & welcome to summer school! please feel free to take notes 210
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/06/2025“how is alex the fandom’s punching bag” bestie how much time do you have because not only can i write an entire dissertation about this but i can create a whole syllabus with supporting bibliography and actual statistics 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 04/06/2025also this is not an excuse to hate on henry who is amazing and precious so don’t bring that energy around me pleasemedia.tenor.coma woman is holding a stick and making a face with the words blocking negativity like below herALT: a woman is holding a stick and making a face with the words blocking negativity like below her 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 04/06/2025to be clear i adore henry and i love henry and alex equally but i’m kind of tired of alex being the fandom’s punching bag when his only crimes are *checks notes* having adhd, not understanding his sexuality fast enough, and disliking someone who dismissed him outright 100
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 03/06/2025reading comprehension is dead bc what do you mean people think alex is a himbo as if his entire laidback personality isn’t his own suit of armor that he wears bc he commits to things so deeply and feels like he’s too much and so he’s terrified of getting his heart broken 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 03/06/2025alex claremont-diaz was smart enough to get into law school on a whim and yet some of you act like he was the stupidest and most oblivious person to ever walk the planet 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 30/05/2025got my parents hooked on suits and you know the chemistry between gabriel and patrick is 🔥 because my dad hopped in the middle of s4 and spent an entire season confused as hell because he thought harvey and mike were actually brothers and so i had to pause and explain the lore 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 12/05/2025nick is his own person and shouldn’t have been brought into the convo at all, but some of you need to learn to read the fucking room 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 12/05/2025saying race doesn’t matter re: tzp’s career when thousands and thousands of brown and black people in america are being targeted and fired from their jobs right now because “dei” is under attack is certainly a choice… 100
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 21/03/2025here’s the thing: there are plenty of ways to say “i hear you and acknowledge the problem, but i’m not prepared to point any fingers yet because i don’t have enough information about what happened, but i’m looking into it” that doesn’t take weeks and sweep colorism under the rug 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 21/02/2025leaving this here and then logging off, because i’m really tired of being labeled as the one miserable rwrb stan account for simply pointing out how fandom racism and microaggressions go unchecked www.teenvogue.com/story/on-whi...teenvogue.comQueer Fandom Isn't a Utopia, Part 2The second you remind people that you’re also a person of color and that matters to you as much as your queerness does, it becomes a problem for far too many people in queer fandom spaces. 110
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 21/02/2025friendly reminder that whitewashing and white-centeredness doesn’t stop at just making a poc character’s skin color lighter, but a lot of y’all aren’t ready for that conversation 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 13/02/2025i’m not that big into astrology, but i’m blaming my crash out the past few days on this leo full moon. because my level of unhingedness has been insane even for me, so wtf is going on? 100
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 13/02/2025sorry but i don’t think henry/others in the context of making alex miserable is fun actually you can enjoy the thought of henry/harry without making it all about how alex would react or be upset about it 010
Reposted by Becca🌸🌺zee @handle.invalid · 13/02/2025healing is not linear one day you feel so good you're like nothing can set you back but then something triggers you and you're back where you started be kind to yourself always and be kind to others people are going through things they don't talk about ❤️🩹 2153
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025and to be clear - the problem isn’t that this trope exists or that people like it. it’s that a good chunk of this fandom can’t separate alex’s bi crisis from this trope, and so alex’s realization of his sexuality is often inextricably tied to jealousy and toxicity 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025and the sad thing is i actually really liked this trope before it became the standard for how his bi crisis is written 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025i’m just going to be blunt: as a late-blooming bisexual, the way this fandom overwhelmingly treats alex’s late realization of his sexuality like it’s a biblical sin that he has to repent for by watching henry be the city bicycle is downright insulting. 110
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025and no one is saying you can’t write or enjoy certain tropes. but that also needs to go hand-in-hand with some self-awareness 010
