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you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. wise wise words from oomf

how can they fucking keep posting blatant lies about me yet then complain that i’m retaliating? how do they expect me to move on when i know for a fact that they’ve evidentially not changed and aren’t sorry for abusing me? and they’re wrapping their new young victim around their finger.

you even said in april 2025 that you’d been single for over a year, when april 2024 was literally when you were in my house n we went to london, we broke up in july 2025. im tired of your fucking lies. i’ve tried to move on, but you STILL won’t let me.

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sky high and i was dealing with shit to do with my at the time undiagnosed endometriosis. yet i still tried, i did go to london with you, showed you the sights. which i now realise you just used me for that trip cus you knew you weren’t coming back, so it didn’t matter how i felt.

i wouldn’t of “crawled out of my den” if YOU didn’t say “expensive flights and train just to be next to someone who ignored me for two weeks straight”. you provoked ME. i ‘ignored you for two weeks straight’ yet you still begged me to take you to london sight seeing, when id told you my anxiety was-

and if you want me to stop ‘stalking’ you as you love to put it, stop fucking talking about me as if i abused you, when you admitted to understanding why i ignored you, cus you SA’d me REPEATEDLY and ignored my lack of consent over and over again, you made me feel unsafe in my own home.

every single person i’ve known in the online biker/motorcycle community is either a hypocrite, an abuser or sticks up for their abuser mates. to my abuser if you’re seeing this. to an extent you win, i won’t tell any of your biker mutuals again what you did to me. turns out you’re all monsters.

person. you could of asked me for extra screenshots but instead you went behind my back to screenshot my vulnerable posts that take me a lot of strength to put online. if wanting to protect another 20 year old from an abuser who HASNT changed makes me a stalker, cool.

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so you’re an abuser apologist nevada stray cat. good to know how safe the biker community is. they repeatedly sexually assaulted me, cheated on me, ADMITTED they were a monster for what they did to me, and have been spreading shit about me ‘ignoring them’ when we were together painting ME as the bad

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and now they’re dating another 20ish year old. i stg it’s a pattern. the 4 last people they’ve tried to date in the last maybe 4 years have been in their very early 20s. they said they’d change and date someone older, but NOPE! course they gravitate to 20yr olds still. shock.

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baring in mind that apology was after they tweeted a whole thread admitting to abusing me but then playing the victim by saying they were going to kill themself over it. this is the main bit cus i’d be here all day if i reposted all the screenshots. i really should of known they didn’t mean it

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i’m so used to saying tweet lol, i mean post

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@nevada-stray-cat.bsky.social im really sorry i couldn’t figure out how to dm you, but ive noticed you’ve liked george’s tweet above and wanted to let you know what kind of person they are in real life and have admitted to being. and this is only a fraction of it.

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their apologies were all just empty words. i knew it really. they’ve said a lot of blatant lies on bluesky about them and us. first screenshot is their direct apology to me, other 2 screenshots are dms they sent to a mutual.

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i feel hurt all over again. their forced ‘apology’ for sexually assaulting me and constantly pushing my boundaries with my disabilities very clearly meant nothing. i also didn’t ignore them for two weeks straight, i literally couldn’t. they’d made me vulnerable in my own home.

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like wtf??? like idk, maybe cus a decent person would want to know if they follow a sexual and emotional abuser??? especially as a lot of you bikers like to travel and meet up with other bikers?? never asked them to get involved, just gave them public information. asshole.

just waiting for someone in the motorcycle community to actually be nice and not nasty and unhinged, a creep or an old dude who defends creepy behaviour.

how to make a survivor of sexual assault and emotional abuse not want to share their story: @‘d them to let them know about my abuser, they asked me why i @‘d them instead of dming (i don’t know how to dm), then they flipped out???

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you even said yourself that this is the internet and you support survivors, so why flip out over being @‘d about information i’d like u to know, if there would of been no issue with me dming you the same public information? jfc

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i wasn’t trying to start shit with you and this isn’t an ‘internet fight’. this is me sharing my abuse story, to someone who i THOUGHT seemed nice. never said it was ‘your problem’, this is just fucking nasty. you even said you’d block them, why not leave it at that? why be so damn hostile?

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this is unhinged af. why are you blocking me and jumping to conclusions. me saying i trusted you more than the old biker men who follow my abuser is not me saying i fully trust you. i just wanted to tell someone in the biker community about what they did. i said i don’t know how to dm???

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sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 09/07/2025

cus out of the 3 people i’ve seen them interact with a lot, i trusted you the most, you gave good vibes. i don’t really use bluesky much so i don’t know how to dm on here

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cus how did they think “i thought they were 25/26”? that means their 30 year old ass didn’t think to ask someone for their age or telling them their own age before going on a date with them. they shouldn’t even be dating anyway but that’s beside the point.

sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 09/07/2025

but then again i can’t blame myself for dating them, they love bombed the shit out of me before telling me their age, n by that point my young naive ass was too invested. i didn’t know better. n tbh it seems like they’ve done the exact same thing again with this person.

sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 09/07/2025

oh they’re for real 30 and dating someone around the age of 20… fucking creep. can’t believe i dated that ugly pervy mf

sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 03/07/2025

oomf said something really good “if everyone you date is so young you have to ask others if it's okay and make excuses, maybe that's a sign”. couldn’t have worded it better myself.

sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 03/07/2025

they’re currently 30 and pursuing someone around the age of 20 again. this is a trend with them, always pursuing someone too young for them and never older.

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sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 03/07/2025

hey! sorry i just saw this, it’s fine dw 🫂

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not so friendly reminder that georgie / riceandbeans sexually assaulted and abused me. it still pains me to see mutuals following them. they’re only on bksy cus they left twitter and the twitter vegan community because rightfully so most people cut them off and they weren’t getting posi attention.

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that’s what the third m means right?

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n considering george didn’t bat an eyelid or tell me anything about this, clearly goes to show that birds of a feather flock together. they objectified me and allowed their band to objectify that girl. disgusting.

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also something else i’d like to put on record. their band häns & friends is gross too, in i think it was june 2024, they were cracking jokes about george getting with a vegan girl who they were flirting with, and that “she’s easy, she’ll probably turn up to your door naked”.

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we broke up in july 2024, so how had they been single since at least april 2024??? IN APRIL 2024 THEY WERE LITERALLY STAYING AT MY HOUSE AND IN MY BED AND CRYING CUS I WOULDNT SHOWER WITH THEM ALL THE TIME (they had SAd me in the shower btw)

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it’s also evident they haven’t changed, some context, in the last year of our relationship they were cheating on me and they used the excuse “well it felt like we weren’t together anyway” to excuse their behaviour. in april i saw this post. wdym you’ve been single for well over a year?

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n of course their main communities now are the motorcycle community and the bills mafia community, cus most of the vegan community on here i’m pretty sure knows what they did.

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sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

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being a gardener is so rewarding, i love growing 🌱🌱🌱

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sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 18/10/2024

please block my abuser, thank you.

screenshot of my abusive ex’s account, username @riceandbeans.bsky.social

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sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 21/02/2025

why follow me if you support the USA and russia rather than indigenous americans and ukraine.. if you’re here and you’re a tankie and/or western imperialist, you are lost babes. genocide supporters and imperialists aren’t welcome here

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Krime @krime.bsky.social · 16/02/2025

Not your fucking dinner 🐮

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sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 01/02/2025

currently recovering from my major surgery and coming to terms with my diagnosis of endometriosis 🥲

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sage Ⓥॐ🏴 @soybivore.bsky.social · 05/01/2025

forgot to post but happy new year :))