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025so i’m sorry, but if you can’t see how me calling out how the brown main character is treated differently in fic than the white main character is different from criticizing specific fic and authors, then you’re part of the problem 120
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025a fandom’s representation stems in large part from how it treats characters in fic. ex -> the stucky shippers getting labeled as misogynistic for how it treats canon female romantic interests. it’s the responsibility of the fandom to call out these tropes and trends. 140
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025as an anthropology/sociology major whose research interest is specifically how music can be used as a form of political protest, i was in awe 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/2025no but kendrick lamar’s halftime performance was actually art. he had the entire country’s eyes on him and he made such a pointed statement about the political atmosphere of this country without actually doing anything that trump can use against him in court 110
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 10/02/20252 back-to-back sacks and an interception leading straight to a touchdown. mahomes was clearly rattled. that’s how you apply pressure 💪🏽 000
Reposted by Becca🌸🌺Mel 💌 | royally married @catalinajune.bsky.social · 09/02/2025Henry has fancied: + Boys who take their studies seriously. + Smelled like cinnamon + Didn’t know how to properly address him + Had a nice ass = Alex. Who is Singular, yes. But who also represents the culmination of everything he’s liked in other men. “I search for you in everyone I meet.” 44313
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 09/02/2025anyway i’m logging off for a bit because i fear i might have kicked the hornet’s nest with that one ✌🏽 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 09/02/2025when you consider how there are almost 2x as many jealous alex fics as there are jealous henry fics, and when you see how jealous!alex is treated in these fics compared to jealous!henry… like nora, i’m just going to let the data speak for itself 💅🏽 100
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 09/02/2025also nick is a real person, not a character. gtfo of here with that shit. 020
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 09/02/2025hot take but all this disgusting body shaming is a direct result of the fandom’s obsessive need to infantilize and babygirl henry. henry has always been tall, broad-shouldered, and strong. he’s never had to be coddled and pampered, but the fandom chooses to ignore that 🤷🏻♀️ 161
Reposted by Becca🌸🌺saz 🌱 @keptinonzebridg.bsky.social · 08/02/2025that’s sequel henry in my mind soz not soz 161
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 08/02/2025forget team taylor or team nick. the real question is are you team ivy or team karen? 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025anyway my hot takes about how the fandom treats certain characters is not permission to hate on the actors. if you have anything negative to say about nick please let me know so i can block you. please and thank you 🙏🏽 031
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025to be clear, i’m talking about how a disproportionate amount of the jealousy trope stories make it a point to use alex’s bi awakening and henry’s slut phase as a means primarily to make alex suffer. but the alex/nora dynamic and how nora is portrayed is definitely relevant. 020
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025i’m more so thinking about the jealousy trope and the pattern of how the bi awakening is used primarily to create drama centered around hurting alex, but yes this as well! the alex/nora dynamic is so misunderstood 020
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025what makes cmq’s stories like rwrb and the pairing so important is that their characters embrace and take ownership of their sexualities and gender identities. but only the brown character suffers for it in the fandom. and it’s wild to me that i even have to point this out. 020
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025it really feels like this fandom likes to punish him for not realizing his sexuality faster. 150
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025one of the things i love best about rwrb is how cmq treated alex’s bi awakening. it helped me come to terms with my own sexuality. so to have alex’s bi crisis consistently be reduced to the butt of a joke or a ploy to make him suffer is actually really fucking disheartening. 291
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025am i being toxic? probably. but the double standards in this fandom are honestly so exhausting 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 06/02/2025you know what? i’m tired of slut henry. where’s slut alex? fair’s fair, let’s have it the other way around for once. give me the stories where henry cries himself to sleep because he has to listen to alex fuck other people. /this is sarcasm/ 000
Becca🌸🌺 @springforaspell.bsky.social · 04/02/2025i said it once but i’ll say it again. the way jealous alex is treated by this fandom vs jealous henry seems microaggressive af henry gets a light slap on the wrist but you want alex to sufferrrrrrr 110